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He wont take his medication and it is ruining our relationship! Should I leave him for good?

Q.   My boyfriend has bipolar disorder which makes him have over the top up and down moods. He refuses to take the tablets he should be taking. He loses his temper over the slightest thing. We get into huge arguments in which he throws stuff and blames ...

A.   28 November 2010: All helpful answers-Thankyou. xx... (read in full...)

Why does she want space? It is so hard to wait for her!

Q.   So me and my gf have been dating for a year and a half now, we fell on hard times where i was involved in an accident and people died but she stuck right there. i lost my drivers license and depended on her a lot. so i went to deer camp on a sat but ...

A.   25 November 2010: If you leave her for a bit, dont contact her and respect her need for space shell probly come back to you.... (read in full...)

My teacher is 2 different people around me! When we are alone he is great, but in front of others he makes me the butt of jokes!

Q.   hey guys. so i'm in a really confusing situation, my teacher is 43 i think hes married because at the begining of last year he wore a wedding ring but now doesn't, and i'm well 16. and the problem is things are tense and i dont know why, and i c...

A.   25 November 2010: Maby he likes you but he knows its wrong so he acts up around other people. I would say don't talk to him, try and ignore it, he'll probly just deny it because he could loose his job over this.... (read in full...)

He wont take his medication and it is ruining our relationship! Should I leave him for good?

Q.   My boyfriend has bipolar disorder which makes him have over the top up and down moods. He refuses to take the tablets he should be taking. He loses his temper over the slightest thing. We get into huge arguments in which he throws stuff and blames ...

A.   25 November 2010: How can i persuade him to take his medication? If I be forceful it offends him and pushes him away, because he doesn't want to face up to it. Anyone with bipolar disorder, or who knows someone with it?... (read in full...)

He wont take his medication and it is ruining our relationship! Should I leave him for good?

Q.   My boyfriend has bipolar disorder which makes him have over the top up and down moods. He refuses to take the tablets he should be taking. He loses his temper over the slightest thing. We get into huge arguments in which he throws stuff and blames ...

A.   25 November 2010: The reason he gives is that they give him side effects ie make him tired and drowsy, and he doesnt want to change.... (read in full...)

I'm scared I'm obsessed with my ex!!!

Q.   Can someone help me? I'm scared i'm obsessed with my ex. Hes actually not even my ex, just a guy I was talking to for ages and met once but now he's gone back to his ex. If I text him or contact him, he doesnt always reply, I know that he doesnt ...

A.   9 September 2010: lol! its normal, obsessing over what could have been, just try and meet someone else and forget all about him and one day if its ment to be, youll meet again.... (read in full...)

I want more self confidence but just don't know where to start!

Q.   Hey everyone .. need you help =/ over th past few days ive been feeling like crap .. i have no confindence at all .... and i just feel really ugly =/ i just feel like crying =/ school has made it even worse .. im like madly inlove with one of my ma...

A.   9 September 2010: Tell your mum your being bullied about your hair, if she still wont listen dye it anyway, but that will still not fix your confidence. I love auburn hair i wish i had it! Its probly just your own dislike for it that make people make fun of it. Get a ... (read in full...)

Should I talk to him while all his boys are around or wait till I see him after school?

Q.   Dear cupid im 14 and think i like this boy hes an upper class-man and hes a jock. first noticed him at a football game when he ran through the stadium and he saw the crowd. Then i thought he was really attractive and i forgot not to stare so he ca...

A.   9 September 2010: Relax, stop staring he might think your desperate. Just say hi and have a convorsation, while hes not with his friends.... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is having bad dreams about our relationship

Q.   My girlfriend is having bad dreams about our relationship. In her dreams, everything is fine with us until - an ex of mine shows up and gets my attention. She is extremely worried about me leaving her for an ex. She has not met my ex. Any ex....

A.   9 September 2010: It just shows how much you love her so just keep on what your doing-reassuring her, tell her you need her to move on from that so you an both move foward, and that shes much better than your exes and you wouldn't leave her.(and make sure you don't) ... (read in full...)

How do I get over the brake up and get on with my life?

Q.   I'm having a very hard time moving on from my last relationship. It was my first real relationship and it only lasted half a year, but it seems like it was much longer. We broke up about 3 or 4 months ago and while I have made progress I still ...

A.   9 September 2010: Stop fretting and worrying. Move on, drink and party, be relaxed and friendly as often as possible and people will come to you. Look after yourself, get a new haircut and clothes, take up a sport or join a gym or a club to pass the time and meet new ... (read in full...)

I said yes to a threesome now I am second guessing this!

Q.   I'm almost 15 years old and i'm with an older guy. He's 16 turning 17. We've been together for a while about afew months. We fell in love, or atleast I did. And yesterday out of the blue he asked me to join in on a threesome he wants to have with ...

A.   9 September 2010: DONT do it. tell him that it make syou feel like your not good enough and if he still wants you to do it GET RID OF HIM. There will be emotional problems with jealousy, and you thinking back to being there, involved in your boyfriend having sex with ... (read in full...)

How can we overcome the problem of being too familiar with one another?

Q.   i have liked this guy for nearly two years and it turns out he liked me too but we went out and things didnt work because we were way too good friends and it felt a bit weird, so we decided to break-up but i still really like him, so any ideas how i ...

A.   9 September 2010: just keep going, when you do make the transition from friends to boyfriend and girlfriend the closeness and love will be worth it.... (read in full...)

How can I stop psychologically abusing my boyfriend?

Q.   I am afraid I am destroying my relationship with my boyfriend. I am always challenging the things he says and making him feel as if he's wrong to have said them, even though they're nothing important - like him expressing that he likes a film I ...

A.   9 September 2010: Don't be silly. You're just passionate about stuff. Tell him(in a nice way) to man up and stop being a wimp. Try and control(however hard it is) your episodes by breathing and leaving the room when you get worked up.... (read in full...)

I don't want to be alone, but there's no spark in this relationship

Q.   I think I should break-up with my boyfriend, but im terrified of being single! We've been together since christmas and he had apparently really liked me for quite a while before that.....i had just come out of a bad relationship and was just loo...

A.   9 September 2010: Your acting just like friends so come out and tell him you care for him a lot but your going to be friends. You'll be fine once you get used to being single, and you'll still have him there(if he takes it ok)to tallk to if you get lonley.... (read in full...)

I keep pushing men away! What is wrong with me?

Q.   I feel like a mental case, I was in love and engaged to be married, i kept leaving cause i was unhappy, but now that it is all over after 4 yrs and it ended about 7 months ago...im finding it hard to get with any other guy. im okay when there is...

A.   9 September 2010: I have the same problem. Always looking just in case their is something better out there, and not wanting to be tied down no matter how in love you are. It's human nature for some, and a bit of an air sign trait. You've just got to be brave and when ... (read in full...)

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