If fiancee was drugged said no, and doesn't remember, doesn't that qualify her as a virgin?
Q. My fiancee and I are both graduating college next month and getting married this summer. We are both virgins and both wanted to stay that way for marriage. Problem is my fiancee had a situation about 3 years ago, and now she's saying things to...
A. 26 April 2010: I assume that you both want to wait till you get married to have sex with each other because you want a formal commitment before making a physical commitment.
Whether or not she was penetrated in this situation by that guy does not affect t... (read in full...)
After almost 3 years he says he likes me alot but doesn't love me "YET"???!!
Q. Ok so I have a question. I am 21 years old and he is 24 I have been with this guy for almost 3 years. I would think he loves me but when I ask him he always says he is not in love with me. He always says he really likes me a lot but he does not...
A. 26 April 2010: Oh poor you. I had something like this once - a guy who I saw regularly for a long period - who seemed to like me. But like your (ex)boyfriend, who did not love me. Look honey, you've a long life ahead of you, and you need someone in it wh... (read in full...)
Need advice! He appears to love me, but claims not..., and how do I remain friends? Help appreciated!!
Q. Ugh, So My boyfriend of 3 1/2 months broke up with me a week ago. I've been either really happy or really upset since then. Everyone keeps telling me that he was the one that made the mistake of dumping me and everything. I don't know what to do,...
A. 26 April 2010: Sadly, this will not be the last time in your life that this happens to you - it is the risk we take when we start to have feelings for someone - that they will reject us and we will be hurt and alone.
He's made it clear of his position - if he wa... (read in full...)
He's only nice to me when he's got his fix
Q. i had been with my boyfriend two and a half years and we split for three months and decided to give it another go. But about two to three weeks he got back together with his x who he has a child with he says he only did it for his child and didnt ...
A. 26 April 2010: This man is not treating you with love and respect. He is treating you appallingly - and you are letting yourself be treated this way and apparently feel bad that you are.
He is childish, selfish, irresponsible to be spending his money on drugs... (read in full...)
He seems so lazy I'm thinking of leaving
Q. Hi guys, i have a bit of a problem, but doesn't everyone who writes on here! Anyway, i am with this guy, i love him very much, we have been together for almost 11 months, he's lovely, i love pretty much everything about him. There are just a few t...
A. 26 April 2010: You should always assume that your boyfriend does not change.
You are saying:
* he lives at home and has dinner with his family every night, without you, and you have to visit him after that
* he always expects you to visit him, as he has ... (read in full...)
My family may dissown me if I get back with my bf
Q. Just wanted to see what everyones thoughts are on my situation... My boyfriend got violent with me a few weeks ago, he didn't hit me, just pushed me and stuff. I had him arrested that night and have not had him back to the house since then. We a...
A. 26 April 2010: I doubt your family will disown you - they are saying this to let you know how seriously they feel about what he has done.
Technically he has committed an assault, and it is not for you to press charges, but it is the Crown Prosecution Service ... (read in full...)
My friend had sex and now she is really depressed. How can I help her?
Q. I Need Some Help about My Friend. Okay, so she's 15 and had a boyfriend who had sex with her when she didn't want to, and then he broke up with her. she has been really down lately and finds it hard to talk about it. everytime I bring it up or w...
A. 26 April 2010: One of the most tragic things in life is not being able to help people you care about.
That's because, ultimately, people have to help themselves.
I would suggest that you do not bring it up. Just carry on being her friend. If she talks abo... (read in full...)
He loves me but I want to marry and he doesn't
Q. Am I flogging a dead horse? I live with my boyfriend and two other male roommates. My boyfriend tells me he loves me all the time, and does show it sometimes (he is a big tough guy on the outside so it's sometimes rather difficult to get...
A. 26 April 2010: You're right to ensure that you should get a legal bond if you intend to invest money in a joint place and also if you intend to make changes to your life to accommodate him.
That doesn't necessarily have to be marriage - you could make contract... (read in full...)
I don't think about sex when I masturbate?
Q. First of all, sorry for the explicit nature of this question. I'm just wondering if anybody else feels the same way. I'm a virgin (female) and when I masturbate, I can't think about having sex or doing sexual things with another person. Well, I ...
A. 26 April 2010: There is nothing wrong with you at all - quite the contrary.
You are masterbating, you are having an orgasm, and you are not having to imagine anything naughty to do it - perfect.
Personally when I masterbate (and I am over 40 and have had ple... (read in full...)
I want to be as far away from my parents as possible!
Q. My parents were fighting a lot and just not being good parents and not spend a lot of time with me when i was a kid. And i was thinking about it i just dont like them at all i got no desire talking to them or spending time with them and when i m ...
A. 26 April 2010: Get a job when you graduate in a city far away from them and make sure you earn enough money not to have to turn to them for any money.
In my book there is nothing wrong with distancing yourself from your parents - you didn't choose them aft... (read in full...)
Hes going back to his own country, should I cherish the last days together or break it off now?
Q. Hi I am really bummed out cause the guy I started dating for about 2 months is going to move out of the country and go back to his. I know we have not been dating very long but I really like this guy and started to get feelings for him so this ...
A. 26 April 2010: Well you're quite young - would it fit with your career to move to the same country as him?
Or would he plan to return to where youlive when the family issues have ended?
If you can fix it so that you could potentially live in the same... (read in full...)
I stay with him even though he's cheated on me and hit me
Q. ive been with this guy for 11 months now and i feel really attached to him but ive realized that im in an abusive relationship i know its wrong and evreytime i break up its like im forced to go back because he litterally calls me more than 50 times ...
A. 26 April 2010: He has hit you. He is abusive. You must split up with this guy immediately.
You clearly don't live together, so you don't have a financial tie to him. So it should be easier to split up with him than if you had to leave your home to do it. ... (read in full...)
He said I barely talk and thats why he ended things
Q. dear cupid,there is a guy i liked and he asked me out i said yes we broke up after 6 days.the reson why is he said we bearly talked and he is about to ask me out again what should i say?...
A. 26 April 2010: It's quite hard to understand your question: 1. A guy asked you out and you went on a date. 2. 6 days later you broke up? Do you mean that he called you and said he didn't want another date? Or did you have dates in those 6 days and then h... (read in full...)
I cant get over his past! Why sleep with so many women when he is gay, not bi?
Q. I'm a twenty-year-old gay guy. I'm a virgin and I've waited my entire life to find that one right person to share sex with - something so important to me. I understand that sex doesn't have to be something extremely important and that lots of people ...
A. 26 April 2010: Hey hun - you haven't even met him yet! You're crying over someone you've never even met. You might not even like him. Any person you meet with have a past, and it's not sensible or healthy to wonder or worry about someone's past - unless it... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't move out of the house he shares with is ex because of his child! Help!
Q. Hi Guys, I'm new to the site and I need a bit of advice. I have been with my boyfriend for approx 6 months (doesnt sounds long I know), We were friends before and it grew into a relationship. I knew that this guy lived with his ex and 5 y...
A. 26 April 2010: I have a male friend in this situation - he lives with his kids and his ex wife comes round regularly. He doesn't have his girlfriend round very much, because he finds it awkward with the kids, and doesn't want to present the girlfriend as a ... (read in full...)
Feeling lonely with boyfriend working long hours
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2.5 years now. He is a chef and works long hours which means we don't get to see each other much and we dont live together yet. Lately I have been feeling very lonely and been finding his job and hour...
A. 25 April 2010: I'm afraid that this is your problem, not his, and it is up to you to fix it. He has always worked long hours, and you should assume that he always will. Therefore, it is up to you to enjoy your life accepting this situation. If you are ... (read in full...)
Why did I sleep with him when I despise him?
Q. A while ago, I started dating a my roommates friend who I hardly knew. I understand what a mistake that was. We ended the relationship after about a month. We didn't see each other again for a while but when we did, we resolved to be friends. After ...
A. 25 April 2010: Because you were drunk? Because you were lonely? Because you wanted to know you could? Because you wanted intimacy with anyone? But probably because you were drunk. Don't drink so much in future, bad things always happen. ... (read in full...)
She went from warm to cold in 48 hours..what happened?
Q. Right guys, this will be long, been seeing a girl now for 6 weeks or so, everything was going great. We really clicked, loads in common, she kept saying we should go here and do this go here and do that, which i was cool with. I did the same and...
A. 25 April 2010: My idea is that she went on various dates with you and likes you and probably wanted to "really" like you (ie as a boyfriend) but for whatever reason, she realised that she just didn't feel that way. People quite often find it hard to explain ... (read in full...)
He doesn't treat me with respect,, but I don't want to lose him
Q. My boyfriend does not treat me the way I want to be treated he belittles me al the time. I believe is my fault because he has been doing for a while now and I have never been able to defend my self. Now I'm beyond tired of it. I don't even feel like ...
A. 25 April 2010: This is not a nice man. He belittles you. He hurt you. He doesn't care about whether you want to have sex - he only cares about what he wants. He encourages you do to something that you feel terrible about - asking your father for money - just so ... (read in full...)
The baby seems to be ruining his life and its all my fault
Q. Been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. and now i am 9 weeks pregnant, at first he was happy and over the moon, now he seems so distant. he said its alot of getting use to, but i cant believe he can say that, im the one who is going through ...
A. 25 April 2010: You seem very young. Do you and your boyfriend live together? Have you made a commitment to each other - eg are you engaged or getting married, or at least planning your financial future together? Did you discuss having a baby and plan i... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and a virgin and I want to have sex. If I don't wait for the right person, will I regret it?
Q. I'm 15 and still a virgin. All of my friends have had sex, i think im ready to but i really don't know what to do. i m not sure whether to wait for the right person or just go ahead and do it. if i don't wait for the right person will i regret it ...
A. 25 April 2010: Dear Disasterpiece-Ox You need to change your friends, honey. If they really have all had sex already, then they are the wrong friends to be hanging out with. Firstly, you are underage. I know that sounds old fashioned, but the law is th... (read in full...)
I'm only willing to date women who are Christian and in my area of attractiveness. How can I get better at dating?
Q. Hi, First off, I'm not too concerned about this, I'm more just curious if there is anything else I can do. Secondly, I'm a Christian man really only willing to date women who strive after Christ with my passion, and are in my area of attracti...
A. 25 April 2010: I would just relax about it! If you are a Christian and it's important to you that your girlfriend be a Christian too, that's fine - you can go to Christian events and gatherings and no doubt get to meet lots of nice Christian girls. I wo... (read in full...)
Tried to get even with my cheating boyfriend, and now I am pregnant.
Q. Hi, I hope I will not be judged for asking this question as I made a mistake in trying to get even on my cheating boyfriend- something I will never do again!!!! I am pregnant, my last period was on the 1st of January and I discovered my pr...
A. 25 April 2010: Are you sure that you want a child? It certainly doesn't sound as if the child was planned. You don't trust your boyfriend who was not faithful to you and you were not faithful to him, so presumably you would not be bringing the child into a... (read in full...)
I've never had a boyfriend but get asked for sex all the time. Why?
Q. hey guys :) basically i am 16 years old and i have never had a boyfried!! i mean i have got into someone and done other things but i have never had a boyfriend. My friends say its because they are to scared to ask for a relationship because i a...
A. 25 April 2010: You've got two separate issues here: (i) you haven't had a boyfriend and (ii) you are asked for sex by men when you are out clubbing. It seems to me that the second issue is much more important. I'm not clear of the circumstances, b... (read in full...)
How do I play hard to get?
Q. i've known this guy tom for a few months now and he told me he loves girls with a sense of humour, brunette (which i am) and have blue eyes (i have blue eyes) and when we met up with a few friends he did flirt with me for a bit. And he told my b...
A. 25 April 2010: Do nothing at all! Or stuff the "playing hard to get" and ask him to go to the cinema with you - don't grow up learning to be a wimpy female - be strong and straight forward. ... (read in full...)
Why does my ex act angry and hostile?
Q. Ok so i havent talked to my ex boyfriend in months. He contacted me and said he saw a car like mine in his neighborhood he swears it was the same license plate everything. I explained to him it wasnt me i even have proof and i was in a whole diffe...
A. 25 April 2010: To be honest, I don't know why you bothered to reply to him at all. So what if he saw a car like yours and contacted you. It sounds like you think he was accusing you of somehow stalking him. If you have a new boyfriend, then just forget ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me more than he has loved anyone but cant be with me because his mother hates me!
Q. My boyfriends mother hates me. She has no reason to, and if he asks her why, she responds by shouting at him that she doesn't want to talk about it. On wednesday last week she banned me from their family home (she did last year for 4 months)....
A. 25 April 2010: I'm sorry that you are hurting so much, but it seems clear that he has made his decision. He obviously gets on well with his family if he works with them and lives at home, and the view of his mother is important to him. Sadly, it is more im... (read in full...)
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