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writes:Ok so i havent talked to my ex boyfriend in months.He contacted me and said he saw a car like mine in his neighborhood he swears it was the same license plate everything. I explained to him it wasnt me i even have proof and i was in a whole different part of town 30 minutes away. He still says he swears it was mine so it was just weird.I explained to him (since we havent talked in so long) that i have a boyfriend now and im sorry that he cant find it in his heart to be nice to me cause just when he talks to me he has so much hostility. and no matter what i say he is always angry.So he text me back and says..it just really looked like your car so its weird but im not worried about it and thats good im sure your happier now.Maybe its just me but i can hear the tone of his voice when saying that "im sure your happier now" he acted like he had moved on. So i really did and now its like he is angry that its not him that is my boyfriend.What do you all think? Thanks a lot!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (4 May 2010):
Of course he wants you to be wanting him back.
He wants you to know that he was the best thing you ever had, and cry nightly at the fact you will never have him again.
He has a huge ego and can't stand the fact you have moved on and forgotten him.
This is all just more and more evidence that you should ignore him and cut contact. He sounds like a complete knob.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for all of your answers, i have another question if any of you can help me.
He said to me i thought it was your car and that wouldnt make sense to me if you have moved on.
So its like hes so convinced it was me because he wants me to be chasing after him or stalking him.
He over exaggeates everything i did after we broke up like he almost wanted me to be doing it.
So is it possible that he is actually looking for signs that i still want him back? And the less i show the more he wants?
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reader, Keira9312 +, writes (25 April 2010):
 If he is acting this way, he may still have feelings for you. If you were the one who broke up with him, he may still be angry about the fact that he wasn't good enough. My advice would be to leave him alone, and politely tell him to leave you alone. Either one of you may say something the wrong way, and create unnecessary tension.
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reader, It's all be okay +, writes (25 April 2010):
To be honest, I don't know why you bothered to reply to him at all. So what if he saw a car like yours and contacted you. It sounds like you think he was accusing you of somehow stalking him. If you have a new boyfriend, then just forget all about the old one, and don't bother to reply to his texts or worry about his hostility - it's his problem, don't make it yours too.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (25 April 2010):
He's an ex boyfriend, they all act strangely.
Why do you bother going to the effort of justifying yourself to him?
Just ignore him if he texts again.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010): Um why does he care if he saw your car or not? You are free to move about the area you both live in as you please. Its not like you are stalking him. In fact you haven't even been in contact with him for months. Either way, I really don't know why he cares or why he finds it "weird." If it had been your car, maybe you had a friend you were visting that lived nearby. What's "weird" about that? But it wasn't even your car.I would just ignore his "weird" observations. Yeah maybe he is still thinking about you and is just looking for an excuse to contact you. That's what it sounds like to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2010): Keep moving forward, darling. But watch your back!He's not quite over it...
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