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Am I really starting to fall in love with my brother?

Q.   My older brother and I have been sexually active with each other for some years now. I know this started as him abusing me but I no longer see it that way and I think I might be falling in love with him. He is 4 years older then me and started uni 2 ...

A.   3 January 2009: You probably are going to reveive docens of answers to your question but nobody is you and only you know how you feel. You share with us that you end up enjoying whatever happend and our society condems this kind of relationships. For what reasons? ... (read in full...)

Am I still a virgin? We had anal sex.

Q.   I'm a freshman in at a catholic school college and I am catholic. I want to save myself for marriage, but one night me and this girl (we were both drunk) went to my room and started making out. One thing led to another and our cloths were off. I ...

A.   3 January 2009: By now, you pretty much figure that virginity has a broad defitintion and each individual is entitled to the part that finds in agreement with. To me, like in the old times virginity is the state of celibacy until married. And celibacy would mean ... (read in full...)

All about female feet

Q.   Hi Fade878 Thank you for your suggestion and here I am for all to see what it was about. It called my attention that some women here share with us their appreciation for the beauty of their feet. Unfortunatly the comments are very light or brief. It ...

A.   2 January 2009: Thank you Honeypie for your comment and the link. I had the understanding that a fetish is something undispensable for the sexual performance. Someone with a foot fetish would not be capable of normal sex without his fetish been present or ... (read in full...)

My dad has started to walk around the house naked!!!

Q.   hi I'm a girl of 16, my parents have split up recently and I now live with my dad. Me and my dad have always been close and me and my friends have always thought him to be a cool dad, all my friends fancy him but recently hes been acting a little ...

A.   2 January 2009: To me this is the dad posting as if he is the daughter. It may be just a fantasy he has and he just posted to see what others say about it. A 16 year old woman wouldn't comment like that. Why if the parents split would a mother live the daughter ... (read in full...)

Still thinking of ex-beau

Q.   Dear Aunt, More than a year ago I met Mr.X . He was one of my business clients. He immediately went after me and he confessed that he loves me a lot, very, very much. He could be too much in love with me then, that he tried to be close and tried ...

A.   1 January 2009: It sounds to me that a man that is so much in love sudenlly is in reallity having a crush.What does he loves of you if he haven't spend time with you to know who you are, what your values, your likes and dislikes. Do you know that a man can "fall in ... (read in full...)

What does it mean if my boyfriend and I don't have sex as often as we used to?

Q.   What does it mean if my boyfriend and I don't have sex as often as we used to? He says he is so tired lately but for some reason I feel like he isn't as interested or attracted to me. We don't live together, and we are both 19, if that is any help. ...

A.   1 January 2009: Hello anonimous 19 f. My experience is that the longer you wait to have sex with someone the more you find out about their personalities. That way, when you have sex, it is not only because you find that person physically atractive but also because ... (read in full...)

Is anal sex always painful?

Q.   My husband and I have a great sex life, however in the 4 years that I've known we've only had anal intercourse, successfully, twice. I consider myself sexually adventurous, but I am absolutely terrified about this for 2 reasons. M husband is VERY ...

A.   21 December 2008: The question would be how much is "too much" We have being told all bodies are diferent and same go for all anuses. Some women may find anal sex pleasurable because ther anus is more flexible plus the influence of the psycological factor. What you ... (read in full...)

What's with the sudden anal sex craze?

Q.   I'm 45 and over the course of the last 4 years I have dated 3 guys and each one of them requested to have anal sex. My boyfriend of 7 years before never asked for this........what's up with the anal sex craze and why is it so much better than ...

A.   21 December 2008: Pornography is like tv programs for the general public. It informs of what is currently in fashion. Pornography also needs to keep viewers interested and coming back. The first movies were showing regular people with regular faces, breasts, penises, ... (read in full...)

Confusing FWB relationship with my boss

Q.   Hey frnds Please help me out! I have been in FWB relationship for 2 years with my married boss. He is very handsome, sexy and intelligent.WE are engaged in oral sex only. I love him very much, but he clearly says that he don't want emotional bond. ...

A.   15 December 2008: Resistance on his part is your afrodisiac, a challenge for you that you want to conquer. I bet that if he would be the one obsesed with you you would feel rejection towards him. It is dificult to believe that only oral is what happends between you ... (read in full...)

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