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Guys, what do you really think about breast implants?

Q.   Hey guys, is this true? http://www.implantforum.com/men.html I always thought the MAJORITY of guys hated fake breasts. Is this true? I'm small and natural, and well, I've toyed with the idea of getting implants because frankly, I don't feel se...

A.   27 October 2008: They're awesome. If you want them get them done. Get a good doctor and spend extra to get exactly what you want. They're awesome though. Guys love them.... (read in full...)

Do people with herpes have to be careful?

Q.   i was wondering,if a person has herpes are they still considered the same as evrybody else who doesn't have herpes or are they considered to be different?also, how is a person with herpes supposed to be happy if they have a life long painful disease ...

A.   27 October 2008: They should always be honest about the condition with sexual partners. But this can be discussed in a mature way; educating the partner on the disease. Herpes shouldn't end your life you should continue to be happy, I guess most people that have ... (read in full...)

How long is too long without sex?

Q.   I'm just wondering how long is too long without sex? I know people have different sex drives but just wanting to get some personal opinions really. how long would you go without sex before you got unhappy with your partner and wanted explanations? ...

A.   25 October 2008: If you have a partner you should be having sex daily. Multiple times daily. I'm sure as you get older that gets harder to maintain but if you are both able physically to have sex and are in a committed relationship even on a busy schedule you ... (read in full...)

I need some help... I have just split from my fiance of 8 years.

Q.   Hi, I need some help... I have just split from my fiance of 8 years. Things got bad really quickly.. He became distant and didnt want to spend time with me as much. But what made the split final is as we both planned to start a family together next ...

A.   25 October 2008: Thats a tough situation dude. Have you made sure he has gotten tested also? chlamidya is a weird one right; he may have had it from his first g/f and just been a carrier of the disease and never known he's had it & genuinely has not cheated on ... (read in full...)

What's the strange smell?

Q.   i have noticed a clear discharge that i get everyday, which is normal, but lately i have been noticing that it smells a bit odd, like smelly feet or something, but not really like sweat. its hard to explain. i am a virgin, clean down there every ...

A.   24 October 2008: Have you changed anything in your diet? I've heard that can effect the smell. It can also be hormones. I wouldn't stress though most likely normal.... (read in full...)

This guy kissed me (I'm male) and more has happened since!

Q.   Me and 5 other mates went to South Africa for a holiday which we said that we had been planning and talking about for nearly 3 years. 1 of the guys who came with us was openly gay. He wasn't camp or anything like that lol. The group, myself ...

A.   23 October 2008: There are no categories man; straight, gay, bi whatever they are stupid groups that mean nothing. Bottom line is people are people; we are all emotional creatures that can experience a whole rainbow of emotion (no pun intended); so you made a ... (read in full...)

I was in love with a married woman who works in my office...

Q.   I was in love with the married women, who is working in my office. We were having a good relationship for the last 4 years and treating her like my wife. For the last eight months we were not having physical relations, as I was told by some pri...

A.   23 October 2008: Buddy I've been in a very similar situation. TRUST ME STAY AWAY FROM HER!!!!! This girl is trouble man she's been trouble since she was a kid; cut her off completely and save yourself the future STD tests. She probably likes girls all these ... (read in full...)

Shall I finish with my current affair only to pursue another one?

Q.   Hi. I feel so terrible writing this. This is more like a confessional than a request for advice. I got married four years ago to a man I first met when I was in university (ten years ago). He was my first real boyfriend. Late last year our ...

A.   23 October 2008: You need to sort out what you want and take some ownership of you're own actions. Last time I checked women can't be laughed into bed. They can be laughed into martini's but bed honey that's all your own doing. Grow a pair of balls and dump ... (read in full...)

I can't afford him any more but I can't kick him out either!

Q.   Well, my problem is with my lazy, unambitious boyfriend, he went to london for 2years where he had the time of his life, he worked, he travelled europe no that he's back in south africa he's so depressed.... he's been back for two years.... he hasnt ...

A.   23 October 2008: Get Rid of HIM!!!!!!!! Time is non-refundable love. If he cared at all he wouldn't be acting like this.... (read in full...)

Are East Indian girls typically "tighter" than white women?

Q.   I am a white female, height 5'7", weight 115 lbs., dating a white man whose last girlfriend was East Indian. He has not slept with anyone since her, and, since my last boyfriend told me that the (East) Asian girls he had slept with were "tighter" ...

A.   23 October 2008: Hi there, I have had wonderful relationships with many women from various parts of the world. Fijian, Punjabi, Ismeili, Gudrathi, Persian, Azerbijan, China, USA, Japan, Spain, Belize, Mexico, Native American, Croatian, POlish, Irish The whole lo... (read in full...)

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