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Did anyone mess up worse than me? How did you survive?

Q.   I don't feel proud about this but I'm miserable and want some company. Just maybe it will help pull me out of this dark hole I'm in behind my own making. I feel like a hermit. I've shut myself up in my mom's basement for the past four or so months ...

A.   3 February 2011: Hey, atleast you are admitting you are wrong, and not making excuses for your actions. That's the first and most important thing. Now you should concentrate on bettering yourself. Everyone makes mistakes, that's not crime. The real crime is when you ... (read in full...)

Should I be ok with my girlfriend sleeping in another guy's bed?

Q.   My girlfriend went to a sleepover with her guy friend, since he supposedly dosent have a guest room, she has to sleep on the same bed as him, should I be fine with that?...

A.   3 February 2011: No, you should not be ok with that. A relationship is all about respecting each other. Do you think she would be ok with you shacking up with another girl? Hell no, so why should it be any different when its her. Tell her its no ok. She should think ... (read in full...)

The spark has gone, should I leave him?

Q.   HI. I hope someone can help somehow. I have been in a relationship for over 3 years and I split up with him 3 times. We r back together, we have similar interests, but there is something missing. The fire, the spark. The other problem is that I dont ...

A.   31 January 2011: Just move on. If the spark is gone, you are just wasting both his and your time. I know it sounds harsh, but sometimes you gotta cut off the diseased limb if its not good anymore. Staying together is just prolonging the inevitable. And besides, you ... (read in full...)

How do you cope with a break-up?

Q.   hi all, i need advice on break up. i want to stay healthy and strong. my girlfriend has recently dumped me and i feel devastated. how to cope? thanks....

A.   31 January 2011: Hey, I'm sort of in the same boat as you. I had a girl friend I really cared about and she dumped me and now is being real cold to me. What I've been doing is concentrating my energy on my own well being. Doing the things I enjoy, hanging out with ... (read in full...)

I cant accept his religion, but I cant be without him either!

Q.   hey..im really confused and stressed out lately. i m in this relationship for 5 yrs. well i love him so much.. and he does too. but there is a religion difference between us..i mean its okay with me of being different, but he want me to convert to ...

A.   31 January 2011: I think the above people have pretty much said it. Don't go through with it. Think of it this way, by accepting his religion on the pretense of being with him but not actually believing, you would be making a mockery of his religion. And I know you ... (read in full...)

I wanna experiment with my best friend, how do I tell him?

Q.   Ok, Im straight always have and never thought of the same sex in any matter but im and open minded person about gay lesbians different cultures and all and i have alote of friends and family that are gay or bi bt i wouldnt never thought it would be ...

A.   31 January 2011: This is a hard one. One thing I've noticed about guys is that they tend to take the whole topic of homosexuality serious. There is a chance that were you to make a move it could completely destroy your relationship. On the other hand, your fri... (read in full...)

How do I get my girlfriend back?

Q.   hi im 34 and met this girl last summer...well she grew up in my hometown so i guess i always knew of her just didnt talk before and last summer she got one of my friends to ask me out so i gave it a try and we dated for 5 and a half ...

A.   31 January 2011: Here is the honest to God truth, if you want her back, you have to try and get over her. I'm being serious. Just get on with your life, meet up with your friends, have a good time, don't call her or any such thing, don't initiate any type of ... (read in full...)

What is the easiest way to talk to him without going directly to him?

Q.   I want to know what the way and how to start talking with a boy that just live behind my house instead of going directly suggest any other way of talking with him. I haven't talk with that boy ever before and i really want to talk because i love ...

A.   18 January 2011: I know its intimidating, but you understand that the is probably just as nervous as you are. You know when you are about to take a cold shower, how you hold your breath just walk in and after 10 seconds or so, its not so bad? Same applies here. It ... (read in full...)

I'm really in love with him but don't want him to put his hands on me in anger again

Q.   ok me and my husband have been together for 5yrs now we have a daughter and everythang..will he has slapped me choked me and throw me cross the room,an not only throw me a cross the room but im late on my period like 2weeks late so i mite be ...

A.   18 January 2011: I know you really love this person, but let me tell you right now that any man who lays his hands on you is not worthy of your love. I highly suggest you call a hotline, or find someone to help you because this seems like a very dangerous situation, ... (read in full...)

How do I make a straight boy fall in love with me?

Q.   I love a boy very much i cant spend even a single minute without seeing him. Bt till now i haven't talk with him and haven't tried .bt i didn't think that he will interested in me bt i want that he should talk with me. I want some tips that i should ...

A.   16 January 2011: Sorry man, there isn't much you can do about this. Sexuality isn't a choice. You are who you are. If I were you I would start looking for a guy who is capable of returning your feelings. ... (read in full...)

How do men feel about having sex on a woman's period?

Q.   How do men feel about having sex while she's on her period? I know many may like to claim they don't care or say things like, "put a towel down and go to town," but sometimes I can help but wonder if it the bleeding doesn't gross them out. ...

A.   16 January 2011: It all depends on the guy. Some guys don't mind, for some it bothers them to no end. Now if this is a brand new person you just met, I wouldn't suggest bringing this up. But if you been together for a while and are completely comfortable with each ... (read in full...)

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