My Boyfriend says I'm boring and I "mother" him. How can I regain his interest?
Q. my boyfriend recently told me that hes bored with me and that i dont "challenge" him enough. After 2 years together he thinks we have nothing to talk about and that i mother him too much. i was shocked. I thought he was happy with how things ...
A. 10 February 2013: I think this is what they might call "emerging from the honeymoon period". I had this with my partner around 2 years into the relationship except I was the one having the crisis :P I told him I thought the relationship wasn't exciting enough, but I ... (read in full...)
He's married. We're strongly attracted. I even told his wife nothing was 'going on'. I want to have sex with him, should I?
Q. Hi...this is my first time seeking advice through the internet. I'm almost 20 years old. I applied for a job at a restaurant and I got the job and the general manager is 37. During the interview we made deeply eye contact and then once he...
A. 10 February 2013: If it's been one year and a half and the only thing he's done is 'mess around' then he isn't gonna do anything else i.e. he ain't gonna leave his wife for you. He just wants to get laid and you are easy pickings. You are young and impressionable, ... (read in full...)
Porn users: how valid is my Bf excuse that he 'forgot' his user name on a porn site? Was that said to prevent me seeing his porn use log?
Q. Right this question is slightly different than most porn questions. It is directed at the techies. My boyfriend told me the site from which he downloaded his porn from, I asked his username. I discovered I could try and find out when he last log...
A. 10 February 2013: I use a huge number of usernames just cause the ones I want are usually taken. I also use a huge number of email addresses and passwords cause I hate spam. I forget usernames, email addresses and passwords ridiculously often. So yes, you CAN forg... (read in full...)
Should I allow him to "brand" me with a tattoo? He's 24. I know he will not take me back if I refuse.
Q. So, me and this guy have just been through a break up, our relationship was a little rough around the edges mainly because he's 24 and I'm 16. I know I know, forget about the age a second. I'm really desperate to get him back and he says I need to ...
A. 10 February 2013: Forget it. When you go to school, do you put your initials on your stuff? If you do, then why? Cause you want everyone to know it's yours. Someone looking for a pencil will pick it up and say, "Oh, it's ____'s pencil. I don't want it/I'll give it b... (read in full...)
In public he's a tiger, once home he not interested. How can I ignite his sexual desire at home? A striptease maybe?
Q. When I'm out with my 29 year-old boyfriend (hanging out with friends, on a date, even walking to get on the train), he always mentions how hot I am, how horny he is, he usually hints on how he wants sex (like, if we're at a coffee shop and I ask if ...
A. 10 February 2013: I know a lot of situations where if one person continually doesn't initiate because they are afraid or just can't be bothered, that eventually causes rifts in the relationship. Now maybe your boyfriend wants you to initiate but doesn't have the... (read in full...)
Wisdom teeth problem
Q. more of a health issue than relationship, but advice is appreciated, aunts this is so not a relationship question but it's bothering me , I was fine till recently I realized my wisdom teeth was coming out I thought I didn't even have them, I went to ...
A. 8 February 2013: Hello! Did the dentist say it was absolutely necessary to get ALL of them removed? Because I know that you only need to get them removed if they're coming out horizontally instead of vertically like the rest of your other teeth. Horizont... (read in full...)
We have children. He smokes weed and drinks a lot. Will he ever change? All his money goes on his lifestyle and we struggle at the best of times
Q. I guess like a lot of girls do, I thought I could change my boyfriend. He smokes weed and drinks a lot. His friends are no good and he doesn't look after me or our children as he should. I don't work as my youngest is 3 weeks old, and my olde...
A. 7 February 2013: You need to be responsible now that you've got kids to think about. You can't stay with this man because he's not gonna change. If you insist on doing so, your kids will probably have a better life if you give them up for adoption. If you insist ... (read in full...)
Is it time to break-up? Why am I holding on to someone who doesn't want the same things as I want?
Q. I really need some outside perspective on my issue, so here it goes... First of all, I think you should know that I'm the type of guy that always has a girlfriend. I'm also the type of guy that loves to show my affection a lot, through little s...
A. 7 February 2013: I'm thinking maybe you should ask X if she wants a relationship with you or not. If you find out that yes, X does want a relationship, then you can tell Z so that she knows she can move on. If you find out that no, X doesn't want a relationship, ... (read in full...)
Was My boyfriend's reaction out of line? I had to enroll, online, for classes and the slot allocated to me ate into time he wanted to spend with me.
Q. All my college procedures are done online. Today I had to choose my class schedule. Obviously, my college has thousands of students, so we're assigned a period of time where we could chose it (for example, all names starting with A do it from 9am...
A. 6 February 2013: A guy who refuses to see that he is wrong or behaving irrational will get very hard to deal with :S maybe you should reconsider him as a partner. If he refuses to hear your point of view then he's just self absorbed... It to be the case if he ... (read in full...)
I had a sneak-peek at his email. I found out he's buying things for himself on line he's not told me about. Why the secret?
Q. I've just found out that my boyfriend secretly spends a lot of money behind my back as he left his email account logged in and i had a sneek peek. He even bought lots of stuff on my b'day for himself! When talking about what he buys, he obvi...
A. 6 February 2013: Maybe he hides it because he feels that you might get angry knowing he spends money on himself instead of you? Have you asked him why yet? I think he should spend how he likes but if you plan on becoming financially linked to him you should ... (read in full...)
What's a sweet way to ask a girl out on a date? And should I wait until Valentines day?
Q. I been meeting this girl, I do like her and I know she likes me to. Any sweet ideas on asking her out? Nothing over the top, I want to keep it simple. Valentines day is also coming up, I'm not sure if a girl would like to be asked out before...
A. 6 February 2013: Don't wait until Valentines day! You should take her out before then! If the first date goes well, you can send her some flowers on Valentines day and make it a second date :P
She might be disappointed if you decide to do it AFTER Valentin... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wont get engaged to me unless I get her a 20 000 euro engagement ring
Q. Hi, I ve posted on this website before and I ve found the answere really helpful so I am hoping for some more advice please. I ve been agonizing over this for some time, would be really interested to hear what others think.. My girlfriend w...
A. 5 February 2013: Seriously you should dump her. She keeps demanding more and more from you its ridiculous! What's to say she isn't going to run off with that very expensive ring and leave you in the dust? She doesn't respect you and obviously has no plans to have ... (read in full...)
We're waiting until we're married -- but what if he doesn't have enough to satisfy me?
Q. Dear Cupid I am a 30 year old female due to get married in a few months. My fiancé and I are both virgins, we decided to wait till marriage. It's never something I regretted. We have spoken about sex and I have friends who are sexually active ...
A. 5 February 2013: If you keep thinking that less than 4.5 inches is something to be worried about, when it comes to the big night you'll keep thinking about it and THAT is what will impact your sex life. I reckon that for a female to enjoy sex she has to be totally ... (read in full...)
Parents and relatives control my life. Would I be a bad daughter if I left?
Q. Hi guys, This will be long, so please bear with me. I am a 19 year old Asian Australian. All my life, my parents (especially mum) have restricted me from doing much (this includes going out with a guy friend for coffee, going out, parties..etc). S...
A. 4 February 2013: Hi OP,
I too am an Asian Australian, often subject to my parents will. I'm not sure about your parents but my siblings and I have always been pushing the boundaries our entire lives such that now the parents finally accept that we know what we ... (read in full...)
Strange thing that happened with my GF, what was she thinking?
Q. Ok so Iv'e been with my girlfriend for two years now and this is the first time it happened. It's nothing major but I thought I would ask anyway because it was so strange. I had made a pavlova cake for her one night (an Australian cake with merang...
A. 4 February 2013: Wow! I've gotten angry at my partner but I've never jumped him straight after! That's not to say her behaviour isn't normal; I just don't do it :P As for why she got so upset, maybe there is something else bothering her. Did you forget something... (read in full...)
I want my boyfriend to be more of a man. How do I do this?
Q. Well, me and my bf had been together for 4 years and he's so good to me. We are 23.Problem is, sometimes I feel down when seeing him talking and acting like a girl. When he's talking, he often uses the voice like how a girl laugh. Oh I don't know ...
A. 4 February 2013: I was thinking that if you 'changed' him and made him more manly, you might lose the man you fell in love with. He might not be so sweet or caring because it would mess with his newly found macho image. If he's always been this way, why is it ... (read in full...)
Please, somebody help me. I found out about my boyfriend's affairs and I don't know what to do.
Q. Hey... well, I couldn't be in worse shape right now. My "boyfriend" and I are in a very dark place. At first, I would defend him whenever people would talk bad of him. And I would just like to say now that my friends have always said that my ...
A. 4 February 2013: I agree with CindyCares and would say move on. A boyfriend who forces you to do something you don't want to do (take birth control pills which mess up your body and not his) and a boyfriend who can't even make time for you because of his studies ... (read in full...)
Three months together and already I am jealous of this other girl. What should I do?
Q. Okay, I have been going out with this guy for almost 3 months and he's the type of guy every girl wants to be with. And this one girl especially is all over him and she's always talking about how they use to go out and stuff and well I don't kn...
A. 3 February 2013: 1. It's not your boyfriend's fault that some ex-girlfriend is still hung up about him. 2. The girl is trying to make you feel insecure when really, you shouldn't be. You're the one with the boyfriend that she no longer has. 3. If this girl... (read in full...)
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