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My boyfriend doesn't understand how bad my problems are?

Q.   I have a huge amount of family issues going on. My boyfriend knows this, but somehow it doesnt seem to effect him and he goes on with his own life. This is making me really angry, because everytime I really need to confide something in him...

A.   10 July 2012: I think you need to talk to HIM about this because until you address your issues with him he'll never know how you feel or what you think he's doing wrong. Guys sometimes don't know how to react with things, so he might think giving you your spa... (read in full...)

Should I move out or stay in current relationship?

Q.   my problem is that i been in and off/on relationship with this guy for 9 years we've been living together now for 2 years things where great at first.we are currently not together, but we live in the same house. i started looking for a place of my ...

A.   10 July 2012: If it was going to work it would of worked in the 9 years you spent with him, there's a reason you both broke up and decided your better as friends, it takes a while to get over and yeah you might want him back when your not together, but when you ... (read in full...)

Did I lose my chance?

Q.   So there is this guy I met at work and we have been hanging out for a couple months now. At first I thought he really liked me, we hang out by ourselves all the time, he is really sweet and we get along so well. Every time we hang out he gives me ...

A.   10 July 2012: I think as hard as it is to hear this you might be the only one feeling the connection. He really might just want to be friends, and friendly invited you to the party it wasn't just a way of saying "I'll hook up with you" your his friend therefore ... (read in full...)

should I just bite the bullet and tell my parents that I’m gay

Q.   A few months ago I took a huge step by telling one of my friends that I’m gay. She was the first person I told. The risk paid off as she confessed that she was also gay, which I had previously suspected, and we talked about it. I recently had my ...

A.   10 July 2012: If you and your parents are close and its just the words frightening you not the thought of what bad things they could say, then tell them. I'm sure they'd rather you be honest with them, and its nothing to be ashamed of, your parents are still go... (read in full...)

If things are going great in a relationship, what is a reasonable amount of time to expect a marriage proposal?

Q.   If things are going great in a relationship, what is a reasonable amount of time to expect a marriage proposal? We are both in mid thirties, been together going on 2 years. When is it time to walk away in search of finding someone who will wanna get ...

A.   10 July 2012: You should probably talk to him about this, at the age where it seems reasonable to get married, and you've been together a while, but he might want to wait later, just talk about it to know whether its in his plans to get married or not. If yo... (read in full...)

Is he Sweet or Creepy? One date and he objects to the online dating profile still online?

Q.   I had one great date with a guy I met on an online dating site. He texts me everyday / a few times a day and asked me for a second date. We've been in contact now about a week and a half. However - one thing is troubling me! He saw me "online" ...

A.   10 July 2012: I'm not sure it sounds like he's not meaning to do it in a rude way, but can't help it I suppose, he's probably just into you and worried that your talking to other guys and going on other dates. Although, he shouldn't really be putting it acros... (read in full...)

Why do I enjoy the chase so much, but then lose interest once I have the guy?

Q.   I have been in 6 relationships, but only one of them remotely serious, that's tne I am in right now. Every time the same thing happens: I can't stop thinking about the person and in my dreams and fantasies it seems like they are perfect. But on...

A.   10 July 2012: I've been there before, and I don't know, currently in the same position. Maybe you have to think of it like if you let go of them how would you feel without them, knowing you have them is a way of you not having to try as hard to get them bec... (read in full...)

I have no sexual feelings for my partner

Q.   Hi, me and my partner have been together 6 years with two children. The poblem is I just have no sexual feelings towards him atall. I dont want him near me,or to have sex ( maybe once every 2 months) and i hate kissing him. I feel terrible as he is ...

A.   10 July 2012: I completely know how you feel, and would say have been in exactly the same situation. I understand you obviously don't want to hurt his feelings or let him down. No matter how lovely he is and how he treats you and your children right, its not ... (read in full...)

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