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Girlfriend knew she had STD and still had unprotected sex with me. I found out from seeing her medication!

Q.   I found out about a week ago that my live in GF has an STD. She did not tell me, I found out. I found medication that she's taking, that she never told me about. I did confront her. Naturally a fight ensued, and the house is tense now. My quest...

A.   15 July 2013: Wow calm down imagine how terrified his girlfriend must be feeling. When you get on the bus do you announce to everyone that you have a cold? No! It's only considered a big deal because it's in the nether regions. So my question do you love her? Can ... (read in full...)

Virgin would like to feel more confident in the bedroom

Q.   I'm a 19 year old virgin and know that in the next few months me and my boyfriend, who is also a virgin, are going to have sex. Although I am ALMOST mentally ready, and more physically ready than I thought, I'm still anxious about it, the whole ...

A.   19 February 2011: okay you're both virgins so it shouldn't be too awkward just relax and take things slow just enjoy eachother for a bit explore see what tuns you on.Second thing don't be embarassed it's totally natural remember confidence is sexy! The most important ... (read in full...)

I'm not interested in relationships. What affect will that have on me in future?

Q.   Hello everyone, I'm 15 years old, I haven't had a boyfriend, I've been asked a couple of times but I'm not interested. Every boy I know behaves in unacceptable ways. They're cocky, or not sensitive, too sarcastic. Don't get me wrong, I can tak...

A.   19 February 2011: finally someone sensible!! There are 15yearolds talking about having babies nowadays! Anyway if i'm honest (im 18)and i advise you not to get involved until you do find the right one, i started dating when i was 15 and it wasn't right for me. You'... (read in full...)

What does a belly-button piercing symbolize? Advice from those under 20.

Q.   I’m looking for input from the under-20 crowd here about just how piercings are perceived. My 14 year-old daughter is anxious to get one. The first negotiations were for her nose, but lately it’s been for her navel. I’m old and stodgy, and have...

A.   3 November 2009: heyy there I'm 16 and i have a nose piercing that i got just after my 13th birthday and my mother let me get it because she saw that i wasn't doing it too be cool or because anyone else was doing it but because i was expressing my individu... (read in full...)

How do I make him notice me and love me?

Q.   hi i am a 13 year old girl and i have fallen in love with a boy in my class but he loves my best friend and i am getting jealous she is very sexy and i am ok but how can i make him notice me, talk to me, and love me. please help me out or else i ...

A.   10 October 2009: okay first off at 13 your friend shouldn't be looking "sexy" she's too young and it sends out the WRONG message to boys. Remember he is a teenage boy and they don't think with their heads they think with what's in their pants. Seriously if he ... (read in full...)

Girls, do you like it when guys wear eyeliner, or "guyliner"?

Q.   do girls like it when a guy wears guyliner? i would like girls' opinions. thanks for any responses... ...

A.   3 October 2009: yes and yes!!! very hot and people saying no, i think it says a lot about a guy that he has the confidence to wear make up. I wish my bfs would :)... (read in full...)

What should I do about the guy I met on holiday? He lives far but I want to make this work

Q.   So here it goes. I'm just back from a two week holiday in which i wanted to get away from a breakup back home. I couldn't wait to go. When i was on holidays i met this boy just under a year younger than me, we clicked straight away and there ...

A.   4 August 2009: okay iv'e been here with a guy in the country next to me again a four hour drive. we found a meeting place in between where we live that we could both easily get a train to. He's a year older than me and i felt exactly the way you do. we saw ... (read in full...)

My low confidence convinces me I can't be liked.. so should I just not bother with this guy?

Q.   I reallly like this boy i met out a few nights ago. I gave him a lift home and he kissed me in the car before getting out and We swapped numbers. The problem is, he is way out of my league. There is a slim chance he may really like me, but pro...

A.   1 August 2009: don't put yourself down woman! Remember confidence is attractive! and no one is out of your league anyone that thinks that about you is immature and not worth your time. Since you only met him a couple of nights ago it's probably worth meeting up w... (read in full...)

Tips on how to ask out girls?

Q.   Ok. I'm really shit at asking out girls. I need some tips. I'm planing on asking out a girl next week at my party, (next time i see her), but i'm so bad at it. I havnt been with anyone in 2 years, and i hate it. But im not letting this one go. ...

A.   1 August 2009: hey, Always remember when asking a girl out that shes probably as nervous as you are and that you're both human beings. The best thing to do when asking her is to come across as confident but not arrogant confidence is very attractive. The othe... (read in full...)

How can I make this not hurt?

Q.   heyy. my name is C******, and i am 15. okay here's my question. -i like to masterbate the same as everone else does. i only like rubbing my clit though. well everone else can go inside the hole, i cant. well i can but it hurts, why? help me ... ...

A.   1 August 2009: this is maybe because you're a virgin maybe think about other ways you can masturbate. try a shower hope this helps xx... (read in full...)

My cousin makes fun of me because I'm afraid of sex. And now I like a guy who is engaged! Can anyone help me here?

Q.   Hello! my name is cathy and i have 2 pieces of information i need help on im 16 i really like this man and he's 21 and engaged!!! whenever were around with eachother theres alot of flirting going on and its a bit obvious we like eachother but yo...

A.   1 August 2009: ok firstly forget this guy no offense but he is engaged and a little old for you anyways and the fact that he's flirting is disrespectful to his finance and certainly unfairly leading you on. As for your virginity you should be rubbing it in her ... (read in full...)

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