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How can I simmer down the relationship between my boyfriend and the girl living with his family?
Q. My boyfriend of 8 months is worrying me. He has never had a girlfriend before me for more than a month. When we started the relationship, we were living together, alone, and I was working. I didn't know at the time but he had cheated on his previous...
A. 14 May 2013: Just a further update, after many more talks he has spoken to his mother who has in turn asked PJ to stay at the house less often. Thank you for all your help :)... (read in full...)
How can I simmer down the relationship between my boyfriend and the girl living with his family?
Q. My boyfriend of 8 months is worrying me. He has never had a girlfriend before me for more than a month. When we started the relationship, we were living together, alone, and I was working. I didn't know at the time but he had cheated on his previous...
A. 19 April 2013: Thank you so so much! It's has really helped me to gather myself to talk to him properly without letting emotions and accusations run wild. Unfortunately plans changed and I'm with him now and will be talking to him shortly. Plain Jane and... (read in full...)
How can I simmer down the relationship between my boyfriend and the girl living with his family?
Q. My boyfriend of 8 months is worrying me. He has never had a girlfriend before me for more than a month. When we started the relationship, we were living together, alone, and I was working. I didn't know at the time but he had cheated on his previous...
A. 17 April 2013: Thank you so much for this answer. This is actually helpful. This is exactly what I was hoping people would say rather than just to break it off with him so thank you very much. You've raised a lot of valid points. I think, firstly, I may have com... (read in full...)
Porn is just images of women on a screen. The men will never meet those porn stars. So why is watching porn such an issue for women?
Q. I am curious about this. It seems that to some women the worst sin a man can commit is looking at porn and I don't get it. T hey are just images on a screen of women he most likely will never meet or ever have a chance with. The chances of him a...
A. 17 April 2013: Some women see it as disgusting to watch something something that should be intimate, and it's not a sexy depiction of sex. A lot of women dislike it because it brings up the issue of 'can I live up to that?' And generally the answer is no due to l... (read in full...)
Why do girls like guys with attitude? Why can't they admit they don't like swet guys?
Q. I’m in a relationship with my current girlfriend for the last 14 months. Before that, I was in relationship twice : for two years and one year respectively and I was dumped because I was too sweet and loveable boyfriend. Before entered into...
A. 17 April 2013: Girls seem to like guys with mystery rather than attitude. We want to be special so we go for men who will only let one special girl in you know? ... (read in full...)
I just want to be friends! Guys how do I turn you off FOREVER!; without gaining 100lb, sacrificing looks, nor getting really hairy?
Q. I'm studying computer engineering so it's ALL GUYS and I'm not a hermit or anything, so I try to make friends. And I LIKE having friends I can talk to about nerdy things like Linux and UNIX, I mean, most other people don't get it. But the guys A...
A. 17 April 2013: Wear a false engagement ring ;) you'll turn invisible ... (read in full...)
I'm too jealous and need attention constantly from my partner. How do I stop this?
Q. I have been with my partner for 6 months and have recently moved in with him. We love each other and treat each other really well but for some reason I find it hard to feel satisfied in our relationship. I feel jealous and angry when he leaves m...
A. 17 April 2013: You just described my own relationship right now! My partner can be exactly the same! The way I've found works it just to think extremely logically about what I would be doing if I were him, and honestly I would just dance and drink and probably... (read in full...)
How important is it to date your type (physical preference)?
Q. How important is it to date someone your type? I've always liked guys with softer features and slender eyes, seemingly shy but with a bright smile. My first ex was exactly that and I've never been more attracted to anyone else. He was cute more...
A. 17 April 2013: I have dated all kinds of different men and I find my type changes as I do.
I never specifically dated my type, but enjoyed both. I obviously found men that looked my type more attractive but also had higher expectations of them because they were... (read in full...)
My little mistake shattered my boyfriend ego!!!
Q. So I have a problem and I need some advice. Ok so usually when me and my boyfriend wanna have sex it takes so long for me to come so he usually goes down on me and at the same time fingers me and that alone usually makes me come after a little while ...
A. 17 April 2013: I totally understand how he could be insulted by this, but also your situation as a caring partner!
What I would do in this situation is give him some time to simmer down then either talk one on one with him and explain things calmly or you coul... (read in full...)
How can I simmer down the relationship between my boyfriend and the girl living with his family?
Q. My boyfriend of 8 months is worrying me. He has never had a girlfriend before me for more than a month. When we started the relationship, we were living together, alone, and I was working. I didn't know at the time but he had cheated on his previous...
A. 17 April 2013: I do understand what you mean but I also believe that just because I am young does not mean our relationship should be disregarded. I am already extremely selective of who I date and he and I do make each other extremely happy, otherwise I wouldn't ... (read in full...)
I don't want to be seen as a secretive liar, but I don't want to discuss the rape either
Q. Hii, wondering if you guys could give me some advice. Basically, about a year ago I was pretty brutally raped by a stranger, who said he was going to kill me when he finished. I really think he would have, because he had a knife, if the police ...
A. 17 April 2013: I'm so sorry you've had to endure such a horrible act.
My advice would be for you to tell him that you don't want him to see you as secretive or a liar but there are some things about your past that you're not ready to share with him. Then,me ... (read in full...)
I've done nothing to encourage him because my friend liked him first
Q. Dear Cupid, Currently my friend has a crush on a guy. I met the guy during a coffeehouse event but he didn't approach my table until my friend left. We got talking and joked around a lot but I know he's territory I shouldn't be trespassing in b...
A. 17 April 2013: Unfortunately for us girls, there's the issue of fighting over a guy who's already made his choice, and it's hard for everyone! I think don't push your relationship with him, just let him talk to you first and tell him you're cautious because your ... (read in full...)
How can I simmer down the relationship between my boyfriend and the girl living with his family?
Q. My boyfriend of 8 months is worrying me. He has never had a girlfriend before me for more than a month. When we started the relationship, we were living together, alone, and I was working. I didn't know at the time but he had cheated on his previous...
A. 17 April 2013: And furthermore, I don't believe I asked if I should break up with him, I was looking for solutions on how to get the two of them to realise they're flirting is hurting me. I find that a lot of people on this site jump to dump and that's not what ... (read in full...)
how did you move on and past the sense of potentially great relationship ended prematurely?
Q. The girl I was dating ended our relationship about two weeks ago. It was short-lived, the beginning was intense, and then it seems she hit a plateau (I learned later), while I was on cloud 9 and so happy to finally find somebody like her. Sometime ...
A. 17 April 2013: Thanks for the feedback :) good to know you're moving forward with a positive attitude.
I find I really struggle with letting to of people too, and the trick is just to not go back to them when you get that urge, it won't make you feel better xo... (read in full...)
How can I simmer down the relationship between my boyfriend and the girl living with his family?
Q. My boyfriend of 8 months is worrying me. He has never had a girlfriend before me for more than a month. When we started the relationship, we were living together, alone, and I was working. I didn't know at the time but he had cheated on his previous...
A. 17 April 2013: Sorry, it's not that I'm naive, it's actually because I'm trying to be mature about this that we are still together. I think it's naive and silly to end a valuable relationship over assumptions.... (read in full...)
It seems anniversaries and her birth day are for her, but my birthday is not a day for me!
Q. This one goes to the ladies out there. To what point should you be considerate of your man? Let's assume it is your man's birthday, how far is a man worth going for? Like I understand in modern day societies it is expected for the man to go above ...
A. 16 April 2013: In my own relationship, we are equal parts. I spoil him as much as he spoils me, and if he gets the gift wrong, we talk about what was wrong about it and go an exchange and I reward him somehow for not being mad at me. Our relationship it positive... (read in full...)
BF wants me to improve on my appearance, I feel hurt!
Q. I have a very good looking boyfriend . . . He loves me a lot . . . But he constantly asks me to change my hair style , to use cosmetics . . . But i like to be simple . . . He also gives examples of the girls who look beautiful . . . . This hurts me ...
A. 16 April 2013: I understand both sides. My boyfriend has accidentally slipped things and hurt me but I also have caught myself wishing he would work out more or something, BUT the difference here as that he has always apologised and made it up to me and I would ... (read in full...)
how did you move on and past the sense of potentially great relationship ended prematurely?
Q. The girl I was dating ended our relationship about two weeks ago. It was short-lived, the beginning was intense, and then it seems she hit a plateau (I learned later), while I was on cloud 9 and so happy to finally find somebody like her. Sometime ...
A. 16 April 2013: I have not been in that particular situation but I have experienced a long term (3years) relationship go sour unexpectedly.
The best advice I can give you is to move on, and not let this fester. If she wants to follow you, let it be, but if not,... (read in full...)
My bridesmaid bought a shoe a size too big. I'm worried about how she's going to wear it for a couple of hours???
Q. I'm getting married in May. I'm having a bit of an issue. I told my bridesmaids they could pick out whatever shoe they wanted. One of my bridesmaids bought a shoe that is a size too big. I know you can stuff a shoe to make it fit correctly. However ...
A. 16 April 2013: I find it warming that you're looking out for her feet! Nobody want the embarrassment of tripping over at a wedding! Down the aisle :s My suggestion would be to get her smaller shoes. Open back are difficult to walk in if they are too big because ... (read in full...)
I don't know what we and I'm scared about the fact I'm a virgin?
Q. Hey Im 18 I have been going on a couple of dates with a guy that I met at work, were both in University as well. We have been out about 10 times some of these involve with his freinds and mine going for drinks and going out after. Im jus...
A. 16 April 2013: I held onto my virginity until I found a special guy and it was a fantastic thing to do! I have been in relationships lasting up to 3years and had 7 boyfriends before the one I gave myself to. The reason I could do that and was so confident was I ... (read in full...)
I find it easier to orgasm by myself than when he's in me
Q. I have never heard anyone talk about this but when I am by myself, I completely know where to go and what to do for orgasm through clitoral stimulation. However, when a guy is in me, I feel like my clit changes shape, like turns inwards/downward and ...
A. 16 April 2013: I know what you mean :)
It's very different when there's something inside of you.. It changes the dynamic completely and can take getting used to!
Different positions may help. I personally find it great in reverse cowgirl and spooning position... (read in full...)
Anyone with experience in watersports?
Q. So, recently my boyfriend told me that it would be a major turn on if I peed on him during sex. He also suggested peeing inside me during sex. It doesn't gross me out or anything...I guess I just want to know if anyone had any experience with this. ...
A. 16 April 2013: Different strokes for different folks. Try it if you want. But try to drink lots of water and be safe about it. Urinating is excreting waste, I.e. all the things your body doesn't want, so personally I don't see the turn on in having that on your ... (read in full...)
Can I kiss a girl on the first date?
Q. Hi...First I really want to tell u who i love this website I really like it...It's really cool Isn't it? lol...Okay! I'm going this Saturday on a date with a girl...It will be the first And I want to know if I can kiss this girl during the first da...
A. 16 April 2013: hrangel28 is right, go with the flow.
I found it very cute on a date I went on when the guy had asked me, while texting beforehand, if he could get a kiss on the date and it became a cute way to flirt with me saying maybe and him waiting for it. ... (read in full...)
Orgasm question
Q. Do you think there is such a thing as an orgasm that *requires* BOTH gspot and clitoris stimulation?? I ask because I've heard of females having either a clitoris orgasm or a vaginal orgasm. I've tried having just a vaginal orgasm or just a...
A. 16 April 2013: Hello anon :) I'm sorry you've received some close minded answers but let me see if I can help you further :) I'm only 18 but, like you, I have frequently searched for information on how to make my sex life as fun and rewarding as possible, f... (read in full...)
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