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Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?

Q.   Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...

A.   31 August 2006: Dear anonymous, writes (28 August 2006): Buddy, you need to swallow the pill and move on. You have been with FIFTY women and she has only been with six. What in the planet earth are you complaining about?????? She has a much bigger pill to swall... (read in full...)

Lose weight or my boyfriend?

Q.   I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...

A.   1 June 2006: Hey Dr. Pete, It takes a man of great character to recognize another. It’s always nice to hear good news from the Doctor! Thanks Dr., Happylife, ... (read in full...)

Lose weight or my boyfriend?

Q.   I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...

A.   31 May 2006: Hey Willywombat, I think in all fairness it is only right that I answer your question. After all, you took the time to reply to all my questions too. So here we go! You asked me “how *less* pretty people have relationships and sexual ones at t... (read in full...)

Lose weight or my boyfriend?

Q.   I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...

A.   30 May 2006: Dear Ladyluck, I hope that I’ve been helpful to you. Please do not hesitate to e-mail me should you ever have any questions. Martini, you are very funny! Willywombat, Wendyg and Dr. Pete, thanks for all your responses. I’m sure that just like mys... (read in full...)

Lose weight or my boyfriend?

Q.   I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...

A.   30 May 2006: On May 28th 2006 I asked willywombat to ask her eight brothers and her husband the following question: If your wife could only meet one of the following emotional needs for the rest of your marriage, which would you prefer she met??? PICK ONLY ONE... (read in full...)

Lose weight or my boyfriend?

Q.   I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...

A.   30 May 2006: OK willywombat you win! I had no idea that there are some husbands out there who would prefer to give up lovemaking with their wives forever in exchange for physical attraction. Whats even more amazing is that you said that looks shouldn't matter in ... (read in full...)

Lose weight or my boyfriend?

Q.   I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...

A.   29 May 2006: Hey martini, that was a nice letter you wrote. The story about your parents definitely addresses most marriages today and your own experience with women again reflects the differences we have with women. Thanks for posting it, I enjoyed reading it. ... (read in full...)

Lose weight or my boyfriend?

Q.   I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...

A.   29 May 2006: Hey martini, that was a nice letter you wrote. The story about your parents definitely addresses most marriages today and your own experience with women again reflects the differences we have with women. Thanks for posting it, I enjoyed re... (read in full...)

Husbands holiday is really getting to me... What should I do??

Q.   My hubby and I haven't been married a year yet... The opportunity came up for him to go to Myrtle beach with his friends and he of course with no hesitation, agreed to go with them without discussing it with his wife first. When he asked me if he ...

A.   29 May 2006: Tough situation, I believe that in a marriage couples will every now and then do things that are just so out of character. You can either open a file called "The out of character things my husband will do" and just file this one in that file or ... (read in full...)

Lose weight or my boyfriend?

Q.   I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...

A.   28 May 2006: Hey Dr. Pete, I believe that you are comparing the emotional needs of young couples dating verses those of married couples. Your examples of women being glad to pay for a date is quite typical during the dating phase. Also, it is quite common t... (read in full...)

Lose weight or my boyfriend?

Q.   I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...

A.   28 May 2006: Hey Dr. Pete, Both men and women may have the same emotional needs however, their order of priority is definitely not going to be ranked the same way. Remember, I am not just listing men and women's emotional needs, but instead, I am li... (read in full...)

Lose weight or my boyfriend?

Q.   I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...

A.   28 May 2006: Hey Dr. Pete, You asked me if I am trolling? What makes you ask me this? I'm assuming that you are using the word trolling to say that I'm kind of making an argument in circles. Can you be more specific? Give me an example of something I said... (read in full...)

Lose weight or my boyfriend?

Q.   I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...

A.   28 May 2006:  Willywombat, I really have nothing against you. In fact, people like you who take the time to participate in this debate help educate others on the various types of personalities that men and women share. Therefore, before proceeding, ... (read in full...)

Lose weight or my boyfriend?

Q.   I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...

A.   27 May 2006: Ok ladyluck, You’ve gotten a lot of interesting answers here. I totally recommend you read this book because I’ve read it and I know that it so addresses your situation. Don’t worry about the fact that Wendyg doesn’t think this book is worth re... (read in full...)

Lose weight or my boyfriend?

Q.   I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...

A.   27 May 2006: Dear Wendyg, Ok, here is exactly what Wendyg, is saying when she tells us that the book “His Needs Her Needs” is a load of tosh. She is saying that it is not true that women need a man that is affectionate, communicative, attentive, famil... (read in full...)

Lose weight or my boyfriend?

Q.   I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...

A.   26 May 2006: Dear ladyluck, First of all, lets address the question. “Lose weight or my boyfriend”. Lets be sure to understand that all my advise is pertaining to the question above. I am not discussing anything about the fact that your boyfriend cheated ... (read in full...)

Lose weight or my boyfriend?

Q.   I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...

A.   25 May 2006: Ok ladies, this is happylife again. You all had very interesting articles on this site. Now lets talk a little about emotional needs and their importance. Again, I recommend that you all read the book "His Needs Her Needs" by Willard F. Harley, Jr. ... (read in full...)

Lose weight or my boyfriend?

Q.   I have a problem...I have been with my boyfriend for 6 and a half years we have a child together. We were young when we got together and my child came along quickly and unplanned. I have always loved him but the past year or so I have been havi...

A.   19 May 2006: Well your question has two sides to it. First, the fact that you have gained wheight causes you to be less attractive in his eyes, thus unfulfilling one of his emotional needs (attraction). Secondly, the fact that he is less attracted to you causes ... (read in full...)

Why can't I get my girlfriend's past sex life out of my head?

Q.   Hey out there, I'm going crazy. Well I'm having trouble with my girlfriend's past. She has had sex with 15 other guys and had sexual relations with at least 6 more. I try not to bring it up but it comes up in my head a lot, to the point where I get ...

A.   4 May 2006: Hey Guys, I totally share your pain. My girlfriend is 27 and has been with 16 men before me. One of them was a one night stand and it just kills me to think about it. However, here are a few facts that are important to consider before you leav... (read in full...)

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