He is afraid of commitment and keeps running away. What do I do?
Q. He was hurt so deeply once, not by a woman, that he ran away from everything for years. His life, his friends, his family. He had to start over again from nothing. Now I feel that he is doing this to our relationship. His fear of allowing ...
A. 24 March 2009: Running away? Sure, it's understandable sometimes. But if he's refusing to confront serious problems, he's a coward.
On the other hand, he may just be busy. Or running lines on you.... (read in full...)
I've had 2 abortions and I solely regret having them now...
Q. Hi, I'm 24 year old female, I've had 2 abortions. I had the first one in August 2007 and thereafter in January 2008. The first time I was so scared I didn't even think of anything but my fear of my parents and my boyfriend at that time not at all ...
A. 24 March 2009: Talk to your boyfriend about having a child with. Do not bring up the abortions. You need to focus on the future, not the past
Others will disagree, but I don't think contraception is the answer here. I think your maternal instinct is kicking ... (read in full...)
I'm worried that no one will be able to satisfy me
Q. I have been living in the USA since I was nine and came from Northern Pakistan. I have been spoiled by many gfs especially one of them who wanted me to play all imaginable anal games with her which made me orgasm 10X better. I am well settled, self ...
A. 24 March 2009: You should marry a woman equally experienced. Then you can bring together all that knowledge and really have fun!... (read in full...)
I slept naked beside him... now we've broken up and this worries me.
Q. Hello, 1) First of all I'm confused totally. Dunno if I should be in this relationship... Sometimes I feel I can live without him... But otherwise it's like I really can't live without him. Can't wait to text him. Now, I really dunno what dec...
A. 24 March 2009: Perhaps it is different in your culture, but sleeping naked beside him doesn't mean you were intimate or in a relationship to me.
You should decide if this is the person who is compatible with you, whether or not you slept with him.... (read in full...)
Abnormal nipple erection
Q. I am 21, female, single. I have a problem of abnormal erection of my nipples. I have good firm breasts but only my right breast nipple erects and becomes really hard while the other nipple remains the same i.e. it does not errect. Please advise in ...
A. 24 March 2009: See a doctor. It's probably nothing to worry about, but you should get a medical opinion.... (read in full...)
If I tell him that I am in love with him would it jepordise our friendship
Q. i recently met up with this guy who i hadn't seen in years i really like him and would love for something to happen between us, should i tell him how i feel. if so how should i tell him, i know it sounds silly but i've never told someone somethin...
A. 24 March 2009: Don't tell him you love him. If you really love someone, you don't pressure them (and face it, you do want him to say it back).
The time-honored art of seduction is to get him to chase you. Flirt. Tease. Make him a little jealous. Above al... (read in full...)
I've never been in this situation and I really do love this girl.
Q. about 3 weeks ago a the girl i love told me she loved me, it took her a course of three days to say it, first day she explained she was scared, becasue she didnt think she wouldnt fall in love again, second day she says she mite love me to deat...
A. 24 March 2009: She is using you as an emotional crutch while she has sex with her ex. You are the backup plan. If you want to be the backup plan, then good luck. Some guys prefer to play the beta role. Just realize she doesn't take you too seriously, mate.... (read in full...)
Why can't I stop thinking about him?
Q. Hi. I don't know why but I can't stop thinking about this guy. He is a very nice guy and all but I'm desperately in love with this other guy in my class. Why can't I stop thinking about him?...
A. 24 March 2009: You are attracted to the other guy because he isn't nice.... (read in full...)
Should I tell ex of 3 year relationship that I may be pregnant?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm currently nineteen, and have just gotten out of a three year relationship with someone twelve years my senior. He and I met on the internet, and when we did he lived nine hundred miles away. He moved to me a year into our re...
A. 24 March 2009: Then you should definitely tell him, for the reasons stated. I wish you and your family all luck.... (read in full...)
Best time to have sex without pregnancy?
Q. which time is safe to do sex with my gf? whether 7days after or before 7 days of her period for which she will not get pregnent?...
A. 24 March 2009: Peak fertility is usually before the menstrual cycle, so you should probably aim for a week before.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
He is with another but I still love him
Q. Okay I was with a wonderful man we hit it off so quickly the next week we moved in with each other.My past was pretty violent with men I started not to believe any nice things he would say.I started getting comfortable and hating my job. I gained ...
A. 24 March 2009: Stop being needy. If you let another person control your happiness, you will never be truly happy.
Seek professional help now, before it is too late and you do something you'll later regret.... (read in full...)
My husband had an affair with our daughter in law!
Q. four months ago my husband came to me and confessed to an affair. this was the second time he cheated-or at least that i caught him. first was ten years ago with his secretary. i forgave him then but this time was much harder. it turned out the ...
A. 24 March 2009: Your husband is not a weak man. He is a selfish man, and you are enabling him. Worse, your son seems to have unconsciously imitated your example, by choosing a selfish (and sadistic) mate.
Break the cycle. Divorce your husband and tell your son... (read in full...)
Porn & my husband's midlife crisis?
Q. My Husband and I have been happily married for 7 years now but over the past year he's masterbating over porn more than we have sex, it seem to be taking over our sex life. he doesn't know that I know about this. I didn't mind him looking at porn ...
A. 24 March 2009: Tell him you will not tolerate a stranger in your bed. That includes porn and especially live sex chat. At the point you are suffering from his thoughtlessness, you are not obliged to be tolerant. Would he let you have sex with an attractive co... (read in full...)
Thoughts about sex, early experiences?
Q. I know it is several years too soon but there are things I think about almost constantly. I am a freshman in HS and have never had a boyfriend but when that time comes and I am willing to have sex does the BF remove some of my clothes or should I? ...
A. 24 March 2009: While curiosity is natural, you really shouldn't waste too much time worrying. You're smart enough not to have a boyfriend now, and hopefully you will continue to be that smart for a few more years. To answer your questions, though, there ar... (read in full...)
Should I tell ex of 3 year relationship that I may be pregnant?
Q. Hello everyone, I'm currently nineteen, and have just gotten out of a three year relationship with someone twelve years my senior. He and I met on the internet, and when we did he lived nine hundred miles away. He moved to me a year into our re...
A. 24 March 2009: Yes. As a father (assuming he is the father), he has a parental obligation to your child. He deserves to know that. Unplanned pregnancy is a strain for all involved. Every child deserves to be welcomed and loved. Through foolish and risk... (read in full...)
How do I get over what I had and be grateful for what I've got?
Q. Compared to some peoples' problems on here, this probably isn't very bad but some advice would be welcome nonetheless. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 18 months now. For the first 12 months, everything was amazing. I couldn't do a th...
A. 24 March 2009: Well, first make sure there isn't a more serious problem here. She may be depressed. Or she could be cheating. On the other hand, maybe you two are getting boring. Do something spontaneous or surprising. Flirt with other women. Wrestle ... (read in full...)
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