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| | *oodbutnotgifted's profile:Hi I am James husband and father, and supporter of probably too many pets and animal rights. I feel I can help people because of the indian beleife that that life tends to bring people together so we can learn from each other. people I never ever met walk up and ask me about their love life or about their son in law. My wife has seen it first hand, it's happened for so long I dismiss it anymore as my duty to help best I can. I hope I can help you, some day I may need your help. Who knows. Life teaches through experience and we have been through alot but no one has been through it all, however if we share what we have learned we can be a singular body of unsurpassed wisdom and then world peace would be such a big deal...mostly becasue we would have it. I hope your life is full of happiness, and when your down, well you know where to turn. as far as ticking I enjoy writing (captain obvious here) anything from peotry and limricks to a couple of novels that are probably never going to get finished. the feeling I get from helping people leaves me searching endlessly for someone to save, I know obsesion, but no clinic will lock me up they sick me on you, so whats eating at you? I am mostly bent on being a better father, if I have a cryptonite, thats it. the little ones are hard on an ex army tanker with matrial arts experience and the idea there is no problem that cant be thought out or destoryed entirely. luckily the wife is a tree hugger and budding biology major with a big heart and bad memory :D see you in the posts. be good to one another. |
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I want to go back to my old job, but unsure of BF's reaction
Q. I had a great job and I started liking a coworker ...a lot. My relationship was almost destoryed because of my behavior. I quit my job, not really because I wanted to, but because it would help get my relationship back in order and relieve my BF of ...
A. 15 January 2007: Who do you love? sounds like when the day is out its just you. Why not break up with your bf and get the job, then try dating the guy you like? I have been in relationships where the girl was into someone else but wouldnt tell me. Would have saved ... (read in full...)
He's dating me but marrying his ex because she's pregnant...
Q. Dear Cupids Please advise me here im in a Shakespearean tragedy... My boyfriend is planning to marry the person that he got pregnant. This girl was his ex, which we found out she was pregnant with his child. He did not cheat on me, they have br...
A. 15 January 2007: It's never easy to let go. Where is this leading your life? what will the future be like if you stay with him? He seems like he's afraid to commit to her but in a hury to comit to you, Shes the one getting his ring. Not only that but they are having ... (read in full...)
18 and single ...help!
Q. i need some help ppl..i feel so so down at the moment.im the only single 1 out of all my friends..Im 18, i know thats not very old.I have so much bad luck with men. They just dont seem 2 take me seriously. I want a bf so badly but nothing ever works ...
A. 15 January 2007: your 18, I would be free for a bit, enjoy life. whats wrong with being the only single one relstionships started because you dont want to be single end in tragedy, so whats the point? if your friends are making you feel bad cause your single just ... (read in full...)
Nothing in my life is good and I need help fast!
Q. Im not happy with my life! i rarely see my dad because he was never interested in me and my sisters when i was a child and i dont like the person he is. All of my sisters have left home and i feel that my mum would be happier if i wasnt around, she ...
A. 15 January 2007: Kind of sounds like your goals are confused or even nonexistant. Your turmoil is the result of requiring a particular responce from others. It may be hard but we all have to break away from the need of justification at some point. You are fine just ... (read in full...)
He's my first bf and he tretas me like a queen..but I wnat to experience dating others. Whar should I do?
Q. pls someone answer me! im 17 and have been with my boyfriend for 1yr and a half. he means the world to me and i to him. he treats me like a queen. but there is one problem. ive never dated before i met him, he was my first, so i keep getting this ...
A. 25 December 2006: No one can tell you either way teh coice is yours, he treats you well teh otehrs are right, I would sit still but Im rounding 30 and married to an angel. You are at teh point where your friends are talking to you about how awesome it is to go out ... (read in full...)
His female roomate yells at my bf and bosses him around a lot and I am fed up! What should I do?
Q. I have been dating this guy for about two months. He seems to be an almost perfect match for me... we have a similar sense of humor, enjoy hanging out alone and in social situations, have a lot to talk about, and care for eachother well. However, ...
A. 25 December 2006: If you take time to think it out you'll be better off. The hardest thing to do is to stop and take time from all the emotional havoc and evaluate your reason for being involved, after you understand your position, then try to understand his, what ... (read in full...)
How can I get him back without it being obvious?
Q. A guy split up with me and was so rude. Is there any way I can get him back that is not too obvious?? Thank you....
A. 20 December 2006: You sound as though you would benifit from a little single time. Soul searching. If me or my friends caught a guy (even one of our own) talking to a girl that way one or all of us would be going to jail for assault. Who convinced you thats how a ... (read in full...)
I want to get alot off my chest, hes going away for 3 weeks and it never seems to be the right time!
Q. Hi I have a problem that i need help with I am going out with my bf tonight and feel as tho i need to get some stuff off my chest with him as i keep mulling it over in my head and it never seems the right time to talk to him He is going awa...
A. 20 December 2006: You my friend, are in love. You got it bad, It sounds almost like some one down the road gave you the impression that love is suffering. It's quite the oposite. If your worried and yes I suffer as you do. Try to find constructive things to do, it is ... (read in full...)
How do I move on from my break up? How do I meet someone who even begins to compare?
Q. ive had a lot of help from this website, now I REALLY need some please!! My boyfriend broke up with me yesterday. We had been on a break and he now says he is pretty sure we dont have a future together. We had been together 2 1/2 years, and altho...
A. 20 December 2006: Hello, having been in your shoes and through it all (counceling) I would have to say the working method is live. Sounds like your all involved, I have a friend in your shoes. shes bringing back the same dead relationship and he leaves when hes ready ... (read in full...)
I feel like he doesn't care, it's really upsetting me. I'm not sure he misses me at all.
Q. I met my boyfriend in my first term at university and we spent every day together for the past 7 weeks before having just gone home for the holidays. However towards the end of the term I started feeling like he was taking me for granted... he ...
A. 20 December 2006: Sounds like you could benefit from some soul searching. take this time to learn who you are and what you really want, he'll be more attracted to you when you have that confidence, and you may just find you deserve to be treated better. Good luck.... (read in full...)
My gf broke up with me. How can I get her back?
Q. my girlfriend of seven years recently broke up with me but i really want her back i love her so much what can i do. ...
A. 20 December 2006: That depends entirely upon the relationship you had and where she has gone now. not enough information, but relationships end, long lasting ones (7years) can have their ins and outs. just go on with you life man and be sure to check in on her hang ... (read in full...)
I moved to Spain with my nasty second husband. I want to move back to England, but all my ties are in Spain.
Q. I live in Spain with my second husband and all my ties are here. My husand turns very nasty when he has had a drink. He dos´nt hit me but he says very horrible things about me and my two daughters. I am now getting to a point I am so fed up of it. I ...
A. 20 December 2006: Hello 2nd timer, Thank you first of for asking this question, most would have walked. In your case and my opinion I have noted that drunks wind up alone, and they heal or depending on wether their done drinking, my father was an abusive drunk, he ... (read in full...)
Why is it that men split with women and don't really give them a reason why?
Q. Hi Cupids, Why is it that men split with women and don't really give them a reason why? I am 25. It doesn't happen to me often but it has done recently. I really liked a guy and he tried to avoid me for nearly a month then we did meet up he said ...
A. 20 December 2006: Sorry to hear your going through this, its not just men these days though. sounds like he found some one else. Sorry. Being a guy I hear a lot of the other guys talking about the new girl and they dont let the other off right, like in your case, ... (read in full...)
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