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Why do some men feel the need to triangulate in their new relationship?

Q.   I have always heard triangulation is a very common trait of a toxic relationship but my question is what is behind doing triangulation to a new girlfriend with an ex fling? Can this be to make her feel less of, make the boyfriend feel powerful ...

A.   6 June 2021: @Honeypie Thank you so much for your wise words I appreciate it, I’ve been feeling weird getting used to all of this, I admit it hurt me and even with all the bs my emotions are like on a rollercoaster, but trying to get better. I didn’t realize ... (read in full...)

Why do some men feel the need to triangulate in their new relationship?

Q.   I have always heard triangulation is a very common trait of a toxic relationship but my question is what is behind doing triangulation to a new girlfriend with an ex fling? Can this be to make her feel less of, make the boyfriend feel powerful ...

A.   4 June 2021: @Honeypie. My update is that we broke up this morning because some stupid video shit and he got bitchy with me I also got bitchy with him told him a nasty truth to his face,so it went down, then when I packed up all my stuff that I was waiting for ... (read in full...)

Why do some men feel the need to triangulate in their new relationship?

Q.   I have always heard triangulation is a very common trait of a toxic relationship but my question is what is behind doing triangulation to a new girlfriend with an ex fling? Can this be to make her feel less of, make the boyfriend feel powerful ...

A.   2 June 2021: @Honeypie, you are absolutely right, what I meant to say was that sometimes when I am with him I feel belittled or ugly, I guess since he talks so much about how beautiful another woman is let’s say a model, tv personality, an ex fling etc, it ... (read in full...)

Why do some men feel the need to triangulate in their new relationship?

Q.   I have always heard triangulation is a very common trait of a toxic relationship but my question is what is behind doing triangulation to a new girlfriend with an ex fling? Can this be to make her feel less of, make the boyfriend feel powerful ...

A.   1 June 2021: @Honeypie, yeah, plus I have come to noticed, that everyone that surrounds me tells me how good looking I am and that I should look myself in the mirror, and I realize that my bf doesn’t give me any reassurance and hes the one that makes me feel bad ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is going to be sleeping at his ex's house this weekend

Q.   My older bf (46), told me(29) that this upcoming weekend we were not going to see each other because he was going to go back to the city where he lived before with his ex wife, and that he was going to do some things, like look for a ...

A.   10 April 2018: @Dionne' Yeah he asked me in the most normal an natural way, are you fine that I stay there or not? an my min went blank and I said with not a lot of enthusiasm,:'' I trust you!!, I feel so stupid I should just have said NO! it's not apropriate even ... (read in full...)

Did he not know what to do with our relationship? What could have triggered his response? I am very confused! Need honest advice!

Q.   I, Guess I Kind of broke up with my boyfriend ( 37y/o) I could not stand his erratic behavior anymore. last friday he came for his graduation, and he messaged me on past Thursday saying that on Friday he was coming early here to town where I live, ...

A.   3 March 2017: @ 02DuszJ,You are right, He actually graduated from med school that day!, But as many of you said there was a big miscommuication, I kinda of changed plans, but I was still willing to go out with him at the time he proposed, the reason I send him ... (read in full...)

Do these fake profiles suggest he's living a double life?

Q.   Hello,so let me start off by saying that my boyfriend(in his 30s) has never been the ''social media'' type of guy or at least that's what he told me, He does not like pictures to be taken of him or even with me!, so one day during thanksgiving 2014 ...

A.   22 January 2017: He said: it's because he does not like his information to be out there,yet the weird part is why Have a real picture of him in one profile, when He in fact has never taken pictures with me and does not like to take pictures in general. Some time ago ... (read in full...)

Do these fake profiles suggest he's living a double life?

Q.   Hello,so let me start off by saying that my boyfriend(in his 30s) has never been the ''social media'' type of guy or at least that's what he told me, He does not like pictures to be taken of him or even with me!, so one day during thanksgiving 2014 ...

A.   20 January 2017: @Honeypie,I Asked him if he had a Facebook account, he said yes but its a fake and old Facebook account,that he does not use,but he was obviously referring to 1 account, but he has 2 fake ones, there are both fake accounts under both of his 2 ... (read in full...)

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