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... Send *oolishsage a private message | | | *oolishsage's profile:36 yr old American male. I've had some very high and some very low points in both love and life in general, but one thing is for sure - I have a wide range of experience in a lot of things for a fairly short amount of time spent here on this planet.
I have two wonderful young children and am very good platonic friends with my ex-wife. Yes - it really is possible...
With some aspects of love and relationships, I'd consider myself very knowledgeable and even an expert. At the same time, there are many others that at times leave me feeling like I'm clueless. You're likely to see me asking questions as well as answering them, mostly because I find that with relationships, the old saying "you can't see the forest for the trees" definitely holds true. Often I find that the best answer for someone can be the most obvious one for everybody else to see - but we either overlook it or simply don't want to face it.
Perspective is tremendously important and often times different people will have completely different beliefs on what is true in any given matter. Frequently circumstances and events leading up to a situation greatly influence it and while to one individual they seemed completely inconsequential, it may make all the difference in the world to another.
Be patient with yourself and also try to place yourself in the shoes of the other person and consider how they may be feeling about what's transpired given their past. First and foremost - love yourself, respect yourself and be true to yourself, your needs and your feelings. When you can do that without getting lost in the mire, things will often become much more clear.
Best of luck to all of us in life and love,
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