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I am a senior adult with many life experiences. I have made many mistakes and thankfully learned from many of them. As a young adult I struggled with alcohol and drugs. I have been married and divorced more than once, I was widowed at 36. I have lost two children, my parents and my husband. I am a Christian and I owe everything to Christ who loves me. I offer honest advice and support to those who truly need it, and a dose of truth to anyone who needs to hear it. What I say may not always seem kind, but the truth is not always pleasant. Forgive me if I hurt your feelings, I speak out of love.

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Her past is affecting the way I see her now but I don't want to let her go...please help!

Q.   Hi all, this my story: I am 23 and last year I got to know to a girl (24) from my college whom I liked, but there was nothing between us, she just belonged to the same circle of friends as I, so we just hanged out together and stuff, sometimes...

A.   11 December 2009: Don't try to justify to yourself, why you should pursue a relationship with her. I was mainly trying to focus in her sexual behavior. Do you want a relationship with someone that will spread their legs for anybody? You knew what you wanted to do ... (read in full...)

Why do married men have affairs with less attractive women?

Q.   On a Dr. Phil show it was said that 80 percent of married men have affairs with women who are less attractive than their wives, why do married men choose women who are less attractive, my husband had an affair and the women was not what I ever ...

A.   11 December 2009: All people want to feel loved, desired, respected, wanted and safe in a relationship. How much of that were you giving to your husband? I despise cheaters, male or female. Did you ever think maybe she made him FEEL like a man. If your husband is ... (read in full...)

I would tell her how I feel but she has a boyfriend and her brother is one of my best friends! Please help!

Q.   I need to know what to do there's a girl who i work with in a part-time job. I'm 17 and she's 20. I'm still in secondary school and she's in second year in college. What I look forward to is the weekend so i can see her. We can talk about absolute...

A.   11 December 2009: You are not going to like my advice, but I know what I'm talking about. You have more than two problems, the most important one is your age, it's not just about numbers its about maturity. She may be 3 or so years older than you physically, but as ... (read in full...)

Could the gunk on the comforter be semen? How can I get it tested?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have found white, milky hard gunk all over my comforter. I suspect my spouse and cleaning lady had oral sex. You see my spouse and I have had no sex of any kind -not even oral sex for 3 years or more. When he drinks alcohol, he ...

A.   11 December 2009: I gave a brief answer before about identifing the substance and did not address the issues of your marriage. I don't know how long you were married or how long you had an active sex life, but I believe sex sould strengthen the bond between a ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend and Christmas, any present ideas for me?

Q.   My boy friend just turned 14 and i am 13 and him and i have been going out for almost 3 weeks, but we have liked eachother for months! it took him awhile to decide how to ask me out. Anyways, christmas day is gonna of course be christmas, but it is ...

A.   11 December 2009: I remember what 13 and 14 was like. I remember that relationships were so wonderful and complicated. Sorry I I come off so senical, but growing up will do that sometimes. First, I am sure he doesn't have a lot of money, his parents might have ... (read in full...)

What can I do for cramps besides pain meds and heating pads?

Q.   What do I do for cramps besides taking pain medications and using a heat pad? My period comes tomorrow and I can already tell the cramps will be bad. Also I dont have time in between classes to change my tampon and most of my teachers dont let...

A.   9 December 2009: I suggest you wear a sanitary napkin aloung with the tampon for protection. I found these suggestions on the internet. 1.OTC pain relievers such as ibuprofen or naproxen used around the clock at the first sign of your period helps to reduce the ... (read in full...)

Her past is affecting the way I see her now but I don't want to let her go...please help!

Q.   Hi all, this my story: I am 23 and last year I got to know to a girl (24) from my college whom I liked, but there was nothing between us, she just belonged to the same circle of friends as I, so we just hanged out together and stuff, sometimes...

A.   8 December 2009: I am so sorry you are going through this, I know it hurts, but I will be honest with you, don't blame yourself for your thoughts about her. What she has done is pretty sorry. I feel sorry for her as well. This is a lot of baggage for you to take ... (read in full...)

Married but falling for another man, what should I do!?

Q.   what do i do. im married, 1 child. great marriage, no lies, no infidelity, and no drama. but i think im falling for another man. hes married too. iv been apart working this past year and this man is working with me. were both apart from loved ones. ...

A.   8 December 2009: From your post I can tell you know what your doing is wrong. You are not just messing up your life, you are messing up your child's and your husbands'if along with this man, his wife and children (if he has any). You already made that choice when ... (read in full...)

I loved him...

Q.   I still cant believe it. I lost my virginity when i was in 8th grade and only 14 years old. Now its changed my life forever. I dont feel like its a bad thing but when i think about it hard, it kinda disappoints me. Ive had sex with two guys now and ...

A.   8 December 2009: I made the same mistake when I was your age. My mom and dad were going through an ugly divorce, he was having an affair with a woman at his work place. My reasoning got messed up when I saw the power she had over him with sex, he sacrificed his ... (read in full...)

Could the gunk on the comforter be semen? How can I get it tested?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I have found white, milky hard gunk all over my comforter. I suspect my spouse and cleaning lady had oral sex. You see my spouse and I have had no sex of any kind -not even oral sex for 3 years or more. When he drinks alcohol, he ...

A.   1 December 2009: Use a black light to see if it illuminates. Good Luck... (read in full...)

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