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Could it be orgasm?

Q.   There was a time while having sex with my girlfriend when she started trembling hard, calling my name and saying she sees darkness and stuff. Could it be orgasm?...

A.   22 August 2008: yes it most probably is. i wouldn't worry about a thing. people handle sex in different ways. mabye one time you could try and bring it up but in a joking way because you wouldn't want her to get affended or embarresed. let me know what happen... (read in full...)

My fears are that he is not wanting our relationship to reach that level of intimacy. Or, that there is an issue he has with sex. It's unclear to me why we are waiting. Thus?

Q.   I've been dating someone for almost 3 months. We are both in our early thirties. Things are going very well. We have a lot of laughter together and can honestly say we have built a wonderful friendship. There is definitely mutual physical ...

A.   22 August 2008: well i would say that you should try and bring it up again. just ask him why he feels like this and tell him exactly the way you feel about it. but if i were you i wouldn't make him feel to pressured because if you felt like you wanted to take ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend doesn't seem to want to say "I miss you". Do men find these things hard to say?

Q.   i sort of split from my boyf despite being in love with each other because i felt like things were going a bit too fast and we were wanting different things.i tell him i miss him but he doesnt seem to say that but i think maybe he does as he once ...

A.   22 August 2008: most men are like that i would say. girls like saying stuff like that to there boyfriends. but when it comes back to the boys saying it they usually don't, although they do actually feel that way. i don't reckon it anything to worry about. let m... (read in full...)

What happened here? He pays no attention to me unless we're out, and the sex has gone from a lot and good to less and NO foreplay!

Q.   When me and my bf started dating in the beginning, he would be all over me. Now after 5 months of dating i don't even exist around him, he'd rather just have me in the background while he watches tv, hangs out with his friends etc. As soon as we go ...

A.   20 August 2008: You are not over reacting. You shouldn't let your boyfriend treat you like that. He can either treat you nicely or he should just forget it. He cant be nice and then nasty the next minute. If i was you i would talk to your boyfriend and tell him ... (read in full...)

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