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I'm too jealous and I don't understand why!!!

Q.   Hi, I've got a bit of a problem. I'm too jealous and I don't understand why!!! My boyfriend watches a lot of porn and I get absolutely furious about it. I don't understand what my problem is, because I love too watch it myself!!! I love watching it ...

A.   30 December 2008: at the end of the day your boyfriend is with you . its just fantasies like they watch them . shoudlnt be jealous over something someone watches :) x... (read in full...)

What are some good games to play with my boyfriend while we're making out?

Q.   What are some good games to play with my boyfriend while we're making out? I have a few but others would be appreciated :D ...

A.   30 December 2008: im not sure about the whole game situation? i dont understand lol :) ... (read in full...)

Should I have made a move when she kissed me?

Q.   Hi Me and my girlfriend broke up because she thought i loved her to much? I ran 12 miles to hand her some flowers and to talk about it, however her sister took the flowers and she didn't want to speak to me. as i was running back she called me a...

A.   30 December 2008: i think you should give her time to think and miss you . i wouldnt go running back firstly .. she needs something to chase and you cant just be there ready to give all the time . let me know. kirsty :) x... (read in full...)

Should I shave in preparation for sex?

Q.   So, me and my boyfriend are wanting to have sex sometime soon but I don't know if I should shave down there or not. Should I ask him or is it weird to ask your boyfriend something like that? Or do most guys like it shaved or just trimmed? Or leave ...

A.   30 December 2008: well yes i think you should to be honest :) let me know . kirsty. x... (read in full...)

I'm 100% totally and completely terrified to have sex!! Is there something wrong with me?

Q.   ok..so, hi! i'm 15 years old and kinda depressed. all of my female friends are having sex and i feel totally left out. i'm not saying that i'm just going to go do it for the hell of it, but still..it bothers me that i feel like i can't talk to them ...

A.   22 August 2008: well you shouldnt want to have sex or feel left out because your friends have but if it hurts inserting a finger maybe you should do it more often so you will get used to it more when your ready so hopefully it wont hurt as much as you think . ... (read in full...)

My family tells me to stay away from him or they won't help me but I still love him!

Q.   hi, im a 28/f. I was in a bad relationship, he hurt me physically and emtionally, and took over my money. We broke up , but we have a child together and i still love him and want to chat, but my family tells me to stay away from him, and they ...

A.   22 August 2008: well if you are in love you cant help it right ? so maybe just a chat to discuss whats happened in the past and hopefully he will not be like that again . maybe with profesional help aswell . especially when there is a child involed you should do ... (read in full...)

Do my dreams of him cheating on me mean that he actually is?

Q.   i had a dream that my boyfriend of 15 months cheats on me, i have had this dream 3 times now, the las dream was that i was hanging out with him, we were sitting down and this girl sat next to us and kept coming close to us until he put his arm ...

A.   22 August 2008: no its just your mind playing with you . unless you have suspiousions in real life i wouldnt worry youself self about it. dreams hardly ever come true . hopefully not this one either . but maybe you should tell him , and have a laugh about it , but ... (read in full...)

I think she wants more, but I don't know if I'm gay and to be honest I wouldn't mind!

Q.   Hi, I have a bit of a problem! well i'm not sure if it is a problem! I have been working with this woman for aobut 3 years! I am like dependant on her for certain reasons. She always want's to be alone with me and she is always hugging me. The work ...

A.   20 August 2008: well if you have feelings for her give little signals . and it seems pretty obvious she likes you . so just lean in for a kiss . all she can say is no .. right ? good luck . get back to me . kirsty x... (read in full...)

Why did he say that to me?

Q.   Hi I am 16 and just need some help understanding this. Me and my best friend who is a guy and we have known each other for 12 years is opening up to me i guess you could say. He is very open about his private areas with me. He always says thing like ...

A.   20 August 2008: he obviously thought you had feelings for her aswell as him . Or he might just be having a laugh with you but secretly likes you too . But if he does say things like that again just say that you dont want to know and just laugh so he doesnt take it ... (read in full...)

I love him and he loves me back, but he's going out with my best friend!

Q.   i love this guy but he's going out with my best friend and he loves me back. What should i do???...

A.   20 August 2008: well if you have to choose if you want to loose your best friend over a boy you might break up with sooner or later . if your best friend was a person you couldnt live without , i wouldnt do this to her . If the boy doesnt like that girl no more he ... (read in full...)

Am I too young to have sex? My bf really wants to and I do too.

Q.   Okayy so we both really wanna have sex but we dont know if we should cause were both scared it'll hurt me and we dont kno if were to young. Please help... What should we do?:( ...

A.   20 August 2008: well it is better if you do wait till your legal more for your boyfriends sake . but if this does happen make sure you use protection or go on the pill . but i would talk to a close friend that is more experienced than yourself so you know you have... (read in full...)

Is it a smart decision to move to another country to get over a heartbreak?

Q.   is it a smart move to leave the country to move on from heartbreak and just start life with another country? and is it okay to still make friends to him afterall the lies he had caused me?please advice me...

A.   20 August 2008: i dont think you should move away as that will probably make you think more at what is back at home . Maybe a short break away with busy activites will take your mind off him more , and it is better if you stay friends with an ex espeically if you ... (read in full...)

My husband will get angry over the most trivial things, then won't speak to me for days!

Q.   my husband and i have been married for 24 years. we have had our share of arguing and fighting. in the past 3 years we have started riding motorcycles and hanging out with our friends and this usually involves a couple of drinks, sometimes more. ...

A.   20 August 2008: well to be honest he seems quite pathetic. Im not married but if i had a husband like that i would know what you were talking about . You be be very frustrated about how he is so childish about the issues . But you need to sit him down and make him ... (read in full...)

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