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I'm not relaxed enough to go and talk to him first...what can I do?

Q.   hey guys i need help! i like this guy. i tried being friends with his friends to get closer to him but his best friend doesn't seem to like me. Although his other close friends we talk normally because we used and are still friends from years ago. ...

A.   13 January 2007: accidentilly on purpose bump into him. find out what he likes. maybe you dont understand something in class see if he can help you? you need to find the confidence in urself, try to catch his eye by playing with ur neck. smile at him. relax ar... (read in full...)

I get turned on by naked chicks more than men.. scared I may become a lesbian!

Q.   I'm a female and not a lesbian but i get turned on seeing women naked than seeing men naked. What the heck is wrong with me!?? This is very unlikely for a woman but i do get excited when i see women's breast and women in bikinis (only those you ...

A.   13 January 2007: i am just like you i couldnt be intimate with a woman but i too am turned on by them. sex scenes are made where the focus is all on the woman. the man hides his dick in the woman which is his best part, (he is just like a toy). the woman is made... (read in full...)

We are both shy so how can I get him to kiss me?

Q.   I really like this guy and i think he likes me back i having my 18th bday party soon any ideas on how i can either kiss him or have him kiss me as we both shy and he doesnt drink also. we cant play spin the bottle as almost everyone else is in a ...

A.   13 January 2007: the excitment in a first kiss. people plan too much. flirt. when talking to himplay with ur neck or necklace, run ur fingers through ur hair and pass him a few shy smiles. softly brush past him that you catch his hand turn to catch him looking at y... (read in full...)

I'm not ready for motherhood! Should I have an abortion or keep this baby?

Q.   Hey there! I am about less than 2 months pregnant. I am devastated. I'm only 17 and this was obviously very unplanned. I wish I could turn back time and change the fact that I had unprotected sex. I'm stuck in the middle wondering if I should have ...

A.   13 January 2007: this will be the biggest decission you will ever make. you shouldnt make it alone. no one can tell you what to do. your dreams are there to help you. i have baby dreams all of the time but it doesnt mean you will be a bad person for aborting... (read in full...)

I want someone to like me back - any ideas?

Q.   This is pretty embaressing. I'm 15 and haven't had a boyfriend yet. I would say I am friendly to everyone, but guys don't like me like that. I like guys and right now I have a crush on one inpeticular, I just don't know what to do. I am not nerdy ...

A.   28 November 2006: dont worry, try not to rush into boys. have a childhood first, its something that everyone wishes they could have again, boys will come to you. if they havent noticed you yet, then that just means that they and yourself are not ready. i told myse... (read in full...)

Been with her 11 months..what can I do to make this relationship fun again?

Q.   hey, ive been with my gf for almost 11 months and i just want to know how much time should i spend with her per week. the thing is that i could only see her on week end (friday,saterday,sunday) and she says that she would like to go out with her ...

A.   24 November 2006: can you not see her of a night in the week? join up with both of your friends and have a good time, mix, get to know them. girls talk to their friend about almost everything, so find out about her life when you are not there. fun out of the bedr... (read in full...)

How should I move when I'm on top?

Q.   When having sex and I'm on top I don't really know what movements to make, like I move my hips forward and backwards quickly but my boyfriend once said to me "Can't you try something new? And move differently?" so I think he was kinda getting bored ...

A.   24 November 2006: face to face, slow deep riding motion like a grind. put your hands behind you on his thighs to support yourself. rise up slowly so all that is in you is the tip, sometimes hold that position count to 3 (in your head) and down again. a few bunny ho... (read in full...)

I've cheated on my partner with his friend! He's ending our relationship and I don't know what to do?

Q.   ive recently cheated on my partner with his friend our relationship has revolved around him and his friends for so long i just didn't know what i was doin i love him very much and we have a small daughter he took me back initially but now has told ...

A.   24 November 2006: im sorry to say, if you cheated how can you say u love him? if he is talking of ending it then still living in the same place together is making things more confusing to you, him and most probably the child between you both. every1 gets lonely u... (read in full...)

My current partner wants me to cut down on my visitation with my little daughter! What can I do?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I feel as though I am in an impossible situation and don't know which way to turn, can you help! I divorced my wife earlier this year, we have a child between us who is three years old and who I see on a regular basis. I now live with ...

A.   24 November 2006: your daughter should mean more to you than your new partner. she has no right to make you see less of your daughter!!! your little girl needs you now more than ever. shes probably confused at the fact her mummy and daddy arent together anymore.... (read in full...)

Sex is getting boring with my gf...any tips on how to spice it up with new positions?

Q.   My Girl only want's to give missionary position all the time is there any way i can get her out if this position? we i first got my girl doggy, Cowgirl style was all we did all the time now 13 month's later she only a fan of missionary posit...

A.   24 November 2006: tying up is good. maybe try in the shower. get out of the bedroom. go around ur home get her to play with herself and you watch her. take it outside, the bedroom puts it as on ur back, coz sleep time. if you take it to other places on your back isn... (read in full...)

She has turned into a nightmare, it's driving me insane!

Q.   My fiance and I have a little boy aged 5 months. He's a lovely little lad and I love him to bits........ Trouble is the fiance - she has turned into a nightmare. I find myself treading on eggshells round her she freaks about the tiniest little t...

A.   24 November 2006: she is most probably worn out from dealing with a new baby all day. could be drpression. i know that you work during the day and women can moan at the little things but she works throught the day and night. you can leave your work at work, but... (read in full...)

How do I get my erection back?

Q.   I am 29 and married before two months. Every thing went well for two months. First my wife was not so interested in sex due to pain at the time of intercourse but I helped her to recover from that problem and we had complete sex up to 7 times ...

A.   24 November 2006: my boyfriend had this problem. this gets a little dirty but it worked for us so here goes. i got him to lay on his back and look at me. i then stroked all over his body with soft finger tips or a feather over his most sensitive areas ( side of ... (read in full...)

Lately, she hasn't wanted to have sex with me! Is she still attracted to me?

Q.   Hi there, im 18 and my girlfriend is 17 (both over the age of consent in great britain) we have been going out for 3 months and have been seeing eachother on a daily basis for 2 to 3 hours a day after school. we have had sex, lately i h...

A.   23 November 2006: have you tried listening to her body language, when you are intimate does she show you what she likes, maybe shes pulling away from the sex.. that maybe she wants romance?? try a few nights apart where you dont see each other for 48hours, give your... (read in full...)

I think I love my best friend, how can I tell her??

Q.   i have this very close friend. she trusts me with everything, and comes to me whenever she's upset. we are really good friends. i'm beginning to like her. in fact i'm always thinkin about her. she was upset a few days ago and she text me to go to ...

A.   19 November 2006: if you are as close as you say you are then it could just be that you feelings are getting mixed, you want to be there for her but sometimes if a friend gets too close they could be seen as a threat. if you friend is not happy with her situ... (read in full...)

My gf wants a surprise Christmas prezzie, Oh Joy! What do I buy?

Q.   I've been going out with my girlfriend for nearly 6 months now and I have a problem - Christmas. I asked her what she wanted and she said surprise me. Brilliant. So can anyone tell me what type of present I should get her. She knows what I lik...

A.   19 November 2006: depending on how u feel about her, jewllery is quite often a good bet. if engagement is not on the cards then maybe an iternity ring, or book a romantic weekend away somewhere. it doesnt have to be expensive, a seaside hotel or cottage wrapped ... (read in full...)

I really like him and I think he likes me too...

Q.   There's this guy that I can't stop thinking about recently. I've known him for around 3 years now, but we've only just become friends recently and I see him as a really good friend too, but there's something to him that makes me want to see him ...

A.   19 November 2006: my advise is to follow your heart. if you like him and feel he as given you signs to say he likes you then find the courrage to ask him. sometimes friend are selfish as much as they love you they will mostly have in the back of their mind but i sa... (read in full...)

I need to go on the pill but mom wont agree !

Q.   hi, i was wondering if anyone (female) would have advice for me i am a 15 year old girl and lately my pms is incredibly painful. i have cramps for weeks leading up to my pms just to have that last up to 7-8 days of heavy flow with even worse cram...

A.   15 November 2006: i too sufered with your symptoms for months with my periods so much so that for my entire week of every month i was in bed on pain killers. i could hardly move to get to the toilet to be sick each time. i went to the dr who put me on a tablet that ... (read in full...)

im 16 falling for a 28 year old at work

Q.   i really have a huge crush on a guy at work i mean like really really strong feelings, but im only 16 so u may think its just my age to blame for the lust ive got over him . A problem in the matter is i dont know how old he is..im thinkin he's ...

A.   15 November 2006: they say not to mix business with pleasure, find out about him, try talking to him, just find a little confidence in urself, if he likes you too then age shouldnt matter just be careful, dont rush into anything! find a steady footing before you fall... (read in full...)

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