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I'm not relaxed enough to go and talk to him first...what can I do?

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Question - (12 January 2007) 5 Answers - (Newest, 16 January 2007)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey guys i need help! i like this guy. i tried being friends with his friends to get closer to him but his best friend doesn't seem to like me. Although his other close friends we talk normally because we used and are still friends from years ago. so anyways tried being friends didn't help. i don't feel relaxed for me to go and talk to him 1st. any suggestions..what to do. i think he is really great. but i just can't find the guts to talk to him even though we are in the same class.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2007):

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hey all..thx a lot master abraham..but i need another advice..to know if he likes me or not..i don't think i can do wut u all adviced me..i am way too shy to do sooo..need more advice what can i do to know..ok this was a long while ago..he was assigned a seat next to me in class but a while afterhe went and changed hisplace to sit next to his bstfrnd..does that mean anything?? i desperatly need advice to win this guy's heart.i think i likes him verymuchhh..thx guys gals

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2007):

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well an update..i really like'em i dunt know wut to do.we still don't talk although now i'm catching him looking my way more(i won't say at me cuz i can't be sure if he's looking at me or my friends)..but i needsome advice to know if he likes me or not (orisit maybe 1 of my friends) i need some help to really know if he likes me i am getting obsessed ithink but'em all day..another issue; my good gurlfriends had a big fight with the bf of the guy i like. i dontno on whose side i shud be or neutral(he is popular) i am trying to be neutral but i idon't want to lose my good gfs

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2007):

Well baby girl, I think I should give you a little advice which i know it will be of a great help to you when you work on it.. Since this guy doesnt talk to you and you too doesnt want to be the first to talk to him, I want to know if he attend school with you, if yes, fine. But I think you have to let this guy know you are in love with him, but eye contact and body language, and if this doesnt work, I think should have a very simple subject which you most know he is good of, and tell him to show you, and I think in the process of that request he will not fail to do your wish, but on that period you coming closer to him, I want to let you know that you dont just jump in saying let be friend or anything, but with the eye contact and the body langauge he seems in you, he will than be the first to say he want a friendship with you..... I think you should try this and if it deosnt work pls do let me know than i will give you another option to catch him, cox i am a guy and I know alot of things girls do to win guys heart

Thanks and hope this help

Master Abraham

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A female reader, heartxbrokenxgurl United States +, writes (13 January 2007):

heartxbrokenxgurl agony auntok ive done this before when u see him in the hallway bump into him n say srry then go down to pick wutever u dropped n then come up slowlly n say oo hi im wutever ur name is then talk for a lil bit trust me it worked for me n me n him dated for 1 yr it worked n hopefully it will for u

hopes this helps

?date master jenna /heartxbrokenxgurl

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A female reader, des16 United Kingdom +, writes (13 January 2007):

des16 agony auntaccidentilly on purpose bump into him.

find out what he likes.

maybe you dont understand something in class see if he can help you? you need to find the confidence in urself, try to catch his eye by playing with ur neck. smile at him. relax around him.

if he still doesnt see you then he is blind and not worth your attention. good luck xxx

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