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I just like to help people with their problems since everyone on this site was so willing to help me with things that I could have never told anyone else.

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He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?

Q.   I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...

A.   14 March 2011: Well last week I got together with the group that we hung out with during high school and I invited him just to be polite and I didn't think that he would even respond or show up. To my surprise he came, but most of the group couldn't so it was just ... (read in full...)

He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?

Q.   I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...

A.   21 August 2010: Alright I have another problem with this guy. He is still avoiding me. I don't love him anymore which is to be expected. I was going to stop loving him at some point, but that isn't the problem. Looking back at everything that has happened between ... (read in full...)

He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?

Q.   I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...

A.   13 July 2010: Well at least he's talking to me now so thing look like they're getting better. I also don't have to tell my family that I'm depressed or have sleep insomnia because in the last few weeks I just started to feel better. I don't know why, but I really ... (read in full...)

He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?

Q.   I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...

A.   30 May 2010: I know how my responses sound. I'm going to get help, but the seeing ghosts, the early signs of alcoholism, the sleep ansomnia, the clinical depression, and the situation with my friend are all link, some in obvious way and others not so obvious. ... (read in full...)

He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?

Q.   I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...

A.   27 May 2010: I response to if I have ever considered moving out the answer is no. I'm off to college next year, but I'll be going to a college close to home so I can save money, however I will have to switch schools after two years since this college doesn't ... (read in full...)

He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?

Q.   I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...

A.   26 May 2010: I don't need medication. I need a psychologist. Also dealing with the depression won't solve the problem with the my abilities like seeing ghosts being dulled. The situation between me and my friend, if I can even call him that anymore, is ... (read in full...)

He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?

Q.   I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...

A.   26 May 2010: My parents would force me to tell them what the problem is before they spend money on a doctor. Besides there are only two people that can solve to problem and that is me and my friend. The problem is far to complicated to be explained. I think that ... (read in full...)

He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?

Q.   I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...

A.   25 May 2010: I would wait, but there are other issues that this problem between me and him is causing. There is one in particular that this is causing. The fact is that I see, hear, but mostly i sense ghosts. I can also repel them. I have premonition and ... (read in full...)

He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?

Q.   I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...

A.   5 May 2010: Well he was a no show, not that I'm suprised. What made me so angry with him in the first place is that for a while he was the only one that I trusted because I know that my family will disown me when I find out and I just couldn't open up to my ... (read in full...)

Should I keep my account a secret from my family?

Q.   Hi I asked a question about a week ago 'Am I Gay or Bi?' and gave read the answers and most if you said Im Gay so I was happy that the decision is made so I joined a Teen Chat Site for Gays and I'm happy chatting and stuff but I hate sneaking around ...

A.   26 April 2010: If you are not ready to tell your family then don't. If you are worried that you are acting suspicious then I wouldn't worry to much right now. Just be cautious and you will get better at being able to hide these sort of things if you choose to hide ... (read in full...)

He says he's 100 percent straight but I love him

Q.   Hi, i'm Alex, 17 and gay. I met my now best friend about 8 months ago in collage. He is the most amazing person i have ever met, And i fell completely in love with him. For 8 months i have had intense feelings for him, and would do anything to b...

A.   26 April 2010: I would ask him why he shows you so much affection in the way that he does if he's not gay. If you insists that he is not gay then ask him not to do things like that anymore because if he isn't gay doing those sorts of things are just giving you ... (read in full...)

Its very upsetting to me that I can't satisfy my partner the way he does me

Q.   I am gay and my boyfriend and I have been together for almost over 2 and a half years now. I love him with all my heart, so much it hurts when I have to be away from him. As corny as it sounds he completes me, just thinking of him makes me happy, ...

A.   26 April 2010: If I were you I would stop trying to look on the internet for an answer and talk to your partner. Tell him exactly how you feel. Sex also shouldn't be the most important thing in your relationship. As long as you love each other nothing else should ... (read in full...)

He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?

Q.   I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...

A.   25 April 2010: Well we're meeting at another friends house next on friday so hopefully things go well.... (read in full...)

I've finally told myself I'm gay, but I need help because everything confuses me, now!

Q.   Hi I'm in my Teens and I'm Gay. I've been thinking I'm gay for so long and I've just made the step if telling myself I am gay. My Problem is that I am not experienced at picking up guys or even how to know If the guy is gay. I have friends that are ...

A.   20 April 2010: I agree with Just Diana that you shouldn't be trying to pick up other guys at your age. As for you worrying about developing feelings for a friend, don't worry about that until it happens. There isn't anything you can do about it and it's stupid to ... (read in full...)

He's straight and I'm gay. How can I stop falling in love with him?

Q.   I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...

A.   20 April 2010: Ok. I need to clarify a few things. I told the friend that I love that I love them the same time I told them that I was gay. I know that I can't have the relationship that I was hoping to have when I told them. I know that this is hard for them, I'm ... (read in full...)

I don't want to be gay....what should I do?

Q.   I'm so confused right now. I'm 15, and I know that deep inside, I'm straight, or at least bisexual - I want a relationship with a girl, and I've had sexual experiences with girls in the past. However, several years ago I got caught messing with a ...

A.   25 March 2010: I just want to start with I'm not trying to make this about me, but this what I went through. I think that you are going throught the same thing. I know it's hard to be gay or accept that you are. I tryed denying it to myself for years. Deep down I ... (read in full...)

I'm annoyed that he couldn't be honest and give me a straight answer!

Q.   I'm gay and I love one of my best friends and I told them a couple of months ago. They made it clear that they aren't, but they said that they respected the fact that I'm gay. I feel awkward when ever I pass him in the halls at school and I tryed to ...

A.   25 March 2010: What makes me so made about this is that he was really the only person that I trusted and he did that. Anytime I rely on someone or trust them with something important I get betrayed on some level. Now I can't even get a hold of him. I think he is ... (read in full...)

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