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Should I keep my account a secret from my family?

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Question - (21 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Hi I asked a question about a week ago 'Am I Gay or Bi?' and gave read the answers and most if you said Im Gay so I was happy that the decision is made so I joined a Teen Chat Site for Gays and I'm happy chatting and stuff but I hate sneaking around when my familys gone shopping and jumping when I hear the car but also I'm not ready to say i'm gay all if the sudden!

So basically I really like this website I can compare with people but also I don't want to be suspitious around my family! So should I Delete my Account or Sneak a bit more Better?

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A male reader, der_zyniker United States +, writes (26 April 2010):

If you are not ready to tell your family then don't. If you are worried that you are acting suspicious then I wouldn't worry to much right now. Just be cautious and you will get better at being able to hide these sort of things if you choose to hide them.

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A male reader, AvgGuy1 United States +, writes (22 April 2010):

AvgGuy1 agony aunt

You shouldn't tell anyone... until you're absolutely comfortable in doing so.

So continue on, as you are/have been, until you're ready to come out to them.

I can't speak for your parents... but from what I've read on here most are fairly supportive.

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A male reader, The Realist Canada +, writes (22 April 2010):

The Realist agony auntYou talking to others about this is probably very helpful so I think the question really is: are you ready to come out to your family? If not then try to not get caught but sooner or later you will have to tell them whats going on. Use all the sneaking to figure this out and decide if you are ready to tell them. Even telling them that this is your way of figuring yourself out should work, that way you won't have to hide or tell everyone at once.

I'm sure they'll understand.

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