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Will I ever find true love?

Q.   Hello y'all I'm Amanda I'm 20 years old about to be 21 in May 8th, I was born with brain damage and my mother died when I was 6 years of age and I'll live with my grandma forever. Okay here's my question why is it so hard for me to find a guy who ...

A.   12 December 2012: Oh, that sounds so sweet. lol. Not to sound like a prick, but your sentences are good enough that your brain damage isn't THAT bad... I'm guessing. Except the use of the word "y'all" but, I'll be moving down to Jacksonville in a few months so I'm ... (read in full...)

Why can't I ejaculate when I'm with girls?

Q.   Hi all, Just a quick question that has been bothering me for some time now. Ive slept with around 12 girls, mixture or sober and drunken experiences as you would expect, but only one of these girls has ever been able to make me ejaculate. Ha...

A.   12 December 2012: hmm, sounds like you just aren't getting excited enough. If you don't masturbate much, you may actually want to do it at least a couple times a week to get things going. For me, sometimes women aren't "as tight" as I would prefer... It sounds ... (read in full...)

Why did he end it? I am confused!

Q.   Hi everyone, I have been feeling incredibly confused and feel that I need some advice before I can let this go.. Im 29 and the guy in question is 26.. we dated for only 3 weeks. He is quite an introvert and definitely not the player type. The...

A.   12 December 2012: "A man is a man. You should always be careful and play it safe. " - WHOA! We aren't all bad ya know ;) OP, this guy is most likely really ashamed of this. The problem is that no matter how you approach it the shame that he feels is likely to keep ... (read in full...)

We see each other nearly everyday. Will it ruin the relationship or am I being insecure?

Q.   I started seeing this man over two months ago. We have known each other through the gym for about 7 months previous to this. Thing is, Im really afraid of scaring him away. I know he didnt fancy me in the beginning - as he works in the gym, it is ...

A.   12 December 2012: It sounds like everything is going well in your relationship. Some of use men are a bit reserved because women tend to judge men very harshly on average. The more open we are early on, the more women (in general) are likely to run because they feel ... (read in full...)

I feel bad about my sex appeal knowing mean watch much better on a porn movie. Am I second best in a guy's estimation if he watches porn?

Q.   I know there are many questions about porn, but plese bear with me. So when men watch porn, do they watch it for the women's bodies? Especially girl on girl, or girls masturbating, or stripping, ie. porn that doesn't involve men at all (so it's not...

A.   12 December 2012: Eh, only immature men want porn stars. Porn stars and strippers are incredibly raunchy. Men that are "right in the head" prefer women that have had LESS sexual partners, not more lol. I had typed up a few paragraphs but luckily for you I deleted ... (read in full...)

I feel bad about my sex appeal knowing mean watch much better on a porn movie. Am I second best in a guy's estimation if he watches porn?

Q.   I know there are many questions about porn, but plese bear with me. So when men watch porn, do they watch it for the women's bodies? Especially girl on girl, or girls masturbating, or stripping, ie. porn that doesn't involve men at all (so it's not...

A.   11 December 2012: Well, it's good to see that you understand your dillema: "men operate so differently to women". See, most women don't seem to understand how amazing the female body is. For example, you might see some supermodel and compare yourself to her. Well, a ... (read in full...)

He says he's using porn to remind himself of me

Q.   My ex boyfriend and i fell out over his porn use. He claimed he looked at women who look like me to recreate the joy he had from the night before, he was a virgin and claimed it left him buzzing. However he didn't say he often used to it to think ...

A.   11 December 2012: Well, not everyone has a great sense of imagination. So when it comes down to sex it's not easy for all of us to enjoy things in a pitch black room with our eyes closed and no moaning, etc... Porn gives a visual and often audio aspect to things so a ... (read in full...)

Am I being paranoid?

Q.   Hey guys, please tell me if you think im just being paranoid about this. Me and my boyfriend (both 18) have been together 6 months and mostly everything is great. Except I really really like him and im worried he doesnt feel the same way. Its ju...

A.   11 December 2012: Sorry to tell you that you're most likely not being paranoid. I know it's annoying to hear about age but... at 18 years old the vast majority of people aren't going to meet someone that they will be with for more than a few years. Since you stil... (read in full...)

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