He hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend and is 14 years older than me, but he treats me like one - whats going on?

A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So, this man I'll call Mateo and I have been seeing each other for four months and I'm extremely confused. He has all these pet names for me, he's always offering his help when something comes up, we can't seem to stop kissing or snuggling closer to each other at times, we have a blast just watching movies at his place and making dinner, he buys me clothes he thinks I'll like when I'm not with him, he used to pick me up from school (I'm on break now), and spends both days he has off a week with me-we see each other at least 3x a week and every time for at least a few hours. He says he loves having me fall asleep on him and tells me how he misses me when hes away. Guys, do these things mean something? He never has officially asked me to be his girlfriend and I doubt he's told anyone about me...if he did ask, would we even work? Mateo is fourteen years older than me. He's latino, I'm black. He's organized and focused..me, not so much :p He's arrogant sometimes (and knows it) he says I'm very modest...help?

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