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"We have no Great War. No Great Depression. Our Great War's a spiritual war... our Great Depression is our lives."
I work a mundane job, for a pointless organisation, achieving nothing at all....
"On a long enough timeline, the survival rate for everyone drops to zero."
Im pretty sure Ive become exactly what I always wanted to avoid....
"If you wake up at a different time in a different place, could you wake up as a different person?"
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He has a girlfriend, but does he like me?
Q. there is this guy who my friend says like me. he stares at me everytime i go into the shop he works in, and it is sort of constant staring. he always smiles at me and comes over to talk to me and seems happy when he is talking with me and happy to ...
A. 18 August 2010: I do think he likes you, I cant see any other reason he'd do so many things for you, spend so much time with you while working, or divulge information about his relationship if he didn't.
My concern is this, what if his current relationship isn'... (read in full...)
Can a cheat ever be trusted?
Q. I suspect I’m setting myself up for something of a beating here, but such is life.... To sum up the situation, some time over the next couple of months I will be leaving my wife. There are numerous good reasons for this, her lack of support,...
A. 12 August 2010: "i can understand that ur confidence is shattered but uve also ruined both of these women's lives. so make sure ur committed and be sure wen u take the next step.. try to take a step that hurts everyone in the least way possible."
Many thanks f... (read in full...)
Scared of sex but wanting a child, can I become pregnant by injecting my husband's semen?
Q. I am scared of proper sex and in my house everyone want baby, So my husband fill his sperm in a dropper and put it in my vagina..........is it possible that in this way i can become pregnant?...
A. 11 August 2010: Hell, anythings possible...... but nature did a pretty good job in designing a 'dropper' already, its between his legs!... (read in full...)
How can I stop feeling so sad all the time?
Q. Ahh i am really down at the moment. have you ever felt really low? how did it get better? I hate my job, but i just started it recently, so i feel i will let the team down if i quit now. And that won't look good on my cv either. I have no boyfr...
A. 11 August 2010: People dont just feel sad, & you listed quite nicely the reasons you are feeling sad. As someone thats had depression for about the last 20yrs I can tell you that you will remain feeling that way until you address the things that are making you ... (read in full...)
I have been in love with this woman for over 30 years but she wont see me until I am divorced!
Q. Hi I am married with grown kids they are from 26 to 30 and I am still in love with my first love for over 30 years, and i contact her a few time but she would see me but not until I am divorced what do I do I going crazy! Help Im at my end...
A. 11 August 2010: Well, the obvious thing to do if you want to pursue this is get a divorce.... (read in full...)
Should I tell my girlfriend that I had cybersex with a stranger whilst she was away?
Q. Hi, I have been with my girlfriend now for four years we have a very close bond and get on really well together and want I wish to spend the rest of my life with her. We meet over the internet and since have moved in together and are now lo...
A. 11 August 2010: I know the 'right' thing to do is tell her...... but dont! In reality it'll do you no favours at all. Fine, your concience may be clear, but she will be hurting really badly. If you absolutely have to tell someone, tell a friend or family member ... (read in full...)
How do you think this guy sees me?
Q. Hey guys. How do you think this guy sees me? Our friends think he fancies me and I was starting to think that too. He texts me or msn's me every day without fail. He adds a lot of xxx's at the end of texts and when he signs out of msn. He constant...
A. 11 August 2010: I promise you, if he wasn't interested in you that way, he wouldnt remember those little things!... (read in full...)
I slept with my ex's brother!
Q. A month ago I was at a music festival with some of my ex boyfriend's family. He was not there but I ended up sleeping with his brother. I have been attracted to him even when I was with my ex. He even was attracted to me. Well now, my ex's ...
A. 11 August 2010: Sometimes things happen in the heat of the moment. & a summertime music festival, fun, drinks, you're away from home etc are all the right ingredients. However, I suspect afterwards he clenched in a big way, realising the impact it would have on ... (read in full...)
Does this relationship sound right to you?
Q. I'm in a 6 month relationship with a girl who i'm crazy about... however the way our relationship runs i don't like a single bit. See she has school in the mornings on weekdays and for some reason don't want to work in seeing me after school, and ...
A. 11 August 2010: Nope.... you're right, that doesnt sound at all right to me.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend thinks my breasts are too big, is he right to ask for a reduction?
Q. I'm going out with my boyfriend 10 months and everything going well except for in the bedroom. He prefers women with smaller breasts and I've become very conscious that my 32f breasts must be a turn off to him. I used to love having my breasts ...
A. 11 August 2010: Im sorry, but thats just horrible, & reflects on him very badly indeed. Frankly, if he's prepared to say something which is obviously hurtful like that, then I wouldnt be making any long-term plans that involve him.... (read in full...)
Are there are any men left that won't just use me for sex?
Q. How do I find a boyfriend? Iv only slept with two people and they weren't even my boyfriends, they got what they wanted and left me. Iv been used twice now and just want a boyfriend who'll want me for me, not just my body. Are there any men like ...
A. 11 August 2010: I think the key is, find someone that wants to be with you whether sex is involved or not. Sadly, if memory serves correctly, boys of your age think of little else.... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend, but does he like me?
Q. there is this guy who my friend says like me. he stares at me everytime i go into the shop he works in, and it is sort of constant staring. he always smiles at me and comes over to talk to me and seems happy when he is talking with me and happy to ...
A. 11 August 2010: I think he probably does like you, he's certainly giving off the right signals. & I'm sure he would accept if you asked him out for a drink...... none of those things means you should though!... (read in full...)
I think she gave me herpes, but she's mad at ME! Am I in the wrong?
Q. I met a girl a couple of months ago who was emigrating half the way round the world shortly after. We became intimate and although she always stopped short of having full sex there was penetration digitally and some genital contact. She then ...
A. 11 August 2010: Honestly buddy, you are the very paragon of calmness & understanding.... she is the one who's being out-of-order. If someone I trusted & cared for gave me Herpes I'd go absolutely mental!
I suspect you'll find that her reaction is born out of emba... (read in full...)
I love her, but she doesn't want to date me. Help?
Q. I am a teenager and a boarder which means I live in the school. My situation is very complex but I would simplify it in here. I started to love a girl in my year a year ago during summer holiday and she is my first love. And I asked her out 5 ...
A. 11 August 2010: I’m sorry to say but the situation has already been decided for you. All you're actually doing is struggling to come to terms with it. She said no, & pretty categorically the second time from the sounds of it. You've just got to find a way of ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my neighbor. Can I add him as a friend on Facebook?
Q. Hey, i need to know whether this is the right thing to do or not.. i really like my neighbour, alot! i have for a long time, the problem is, he's married. I understand this and know that nothing can come from but just a silly little crush. I ...
A. 11 August 2010: Well, Im 33yrs old & Im not entirely sure Id be comfortable with having a 16yr old female friend on Facebook.... however I am a little oversensitive to these issues due to my job.
In reality, I cant see much harm in it. However, if you do, just... (read in full...)
Why do I not enjoy foreplay? I mean, I don't care that we're not having sex!
Q. [OP original title] Hey all, I've got a little bit of a problem; it's about me and my girlfriend, we do everything apart from sex and I don't feel like I'm missing anything (we've both agreed on no sex for personal reasons). When we do stuff, I...
A. 11 August 2010: Well, my guess as to why you're not enjoying it, is that she sounds quite terrible at foreplay. I think you should have a chat with her about technique, spontaneity, the things you like / dislike. It could simply be that she's had little prior ... (read in full...)
Is it to soon to dorp the 'L' word?
Q. Is it too soon to tell somebody you have feelings for them after 2 months of being together?? I'm not sure whether I am in 'love' I'm guessing it takes longer than 2 months to totally know a person and love that person but I know I have feelings ...
A. 11 August 2010: Im a total believer in true love, & if you're feeling it, then I have to say you should tell him. Listen to your heart & not your head, its the only way to be happy in life.... (read in full...)
What steps should I take to find out if my boyfriend had sex with his ex?
Q. how can i find out if my boyfriend had sex with his ex? One saturday me and him argued about some girls on his friends list online, he got mad and decided to ignore me all night. Three days later his ex arrives just to tell me that she spend the ...
A. 11 August 2010: I’m sorry, that doesn’t sound good. Like everyone else, I’m inclined to believe her. It would be an awful lot of effort on her part to do what she did purely to be malicious, especially given that you might have reacted in a volatile manner.... (read in full...)
Is Internet hook up with older guy safe?!
Q. [Mod Note: OP's own title] Hi, I'm 17 and from the uk. I've known a guy for a year and a half off the Internet. He is older than me (46) and I'm going to meet him soon, he's driving up to where I live and were meeting in a hotel. My friend knows an...
A. 11 August 2010: If I could possibly post a 40ft tall, flashing, neon NO, then I would. You know that if a friend of yours came to you and asked this you would freak-out....
Please, be smart & safe, if you really want to meet him, & I dont advise it, then do it s... (read in full...)
Can a cheat ever be trusted?
Q. I suspect I’m setting myself up for something of a beating here, but such is life.... To sum up the situation, some time over the next couple of months I will be leaving my wife. There are numerous good reasons for this, her lack of support,...
A. 11 August 2010: Many thanks for your answers.... (read in full...)
Casual sex, is it just a phase?
Q. In the last 3 months i've slept with 16 men and there's no true sign of my sex life slowing any. Lately i've been sleeping with guys, taking names, and sending them on their way. I dont want a relationship and love disgusts me (i used to love ...
A. 10 August 2010: So........ who was the guy that broke your heart? approx 3-4mths ago.... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend told me he wants me to die! What should I do?
Q. Me and my bf just broke up. and he plays a tough guy roll like he's over me. But i know he isnt. We've been talking a lot now. and even tried to get back together, but now, he's saying he dont wanna hear, or see me and that he wants me to ...
A. 10 August 2010: ..... how about, thank your lucky stars you're away from him. What sort of unpleasant, immature git says something like that, even to an ex. Keep away from him & move on.... (read in full...)
How many times do you have to have sex before you bleed?
Q. My boyfriend and I have had sex twice now..and he keeps worrying about how he hasn't popped my cherry and that hes doing something wrong. Is he doing something wrong? How many times do you have to have sex before you bleed? And if he's doing ...
A. 10 August 2010: Chances are you broke your hymen accidently years ago, & either didnt notice at the time, or passed it off as something else.... (read in full...)
How do I get out this mess with minimal damage?
Q. A while ago I wrote on here about an annoying colleague who liked to cause drama at work and was difficult to get on with. I got some fantastic replies which hit the nail on the head about her being insecure and selfish. The good news is she...
A. 10 August 2010: From what I can tell, you've only really got two realistic options open to you. Cut her out, or tell her the truth. Neither option is mess-free though.... (read in full...)
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