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I want something to happen with me and a work colleague, but he's married!

Q.   About two months ago i was chatting online to a work colleague, he is about 25yrs older than me. After a while it became obvious he had had a few to drink and was suggesting some rather sexual things.Because of my personality i played along but he ...

A.   14 April 2006: People can say anything they want but you will never know what happens behind closed doors. Stop and think about what you many be doing. Think about his wife, do you want to be the other girl? I think you should just move on and find someone who ... (read in full...)

My son is dating someone much older than him. Is there anything wrong with this?

Q.   I am a father of two; one 20-year-old son and a 15-year-old son. I have heard my 20-year-old son is dating a 38-year-old woman (at first I thought it was a rumour, it was actually verified later!) and I am worried about the age gap. What pro...

A.   14 April 2006: Age doesn't mean everything. As long as they have the asame maturity level and love each other, it really shouldn't matter. Love can just happen. People used to think the age gap between my boyfriend and I was too much even though we are only 2 ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend smokes while he's away at school! What can I do about this?

Q.   My boyfriend and I of almost 2 years have hit a rough patch. He went away to school about 5 hours away. Nothing seemed wrong at all the first 4 months of him being away. I thought we were closer and on the same page. As It turns out we weren't The ...

A.   6 April 2006: Is there anything at all that could work to help me regain trust in him?... (read in full...)

My boyfriend smokes while he's away at school! What can I do about this?

Q.   My boyfriend and I of almost 2 years have hit a rough patch. He went away to school about 5 hours away. Nothing seemed wrong at all the first 4 months of him being away. I thought we were closer and on the same page. As It turns out we weren't The ...

A.   5 April 2006: how can i regain trust in him though?... (read in full...)

My boyfriend smokes while he's away at school! What can I do about this?

Q.   My boyfriend and I of almost 2 years have hit a rough patch. He went away to school about 5 hours away. Nothing seemed wrong at all the first 4 months of him being away. I thought we were closer and on the same page. As It turns out we weren't The ...

A.   5 April 2006: I care about him too much to watch him slowly commit suicide. He told me he quit before christmas break but just told me about it recently. How do i know he is telling the truth now about not smoking. I need a way to regain trust in him again but ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend smokes while he's away at school! What can I do about this?

Q.   My boyfriend and I of almost 2 years have hit a rough patch. He went away to school about 5 hours away. Nothing seemed wrong at all the first 4 months of him being away. I thought we were closer and on the same page. As It turns out we weren't The ...

A.   5 April 2006: The problem is that he didn't tell me be smoked and decided for himself before telling me that it was bad. I just feel like trust was betrayed and i don't know how to regain it. I don't trust his friend that gave him the smokes around him. What ... (read in full...)

How can I know if someone has quit smoking, when we're in a long distance relationship?

Q.   How you help a person that smokes cigarettes from time to time to be social? How do you really know that they have stopped, especially when you are in a long distance relationship?...

A.   3 April 2006: He kept the whole smoking thing from me. He didn't tell me during the whole 4 months he smoked. I feel like everything was a lie then. Then the only reason he told me was because i asked. I feel like trust was betrayed.... (read in full...)

I am so insecure because he's fibbing about his drug use!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have just been through a rough patch. It seems as though he doesn't know how to bring up stuff with me thus being not so open. One thing after another new things have been bought up. I just found out that he has the ocassion...

A.   2 April 2006: The problem is that he did it to be social with one of his friends. We are in a long distance relationship and i only find out things if i am told. Every month for the past 3 he has told me more and more things he kept from me. I feel betrayed ... (read in full...)

He's still reading playboy and penthouse despite us dating for two years!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 2 years. Since the beginning I have told him that I find porn degrading to women. He told me that he didn't feel comfortable reading them since the month we started dating but i found issues until 4 ...

A.   2 April 2006: Thanks everyone whom has helped me. I have decided to let it go because i must mean something to him if he got rid of them for me. I am just depressed now because i found out that he also kept smoking from time to time less than 10 in 4 months. I ... (read in full...)

Are we ready for marraige as teenagers?

Q.   my boyfriend wants to marry me and i know its not just for sex cuz he wants to marry me later. he is 17 and i =ma 16 can he really have true feelings like that? signed confused-...

A.   2 April 2006: I think you need to look on the long range of things. Make sure he does too before you jump into anything. Making love is great esppecailly when there is feeling involved but if there isn't there is no point.... (read in full...)

Confused about my college 'boyfriend'

Q.   Ok, there is this guy i have been friends with for 2 years on my college course. there had always been a spark there between us that was more than friends, but we had resisted. anyway last weekend we went out on a date and we ended up kissing and ...

A.   2 April 2006: You will never know if or if not you will lose both his friendship and relationship. You have to take a risk if you really like him. My boyfriend is my sister's boyfriend's best friend. I knew from the beginning if anything happened between us I ... (read in full...)

I didn't realise how special she was... Until it was too late

Q.   I'm 21, and six weeks ago had a fight with my girlfriend of two years in which we basically broke up. We had been so incredibly close for two years, living together for the whole of that time, doing everything together, sharing our lives. I love her ...

A.   24 March 2006: Tell her how stupid you were and that you would do anything to get her back. Give her a good reason to be back with you and give her time to answer... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is studying real hard, I hardly ever see him? Anyone got any advice?

Q.   I have been dating this guy for three months and we go to the same school but I only see him once in a while. He is a pre-med student and spends the majority of his time studying because he has really difficult classes. It makes me sad because I ...

A.   24 March 2006: Hey, I know what you feel. My boyfriend is away at college and I only see him every second weekend. It is very hard, truat me I know. Especially with him 5 hours away. What I tend to do is plan out very special dates for when he is home. Have ... (read in full...)

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