I have no idea what's going on, she's done a complete 180 from being over the top, to completely ignoring me!
Q. Well where to begin. Basically, I met a girl who at first appeared very forward shall we say, in her feelings for me. I received many flattering (although false) compliments from her, and she was quite touchy feely, a little possesive, alway...
A. 31 March 2012: Sorry to say this but it looks like she was playing some mind games with you and she isnt that into you. Just ignore her as well and stop contacting her and move on. ... (read in full...)
I don't know why he did this, and why I let myself be treated like trash. Was it all my fault? Or is he partly to blame?
Q. I added a guy i vaguely knew from school on Facebook and he accepted. (this was in 2008) We started chatting online, reminiscing and what not and eventually we arranged to meet up after he got back from travelling. I barely knew him from school (we ...
A. 20 March 2012: Hey sweetie. The guy is just a dushbag and I am sorry to say he took advantage of you too a very large extent but its because you allowed it to happen, you seem a bit inexperienced. In the future dont sleep with a man who is not offering you a ... (read in full...)
Is he testing the sexual boundaries?
Q. I started seeing this guy about 3 weeks ago. I have seen him 3 times. I'm confused though as Ive had bad judgement when it comes to guys before. Im not sure if my gut is telling the truth or I am just relating back to previous heartache. The first ...
A. 7 March 2012: Dont have sex with him until there is a commitment, the moment you sleep with him you wont hear from him. Dont be afraid to tell him you want a serious relationship if thats what you want and insist that you take things slow until you are ready. I ... (read in full...)
He puts more attention to her than he did to me! Guys please answer!
Q. Question for guys.. I was dating this guy and recently found out that he was also keeping in touch with another girl. As I see it, it seems that he puts more attention to this other girl. We were together for about 6 months, then he met her and ...
A. 1 March 2012: Hey such a sticky situation you find yourself in. He is obviously keeping his options open so why dont you do the same. What he is doing is upsetting to you so why are you putting your eggs in one basket when he isnt doing the same, he isnt acting ... (read in full...)
He texts me and then no contact for days. Is this a guy game?
Q. Alright... so I met this guy at work. I work days, he works the night shift. We only see each other if I work late. So, we're friends on Facebook, we text, we message, we even talk when we see each other at work on occasion. He told me he really l...
A. 17 February 2012: Sweetie you need to play it cool. Stop fretting about the fact that he is not texting back, in my opinion you seem too eager to talk/text and sometimes guys can pick up on those vibes. Give him room to figure out what he wants. If he contacts you ... (read in full...)
My son and I don't have a good relationship because of my ex (his father)....I feel like I am losing him
Q. I raised my son on my own in UK, without any help from my ex-husband who left me for a younger woman. He did not pay any child support. He did not see our son. He saw him every now and again in total of 10 times up to the age of 7. We split up ...
A. 13 December 2011: I would suggest that you allow your son to find out for himself what type of a man his father is. Dont stop him from meeting with his relatives i.e. step siblings. Chances are your ex is bound to mess up as usual, your son will find out by himself ... (read in full...)
Did he ever love me to begin with?
Q. It's been almost 8 months since I moved out from living with my ex. A couple months ago I started feeling better and really started enjoying being single. I started finding what I enjoyed doing and living for myself. But lately I can't stop ...
A. 7 December 2011: You really need to stop punishing yourself with the shoulda woulda coulda have been, becoz you are not doing yourself any favours love. Yes you loved him, he treated you like a queen but your relationship was based on lies and empty promises. He ... (read in full...)
Is he not over his ex? Or could he decide this was a mistake?
Q. around 3 weeks ago i met a guy at a club, swapped names and numbers etc and we have literally been texting non-stop since, and not even little texts, proper long, full on essays (mostly around 8 page texts). I'm not exagerrating, apart from when we ...
A. 17 November 2011: It seems like this guy is a true gentlemen, he has told you the truth about his situation with the ex and he doesnt want to leave you hanging. It would better for you back off because if he is going back to be with his ex then it means that he stil ... (read in full...)
Confused on whether a guy likes me or not
Q. There's a guy i got to know during a certain program at my school,which lasted for 3weeks.We're both in our final year of the same college.During this period,i got to know the guy better and even noticed that he's kinda cute.Well,we've been talking ...
A. 11 July 2011: Hope I am not too late. But dont sleep with him, dont give into him. In spite of what he is saying you are not obliged to sleep with him. Does he even spend time with you, is he treating you the way someone who wants or is in a serious ... (read in full...)
He keeps wanting to take a break from the relationship. I want to either be with him or get over him! Can someone shed some light on his behaviour?
Q. ive been dating my boyfriend for a little over 2 months and he told me on the 5th he wanted a brake. so after alot of talking we took a brake for about 5 hours then he asked me back. i said yes and asked y he wanted the brake and he said to see if ...
A. 11 July 2011: Stop allowing other people to mess around with your feelings. You are probarbly assuming that he will magically change his mind and that he will start treating you differently. Next time he says all that junk about taking a break just firmly, tell ... (read in full...)
I left my alcoholic boyfriend 4 months ago, but it really hurts all the time to be without him. Please tell me I'll eventually be able to move on...
Q. It's been four months now since I walked away from my alcoholic boyfriend of two years. I have not contacted him once, nor have I been anywhere near where he might be. This space is well needed for me to get my head straight and not get back on the ...
A. 11 July 2011: Good for you, Leaving him was the best decision, even though you love him, by walking away you illustrated that you love yourself more. which is a good thing of course, because relationships with an alcoholic only can result to an emotional ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be my age and not have any interest in getting married?
Q. I am a single and very intelligent 29 year old woman and I am happy with my marital status. I like being independent and free I also like my quiet time. I am the adventurous type of woman though, I like to travel, I would like to go parachuting, ...
A. 14 January 2011: Thank you all for your reassurance that i am normal afterall. I guess i justed needed to hear other peoples opinions because i am drowned by the same mentality that exists around me and people who think my wanting to remain single is a ludacris ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to make anybody really interested in me...
Q. I am 18 years old, and I have never had a boyfriend. I'm very open about everything, and I always say whatever I think. I value people for being different, though sometimes I feel I have an impatient and rushed personality. Maybe that's why I can't ...
A. 3 August 2010: The fact that you are virgin and plan to stay one until you are married is probably why most guys are not sticking around. Sorry but its the truth. If you are a devoted christian then you are better off hanging out with guys in the devoted christian ... (read in full...)
Would I be able to get into an American college with my qualifications?
Q. hello everybody i turned 17 a few weeks ago and when i left school i made the mistake of not following on my education but i am interested in applying for some courses at my local college. I am after any course but i would preffer a one ye...
A. 1 July 2010: i think you are better off getting in touch with the American colleges that offer the courses that you are interested in and ask them all the questions that you have. Or you could visit the American Embassy in your country to ask for more ... (read in full...)
Prostitute girlfriend!
Q. Hi, I first met my west african 'girlfriend' in a lap dancing club last year (2009). Chatted a lot before anything and have to say I respected her honesty. That was that and 2010 I returned to the same club and guess what! she was there... I had a...
A. 5 June 2010: Problem could be she really doesn't expect a guy to love her because she is a prostitute and she has probably 'conditioned' her mind to think his way - That men just want sex from her but in your case its not true. Have you ever really considered ... (read in full...)
Confused on whether a guy likes me or not
Q. There's a guy i got to know during a certain program at my school,which lasted for 3weeks.We're both in our final year of the same college.During this period,i got to know the guy better and even noticed that he's kinda cute.Well,we've been talking ...
A. 27 May 2010: whatever my dear just keep your distance from this guy, stop calling him or looking for him. Give him time to decide what he wants. If he really wants to be with you and he likes you, he will eventually get in touch and if he does call you or come ... (read in full...)
He keeps hurting my feelings
Q. Hi. At close to the beginning of this relationship, I set some boundaries with this guy, and one of them was not to call me or even joke about me being a bitch, because I'm not. This guy was my first. We got married and he still keeps joking o...
A. 15 November 2009: I totally agree with duce00, this guy is just down right insecure and he tries to belittle you because i wouldn't expect my husband someone who has respect for me to call me a ho or a bitch even in a joking sense especially if he knows that i don't ... (read in full...)
I'll always be thinking that it could have been me!
Q. I've just found out that the love of my life will be moving back to my hometown in a few months.... with his fiancée! I'll have to tell you guys a little bit of our history so you'll understand the situation I'm in - right now I'm terrible unhappy...
A. 11 October 2009: I too was in your situation almost like yours about 2 and half years ago. My boyfriend of over 1 year broke up with me over some over a flimsy excuse and in less than 6 months he had married another woman. So you can imagine the humilation I had ... (read in full...)
How can I find out everything I need to know about this man?
Q. Hallo everyone I hope you can help me out on this one because I'm lost and yet in love. It goes like, I met this man 39 last year, he works in Canada so he visits every 3 or 4 months. So more like a distant relationship. I'm a single mum and h...
A. 7 October 2009: You didn't mention where his wife is based, in your country or in Canada. It is possible that he really can be staying with his sister whilst he is there. My ex boyfriend (29) accommodated his older brother(mid 30s) in his house for 6 months (when ... (read in full...)
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