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I have had sex once but I don't wish to repeat the experience since I'm underage. What can I do to keep my bf interested?

Q.   Hi, I Am 14 Years Old, And I Have Had Sex With My (Also 14 Years Old) Boyfriend. However, It Was The Once, And I Want To Keep It To The Once But He Wants It More Now. I Dont Want To Lose Him Becuase I Love Him But I Want To Wait Til I Am Legal (...

A.   5 January 2008: dont let him make you feel like u r pressured. keep interesting by being attractive and doing some things, without going all the way. ... (read in full...)

What could be making my daughter so miserable? How do I through the parent/child barrier?

Q.   Dear cupid, My daughter is 13 years old and for the past couple of months she seems to be really miserable, i've tried talking to her, i've even asked what is wrong but she always says nothing, my husband tried to find out why she is so miserbale ...

A.   5 January 2008: Dont overthink this. As a teenager i have passed many of these things myself, and the answer is to let her sort it out, and spend some time together to see if she opens up. It could be something as simple as her crushing on a boy, or anything of the ... (read in full...)

Should I tell him how crummy I feel?

Q.   rite so i've been involved with a guy for just over 3 months now. when i met him he was broken up from his gf, but since then he has got back together with her, and they have collectivly been goin out for nearly 2 years. When he had got back wit...

A.   5 January 2008: if you feel this bad dont let it continue. If he truly likes you more than her, he can have this honest conversation and still pick you. If he chooses her or breaks up with you he obviously wasnt worth it. It may be hard to let go in the beginning ... (read in full...)

I really want to . . . but I don't know if he wants to . . . help me get over this lol!

Q.   ive been with my boyfriend for 2 months now.. and i am a really horny girl lol when ime on my own i masterbate alot and well lets just say i really like it BUT when im with my boyfriend i am really body consious i get paranoid that i wont do ...

A.   5 January 2008: well...there is really only one thing you can do...Get some self-confidence! as soon as things get started they will go naturally, just be confident and let a kiss turn into a little more dont hold back. ... (read in full...)

My husband left me telling me he is not in love anymore, what can I do?

Q.   My husband left me three weeks ago and has told me he is not in love with me anymore, what can i do??...

A.   5 January 2008: well girl. what can you do?? not much, except move on with life. He was a jerk, as to leave that way and break your heart. So you need to move on with life, and think, i dont need him to be happy i was too good for him anyways.... (read in full...)

Is there any way I can get rid of the hurt?

Q.   my bf and i only broke up a month ago and he already moved on and askin for some girl's fone number!! i couldnt believe this after everything we went through. I still cant seem to move on from him and still have strong feelings for him even though ...

A.   5 January 2008: its ok to wanna talk to him, but the only way the hurt is gonna go away is by removing yourself from his life completely for awhile. If hes already chasing other girls hes not worth a cry. Hang out with your friends find a new guy, and move on.... (read in full...)

Am I making a major issue out of nothing?

Q.   My boyfriend and i have been together since August 24th 2007. It hasnt been plain sailing, we have had our disagreemennts but all relationships do. Dont they ? Anyway back to the point... i was browsing through my boyfriends phone when i saw...

A.   5 January 2008: Its ok to be paranoid, but make sure you dont get carried away. You need to learn to trust him, even if it is hard. Once in a while ask him about her, or see if any of your friends know her. But dont bug him too much or he will get mad and feel you ... (read in full...)

At what stage in our relationship should we be more comfortable around each other?

Q.   hi! well my bf and i went our on 3rd date coupld of days ago and it was still kind of awkward. we didnt talk much and it was kind of embarasing. i dont know if it should still be like this. please help thanks ellie xxx...

A.   5 January 2008: me and my bf still, for the past 3 years, were akward even on our 5th date! some people are easy to connect to and some not so much. For me i knew i really liked him, i just didnt know how to approach him, i figured out its easier to be yourself and ... (read in full...)

What is the difference in "love" and being "in love"?

Q.   Hello. I've been seeing a wonderful girl almost 3 months and a third now, it's the longest i've ever had a relationship with anyone (how much of a stud am I?). Anyway i had liked her for months and months before i finally asked her on hearing that ...

A.   5 January 2008: I see where you are coming from. My first long term boyfriend was also at 15. He would tell me he loved me, but i couldnt answer. Maybe the problem is that she's not ready to openly admit the fact of love. It is a very big step. As to the difference ... (read in full...)

Am I the only one that gets jealous?

Q.   Hi girls, I need some help with tackling my jealousy. I get so jealous when my boyfriend speaks to another woman to the point where I feel sick to my stomach. I trust him but at the same time I feel that I'm not good enough and that he will che...

A.   5 January 2008: haha, you arent mentally challenged its normal.My boyfriend went to a party without me, after he didnt talk to me, for a few days. I was soo scared he met someone else, i didnt confront him about the issue. It became this big problem betweem us and ... (read in full...)

Am I being made fun of?

Q.   There's this shy guy who I like an I know that at least at one time he's liked me.......Over the past few months there have been signals to show that he likes me e.g. He would always be where I hang out lunch times. This would happen some days and ...

A.   5 January 2008: Dont be hasty and come to a conclusion. They probably are not making fun of you. And chances are if they are talking about you, its because this guy likes you and hes a bit shy about it. Dont be afraid to take a step in and not directly ask him out ... (read in full...)

I don't want sex but I want to do other things.

Q.   Heya, I've been with my boyfriend about 3 months now, I'm 14 and in year 10 and he's 16 and left school. I really like him and he wants to have sex with me. I don't want to yet and I've told him, he's fine with it and said that he would ...

A.   5 January 2008: hahahha, well...havent we all been there. My love right now, had the same problem at the beginning. He is older than me, and i wasnt ready to go all the way. So one day when we were together i told him how i felt and then i told him that it didnt ... (read in full...)

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