He says he loves me but he misses his old family life, what should I do?
Q. I have been with my boyfreind for 10 months. Every month or so he seems to get really distant and I have encouraged him to talk to me each time he feels down, as I know in the past 2 years he has had a hard time with his wife leaving him. Each ...
A. 30 April 2011: Hi. I'm glad to hear from you again. Not so glad to hear you're still feeling uneasy about your relationship. Perhaps you would benefit from collecting a larger social cirle. If he's going out with "single" friends then you should too. Nothing grab... (read in full...)
Questions about cheating and ex-wives and other things.
Q. Maybe you can help me interpret these remarks made by my Ex-wife. It has bothered me and I know I should just leave it alone but still, I would like to know. When your Ex tells you that their new Man is the best ever (cheating partner turned new BF) ...
A. 9 February 2011: Hey, just wondering how things are going for you? I hope better than when you last posted here. So if you're still around I would love to hear from you. Maybe that you and your children and thier mother have found some balance in life and are doing ... (read in full...)
Questions about cheating and ex-wives and other things.
Q. Maybe you can help me interpret these remarks made by my Ex-wife. It has bothered me and I know I should just leave it alone but still, I would like to know. When your Ex tells you that their new Man is the best ever (cheating partner turned new BF) ...
A. 12 August 2010: You probably weren't looking for a response from me when you invited more discussion about this. But I was obviously in a hostile mood during my last response and after reading it + your followup, I would like to revise my comment. Instead of ... (read in full...)
Questions about cheating and ex-wives and other things.
Q. Maybe you can help me interpret these remarks made by my Ex-wife. It has bothered me and I know I should just leave it alone but still, I would like to know. When your Ex tells you that their new Man is the best ever (cheating partner turned new BF) ...
A. 12 August 2010: You probably weren't looking for a response from me when you invited more discussion about this. But I was obviously in a hostile mood during my last response and after reading it + your followup, I would like to revise my cooment. Instead of ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he misses his old family life, what should I do?
Q. I have been with my boyfreind for 10 months. Every month or so he seems to get really distant and I have encouraged him to talk to me each time he feels down, as I know in the past 2 years he has had a hard time with his wife leaving him. Each ...
A. 21 July 2010: Man, that's a bummer but at least he's acknowledged how you feel & has made an effort to comfort you (although you're still lacking him physlically being there with you). It's a good sign he say's he's "turned the corner". But if I were in your ... (read in full...)
My older lover is very sick, should I marry him?
Q. I'm a successful, almost 22-year-old woman. The love of my life is 61. Please, no gasping. I met him when I was a child, in passing, when he was only 46, and I a mere seven or so. He quietly watched me grow and change through my childhood. He was ...
A. 18 July 2010: I've been here myself. I was just barely 20 & he was 42. Well, that 40 year old man soon became nearly 50 & I had been closer to 30 then I ever imagined myself being. And by that point all I had left was the hope that it would all be worth it in the ... (read in full...)
What's going on between my husband and his aunt?
Q. My husband spends about an hour a day on the phone with his 'aunt'. She is the same age as him (37) and lives in a beach house with several others. Think older flop house basically. They recently reconnected, and I found out they were talking so ...
A. 18 July 2010: His aunt by blood or just by marraige? I've been through a similar situation where my man at the time was holding hours long conversations with a female daily & never once did any of their talks happen while I was in earshot. It's a crappy position ... (read in full...)
What should I say to his Mom?
Q. Okay so i dont really know how to ask this question so ill just explain! :)My boyfriend is working offshore right now and he likes to give me money from his check every week maybe like 300 just so i can have money, but i dont have his bank ...
A. 13 July 2010: His mom is just looking out for him obviously. Maybe you give off the impression that you'll go blow the money on other guys while her son is hard at work doing a dangerous job & doesn't want you to hurt him while spending his hard earned cash. If ... (read in full...)
I've loved him for 3 years but now he is married, what should I do?
Q. hi please help me im in love someone last 3 years he also love me lots but last 2 month he get married another girl but cant stop relation with me. also i am also not stopped this relation with me and him but now i feel very bad because i dont w...
A. 13 July 2010: If he loved you so much he woulldn't have married someone else. It's that simple. You don't want to "win" this dude anyhow. He is obviously a cheater & a lying dog. I would tell him to F-off and and I might even give his poor new bride a heads up on ... (read in full...)
Questions about cheating and ex-wives and other things.
Q. Maybe you can help me interpret these remarks made by my Ex-wife. It has bothered me and I know I should just leave it alone but still, I would like to know. When your Ex tells you that their new Man is the best ever (cheating partner turned new BF) ...
A. 13 July 2010: She sounds like a manipulative, self-centered, heartless bitch. Let her go, don't listen to her BS, find a nice woman who's honest & won't play such immature, selfish games with peoples hearts. I hope you live in a state where cheatings illegal- ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he misses his old family life, what should I do?
Q. I have been with my boyfreind for 10 months. Every month or so he seems to get really distant and I have encouraged him to talk to me each time he feels down, as I know in the past 2 years he has had a hard time with his wife leaving him. Each ...
A. 13 July 2010: Hey, I was just checking in to see how things have been going for you? Was it all resolved? I hope things have worked out & you're feeling better. =)... (read in full...)
He says he loves me but he misses his old family life, what should I do?
Q. I have been with my boyfreind for 10 months. Every month or so he seems to get really distant and I have encouraged him to talk to me each time he feels down, as I know in the past 2 years he has had a hard time with his wife leaving him. Each ...
A. 7 May 2010: I'm sorry for the situation you two are in. But if you both truly love eachother then this is just a phase.
Idealy he'll find some of his strength through you to heal begin building a new (hopefully much better) life with you & his daughter part... (read in full...)
I am engaged to a man I don't respect but in love with another
Q. I am engaged to a man who is very good to me, I'll call him Dan. When I say jump, he says how high and he will do it right away. Part of the reason I feel like I am growing away from him is because of a few things: 1) I will always make more money ...
A. 7 May 2010: You say Dan is great to you & is the best man you've ever been with- then I think he deserves enough respect from you to not betray & decieve him by forming a new relationship with another man behind his back. Break up with him full & clear first. ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I want a break without hurting him?
Q. i work nights and am constantly on standby and my bf works days, and we are constantly fighting when i am off... so how do i tell him i want a break until i have a set schedule? i dont like hurting him but i am unhappy at the moment....
A. 24 April 2010: Is it a really just "a break" you want or to break up? Don't sugar coat it and say it's only temporary because chances are it isn't going to be. Most guys won't wait around for a chick more than a few hours if they even wait around for one at all. ... (read in full...)
How do I tell him I want a break without hurting him?
Q. i work nights and am constantly on standby and my bf works days, and we are constantly fighting when i am off... so how do i tell him i want a break until i have a set schedule? i dont like hurting him but i am unhappy at the moment....
A. 24 April 2010: Is it a really just "a break" you want or to break up? Don't sugar coat it and say it's only temporary because chances are it isn't going to be. Most guys won't wait around for a chick more than a few hours if they even wait around for one at all. ... (read in full...)
How can I handle my undeserved jealousy towards my current husband?
Q. I am now in my 2nd marriage. And I go through my husband’s communications all the time and he doesn’t know… But let me tell you the whole story… My 1st marriage was a terrible one. Mentally and physically abusive. Lasted 5years before I eventua...
A. 12 April 2010: Oh yeah I know how you feel. But you have to stop! I was with my ex for 5 years and he was a DOG! Any woman is going to become obsessed with "knowing" if they're with a cheating jerk whom they won't leave. But the big thing here is that when you DO ... (read in full...)
I found another man's underwear under the bed!
Q. I just found men's underwear under my side of the bed. I'd like advice on what to do. This weekend, I was searching for a pair of old sneakers and they were shoved way under our bed on my side. I have no clue how long they've been there, I usually...
A. 3 March 2010: Good luck man. Underwear under the bed that aren't yours...to me, only mean one thing. I would just casually toss them on the table one morning & say "your boyfriend forgot these under the bed" & then go off to work. Let her stew over it. She'll ... (read in full...)
Am I being too sensitive?
Q. I wonder if i am being too sensitive.. my boyfriend says things to me that i find offensive and disrespectful. He always says things like "i bet you love all the guys you see on the streets and just want to get in their pants and have sex with them" ...
A. 3 March 2010: My jerk ex used to do the same thing to me. Always suggesting that I'm up to something & that I've got cheating on my mind. Well come to find out, the jackass was just trying to distract me from what he was up to- which was everything he kept ... (read in full...)
My bestfriends boyfriend likes me and I like him, what should we do?
Q. okay so my bestfriends boyfriend likes me and i like him. we always look at each other with "the look" when were hanging out and sometimes we touch each other when were with his girlfriend too but we can both tell we like each other. yesterday was ...
A. 3 March 2010: If you value your friendship with your BESTfriend then I would avoid HER boyfriend as much as possible. She'll never trust you again and beside girl, he obviously doesnt think much of cheating on his girl if he's telling you he likes you while he's ... (read in full...)
I like my best friend's twin brother. Should I date him or just admire from afar?
Q. um i really really like this guy lets call him orange. orange is really sweet and nice. execpt hes my best friends brother see there twins and he noes i like him and he sort of likes me back and idk wat to do.my question is should i go and ask him ...
A. 2 March 2010: Honey, is your best friend a boy too? Because if he is...he's probably in love with you. And you'll break his heart if you go after his twin. If he's a she then I'd say go for it. I know I would have love if my best friend was part of the family. ... (read in full...)
My ex boyfriend who cheated on me is back after almost a year apart. Has he changed?
Q. Its been almost a year since I broke up with my ex-boyfriend and all the sudden he's started calling and texting me again. We were together for 4 years, which were a mixture of good times and bad. The reason we broke up was because he cheated on me ...
A. 2 March 2010: No I would say. I can imagine you might be thinking "he's had his fill of fooling around by now & we can start over again because he'll be content with just me." But this dude cheated on you before- I dont know if you dumped him over it but he ... (read in full...)
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