In love with my best friend, she's getting engaged. Do I tell her or not?
Q. hi there everyone..first of all, i'd like to thank all the people who actually take time in reading these posts. Your answers are usually very helpful and much appreciated. Ok so here goes. I'm in a real messed up situation. I'm in love with my best ...
A. 26 November 2009: I do have a suggestion actually, sorry but don't tell her. It won't end well for you (or her). ... (read in full...)
My cousin and I have lots in common - should I take things further?
Q. I really like my cousin an she is 17 an i am 15 and we started hanging out more lately an she comes over once or twice a week. An we like the same stuff an we will just sit an watch scary movies for like 6 hours at a time, an just talk an we have a ...
A. 5 October 2009: To be honest, although the gap in the family is wider and you haven't grown up together, it's not ideal. My reservations come mainly from the families view of this, so it depends on your family...and I won't be able to help you guess their views on ... (read in full...)
Cant he find himself with me IN his life?
Q. Long story here, but I'll try to make it as short as possible. Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. We met online, and were great friends, he always had a crush on me, we were friends for about 2 years before we really started ...
A. 4 October 2009: This is extremely difficult...and this man is far from simple it seems. Again I can only stress that I really don't envy you this one!
I think that there may be an element of him using you as a comfort blanket, but I wonder if that's all there is t... (read in full...)
All this chemistry but never been out on a date!
Q. Ok, I need some perspective on this, as I am in far too deep emotionally, and I have fallen for him hook line and sinker. I really like him, I think he is an incredible man, but am I just bashing my head against a wall with this?: We ema...
A. 4 October 2009: If you rejected him before, that's probably why he isn't asking again. Not that I'm saying he blames you, but he probably assumes you'll reject him again so you can't really blame him for it!
So lay all your cards on the table, and see what happ... (read in full...)
How ridiculous is this??
Q. Me and this guy I like have been mates for years and we've been flirting for a couple of months and everyone said he liked me, so I finally got up the courage to ask him out and he said he couldn't be with me because I was white and it'd be too ...
A. 4 October 2009: Wow...how ridiculous indeed!!! Still, if that's the kind of guy you missed out on I wouldn't be feeling too bad about it, don't you think?... (read in full...)
How does one get over a break-up?
Q. Ok guys...I'm right now going through a breakup. It's my first real relationship, and it's been a very genuine and passionate one, but now it's over. Please, no sympathy for me. What I would like to do, though, is get your excellent advice...
A. 4 October 2009: P.s., thenotsogreat, FF7 is a killer game...that and Baldur's Gate are awesome ways to loose yourself and get some distance from the real world!!!... (read in full...)
How does one get over a break-up?
Q. Ok guys...I'm right now going through a breakup. It's my first real relationship, and it's been a very genuine and passionate one, but now it's over. Please, no sympathy for me. What I would like to do, though, is get your excellent advice...
A. 4 October 2009: Thanks lads. Never easy is it? But I suppose that's life. I'm just going to exercise more, that normally puts me in a good mood, and spend more time with my mates...isn't it amazing what a packet of cards, a pub, and a lively conversation can do for ... (read in full...)
How do I get rid of my 'easy' label?
Q. When I was 13, I became sexually active with my brother's 18 yr old friend. He didn't force me but he did presure me and say things like if I loved him I would do it. Since then I have been sexually active with several guys. I always go out on ...
A. 4 October 2009: Well, I think that there are several answers to your problem, you may not like them so please be aware that I say the following with no judgement and the greatest of respect;
Firstly, if you were drunk it may be important for you to make a real effo... (read in full...)
Is my brother normal?
Q. Okay, you may feel like i'm interfering in this situation but realy i am just curious as to whether this is normal. My brother is now 21, i am 15... and i no for a fact that he has never had sex, not only has he not had sex but never had a first ...
A. 4 October 2009: If you don't mind me asking, how do you know that he's never had a girlfriend, or at least a kiss?
It may well be that he is gay, but if he is and you find out I don't think that you should let people know...I know your his sister and you care, but ... (read in full...)
Why would he want to cum on my face?
Q. ok so i hope no one will be offended by this question, i am 16 and my boyfriend is 18. at the beginning of our relationship, he said he did not like receiving oral sex, he said "its just not a turn on for me" but then last night, he asked me to do ...
A. 4 October 2009: It is a turn on, yeah. Exactly why it is I couldn't say, but it is.
And maybe you just give better head than some others? I wouldn't say it's a problem, if you're comfortable and you like him enough keep experimenting.
Enjoy!... (read in full...)
Too big of a crush to just move on
Q. Ok, so here goes. I am 17, 18 in January. I live in th UK, so he is my college teacher, lets call him Jamie. I'll tell you the parts that i can't understand, and then i will ask the question. I was 16 when i started college, of course, and i kn...
A. 4 October 2009: Why don't you wait until you leave 6th form? Or, if you can't wait, don't ignore your friends contrary advice but then don't let them govern you either.
But be careful talking about love...it may be that he loves you, but don't assume it yet. If i... (read in full...)
After sex I always feel guilty and disgusted
Q. Hello i am an 18 year old male. Whenever I have sex, Afterwards I always feel guilty and disgusted. Howver, having said this. I am quite a deep thinker and am wondering what this could all be. When I say I am a deep thinker i see things like gurus ...
A. 4 October 2009: Well this depends on what exactly you feel about sex that makes you feel disgusted. Have you been able to figure it out? If you sleep around with girls that do the same the answer may lie more there than with any spirits...
So what is the spec... (read in full...)
Cant he find himself with me IN his life?
Q. Long story here, but I'll try to make it as short as possible. Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. We met online, and were great friends, he always had a crush on me, we were friends for about 2 years before we really started ...
A. 4 October 2009: Hmmm...tricky! I don't envy you this problem, that's for sure!!!
But, there are signs that he still wants you. Inviting you up for a visit is extremely positive. And I appreciate how difficult it must be to go 'cold turkey' but I'm sure he just... (read in full...)
My cousin and I have lots in common - should I take things further?
Q. I really like my cousin an she is 17 an i am 15 and we started hanging out more lately an she comes over once or twice a week. An we like the same stuff an we will just sit an watch scary movies for like 6 hours at a time, an just talk an we have a ...
A. 4 October 2009: Yeah, I gotta say that it's probably not a great idea to take things further. Cousins dating cousins is controvertial, but to be honest although it's legal it's probably not ok...but that's no disrespect to you, or any judgement on you for feeling ... (read in full...)
Is it considered rude if you don't swallow?
Q. I just recentley started having sex with my boyfriend (we've only been together 2 weeks) so, i know people say swallowing is a way of showing them you love them. but like i just .. can't.. it makes me gag, so like, at a guys point of view, what ...
A. 4 October 2009: No, I've always considered my gf swallowing as kinky, but far from necessary. If you don't want to, don't do it, he won't get offended. ... (read in full...)
In love with my best friend, she's getting engaged. Do I tell her or not?
Q. hi there everyone..first of all, i'd like to thank all the people who actually take time in reading these posts. Your answers are usually very helpful and much appreciated. Ok so here goes. I'm in a real messed up situation. I'm in love with my best ...
A. 4 October 2009: You also have to remember how this would impact on her bf, if he heard you loved her and always hung around massaging her etc. It would drive him crazy and he's done nothing to deserve that. I'm sure with their wedding coming up they're both nervous ... (read in full...)
In love with my best friend, she's getting engaged. Do I tell her or not?
Q. hi there everyone..first of all, i'd like to thank all the people who actually take time in reading these posts. Your answers are usually very helpful and much appreciated. Ok so here goes. I'm in a real messed up situation. I'm in love with my best ...
A. 3 October 2009: Yeah, dont tell her. it wont be ideal for you, to say the least, but then its not an ideal situation. imagine if you did tell her, she wouldnt leave her bf, but she would change her feelings toward you. its just best that you dont.... (read in full...)
I don't think my virginity meant anything to him
Q. i recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend (about a month ago). he was not a virgin, very experienced from what ive heard and what hes told me. about an hour ago we were just talking and watching tv, and he turned on a channel with guys cage ...
A. 3 October 2009: Right. i think you already know the answer to your problem, and we're all thinking it. get rid of him.
thats the obvious thing, the next thing is more important; dont feel bad looking back on what happened. you trusted him, as he made himself appe... (read in full...)
Was this rape? He's acting like nothing happened....
Q. Last night me and my bf were having sex he was behind me when he stuck his finger in my anus. He has done it b4 which i dont mind as it doesnt hurt me. B4 i continue weve always had this joke bout doing it up the bum. I always said i would never do ...
A. 3 October 2009: I think that that was actually rape...rape under classical definition meaning forcing a non voluntary sexual act. many men have 'things' for certain sexual practices, but him putting it in after you saying no is unacceptable, keeping it in for ... (read in full...)
How do I get a man to want me and not my body?
Q. hey i have a problem i am really lonely although i get alot of attention from guys they all just want sex from me and i dont want to have sex until im either married or in a serious relationship but all my friends tell me to keep a guy i have to ...
A. 3 October 2009: This isnt an easy problem, but i think you have to stay the course. i finished with my long term girlfriend because of her promiscous past so i think a girl who thinks like you is a clear winner, and i can guarantee that there are many many other ... (read in full...)
I feel disgusted doing the sex acts he wants but I don't want him to leave me. Help!
Q. Well ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years now, weve had our fair share of ups and downs.. i love him to bits but theres one thing i really get upset about. Im alone alot, hes at work all the time and i see him almost 2-3 times a week. When i do ...
A. 3 October 2009: Im sorry, but i do have to agree with the previous poster. im dont want to hurt your feelings sweetheart, but i do think that an honest answer to an honest question is only fair. a lot of women dont feel that performing any particular act is a ... (read in full...)
I cannot be comfortable with my lover's past, yet we may have a future. What can I do?
Q. my gf and i have been together for a year now, and all the while i have been trying to deal with the demons of her past, namely the 11 other men she has slept with. she was at an all female boarding school till the age of 18, and between then and ...
A. 3 October 2009: Hi guys
i thought id wait for a while before i updated, and a year will have been easily enough time.
so, it looks like were gonna finish it seeing as im not comfortable so im just not enjoying it anymore.
there are some of you who seem to beli... (read in full...)
I cannot be comfortable with my lover's past, yet we may have a future. What can I do?
Q. my gf and i have been together for a year now, and all the while i have been trying to deal with the demons of her past, namely the 11 other men she has slept with. she was at an all female boarding school till the age of 18, and between then and ...
A. 3 October 2009: Hi guys
i thought id wait for a while before i updated, and a year will have been easily enough time.
so, it looks like were gonna finish it seeing as im not comfortable so im just not enjoying it anymore.
there are some of you who seem to beli... (read in full...)
How do I get my boyfriend to give me oral without actually asking him outright?
Q. iv been with my boyfriend for 4 months now, and we have a great sex life. the only problem is the fact that no matter how many hints i make, he will not give me oral sex. Iv tried everything i can think of except asking. I dont want to ask him ...
A. 12 September 2008: well what you might do instead of asking him directly is wait till hes rubbing you with his fingers, then act like you're loving it more than usual, get him excited then tell him to use his tongue on it. thats how my gf got me there!!! if that fails ... (read in full...)
Why do women always want their men for themselves only, if it's known that men like "variety"?
Q. Hello, I've noticed a lot of porn related questions from females lately. The age-old question is "Why does he like to look at other women when he has me?". And the answer is difficult... Well, now I have a less common question. I'm a woman m...
A. 11 September 2008: if a woman has a problem with her bf's porn she should speak to him about it, but in my view women are troubled by it more than they should be. women and men are as different as north and south, so a woman will try to look at her man's actions from ... (read in full...)
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