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Could this mean that I am gay?

Q.   I have a question. I have had a past that is bugging the heck out of me. What should I do to like keep my mind off of things and just face the fact what i did was wrong? I am 17 soon and around the age 13-15 when i was in the middle of just getting ...

A.   10 March 2009: hi there.well you were very young at that time and hormonal and probably just experementing at the time.Do you fantasise now about the opposit sex?? if you do then most likely your gay....but if you dont and would never dream of doing that again ... (read in full...)

Girlfriend shows no emotion

Q.   I don't know why I feel the way I do, and I'm so confused. Me and my girlfriend have been together for a few months now. But I've always had a few extreme problems. Since our schedules are so busy, we're getting less and less time to talk. Th...

A.   10 March 2009: hi there.Well id like to say firstly,you met her this way,so its not like she has just suddenly changed.so i dont see anything suspicious here.Unfortunetly we are all different in terms of affection,some more affectionate than others,and it is very ... (read in full...)

Can I trust him or have I made fool of myself?

Q.   I met this guy about a month ago.. his names James. Now I met him in a local pub whilst I was singing on the karaoke he was the karaoke man. I had a few to drink and when I was singing we started holding hands etc. Little did I know his ...

A.   2 March 2009: hi well 1st of all i dont think you are a fool,but i do think he has shown his colours of being quite the ladies man very quickly,and i doubt he will change over night,he may in time,but can you handle being hurt like his ex had been,in the ... (read in full...)

Advice needed regarding my long distance break-up!

Q.   Hi, First of all thanks to all your guys for taking time to read and answer. My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me a month ago. He lives in another country now because of a career shift. But for 3.5 years we were in the same city. We were ...

A.   2 March 2009: o my god this remindes me of asimular situation i went through.first of all i just want to say dont even think about travelling out there again,he has treated you terrably,he isnt even trying to make any sort of effort with you. yes you love him ... (read in full...)

Why am I so jealous of my friends?

Q.   I always have this weird problem, every time a friend hangs out with another friend I get jealous and it's not pretty, anyone know how to fix this? I even feel this way when other friends are out without me while I'm out with other friends....

A.   2 March 2009: ok this is easily fixed ,you just simply need to grow up. if you hear of friends going out ask can you go along too,or if you are with other friends just ask them would they like to go out or do something nice.cella... (read in full...)

I really want to have sex but I'm afraid that I'll get pregnant.

Q.   Hey everyone... My an my boyfriend are to that level where were ready to have sex. well i really want to do this but i'm afraid i'll get pregnant an i don't have enough money for birth control. He's goin to use a condom but i don't know if that will ...

A.   27 February 2009: i think condoms are very reliable,but if u are very unsure you should wait until you can afford the pill,and use both together,cella.... (read in full...)

Can anyone recommend a good shimmering body lotion???

Q.   Hi girls, Im just wondering if anyone can recommend a good illuminating shimmering body lotion. im going a wedding next month and i want my skin to look nice in my dress. im quite tanned and i really want to have nice glowing shimmery skin. ...

A.   25 February 2009: i find all of the Dove products very good and nicely scented too.Dove shimmering lotion,is very good smells lovely and its nicely priced too lol... (read in full...)

After seeing my own daughter masturbating on a porn site I've become sexually attracted to her. It's so humiliating, how can I stop these feelings of lust for her?

Q.   After seeing my own 19 year old daughter masturbating on an internet home-video porn site I've become sexually attracted to her and can't stop looking at her and thinking of her in that way. I haven't been with a woman sexually in a long time, may...

A.   25 February 2009: hi, i was very shocked reading this,your not a bad person firsly,but you do most deffinately need some professional help.what id like to know is what made you watch this in the first place? because already this is unatural.for example i am a ... (read in full...)

Insecure when GF doesn't show me attention. Change or breakup?

Q.   I am in a relationship where I feel my girlfriend has all the control. She is 21, and I am 24, we have been dating for 2 months. I feel like I love her, but its hard to be happy when I realize that I am soo needy in this relationship. My last ...

A.   25 February 2009: hi,i have read your question a few times to try to understand what exactly it is you want.in all honesty i dont think you really know yourself.you are lacking in self confidence and you feel you need affection to make you feel good about yourself.it ... (read in full...)

Tips about being on top and generally making sex more exciting?

Q.   I've only had ever sex in the missionary position and I was wondering how I could make it more exciting and fun for me and my partner as I'm kinda getting bored of it. Any suggestions? I would like to try being on top at some point but am too...

A.   25 February 2009: hi i have just become an agony aunt so im exceited to help.well i think you are thinking too much about it for a start,and you shouldn't be 'on top' if you are not quite ready.if you force yourself (in order to just please him) you wont enjoy it ... (read in full...)

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