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He's not the man I married.. or I just didn't know who I was marrying.

Q.   OK Folks - this worked before, so I am hoping to hear some feedback and that I will be able to understand what happened in my marriage - I wrote June 26th - titled 'He was sweet before our marriage, now he is abusive' and received some great in...

A.   14 October 2009: Wow... so much turmoil in so few months! 5 to be exact. This was so cyclic in nature. I recognized the pattern well. He left the home 5 times in 4 months. When he would start yelling and screaming at me I would put ear plugs in - and when that ... (read in full...)

He's not the man I married.. or I just didn't know who I was marrying.

Q.   OK Folks - this worked before, so I am hoping to hear some feedback and that I will be able to understand what happened in my marriage - I wrote June 26th - titled 'He was sweet before our marriage, now he is abusive' and received some great in...

A.   14 October 2009: Wow... so much turmoil in so few months! 5 to be exact. This was so cyclic in nature. I recognized the pattern well. He left the home 5 times in 4 months. When he would start yelling and screaming at me I would put ear plugs in - and when that ... (read in full...)

I just want to have sex and have fun, is it wrong?

Q.   Ok so i went to school with this guy i realy liked then he turned out to be a bit of a perv. he trasfered schools and after him i havnt had a relationship or had sex and honestly i kinda liked that he realy wnted to have sex w/ me and next year we ...

A.   16 July 2009: I am of the opinion that most, if not all - male teens are perv's! They are coming into their prime and SEX is ALWAYS on their minds!! Sounds to me as if the banter you once enjoyed with him was harmless fun - however, you are both a little older ... (read in full...)

Is it stress, or am I just pregnant?

Q.   I am a sexually active 18 year old. I do not use a Birth Control Pill but I do use condoms consistently and carefully. I always make sure to check the condom and put it on/take it off properly. I get really paranoid, so after sex I check the ...

A.   15 July 2009: Personally, this sounds more like an anxiety issue - NOT a pregnancy issue! Most people would suggest that you relax.... yea, right! From what you have told us, you are experiencing several of Life's Major Events simultaneously - not usually a ... (read in full...)

Why does she want to fight over everything?

Q.   hey guys i'm a 27 yr old man with an 42 yr old woman she seems to wanna fight with me over every thing.i'm always being accused of cheating (never have though it's been 5 months)i love her,sex is good but i can't really stand all the fighting ...

A.   5 July 2009: Arguing - I think this is probably more of a control issue - especially if it is more of a 'I'm RIGHT' type of discussions Accusing you of cheating - I was informed several years ago that when a mate accuses you of cheating, it is really th... (read in full...)

I went online pretending to be another woman and my boyfriend fell for her!!!

Q.   I used this fake account and added my boyfriend on it. I started talking to him as her, and he started to flirt with her. He said he would kiss her and most probably have sex with her! I kept asking him about me his girlfriend and he was acting like ...

A.   1 July 2009: Oh What tangled webs we weave, when we practice to deceive - I hope you have learned from this Life Lesson - no game playing! especially games that stem from insecurity, jealousy and lack of trust!... (read in full...)

Controlling psycho mom!

Q.   Seeking advice on my controling mother. I am 26yr old college graduate with a full time job and my mother still feels the need to run my life. All be the fact she and my step father helped pay for college and other financials during my growing up my ...

A.   29 June 2009: Control Issue! Mom is attempting to control you through the child support that she received from your father as you were growing up. Entitlement Issue! You feel entitled to the child support that your mother socked away in a bank account! ... (read in full...)

Addicted to Sudafed and not sure what to do. Anyone else been in this situation?

Q.   Hi all, I'm needing a little advice before I go to the doctor. I'd say it has been about 2 years now that I have been taking Sudafed Nasal Spray. I take it at least once every week and sometimes as much as 4 times a week. I take it before I go t...

A.   29 June 2009: Sudafed 1-4 doses a week? Last time I checked, rebound effect is usually a result of OVERuse. 1-4 doses may make you a semi-regular user of sudafed, but certainly not an overuser - talk to you dr about your nasal passages becoming blocked every ... (read in full...)

She's trying to win my trust again, but this feeling is eating me alive from the inside!

Q.   I have to start by saying that i can't believe i'm doing this. But i can't sleep, so i need advices... I've been with this girl for almost a year now. And we love each other so much and want to have a future together. But as with any relation...

A.   29 June 2009: You want advises - so I am going to give you some advises - Do you like DRAMA? How about SOAP OPERAS? Do you have a deep desire to star in a drama or soap opera? If the answer is 'no', then GOT OUT! It is time to move on and find someone who enjo... (read in full...)

Is it possible for a man to totally lose his sex drive?

Q.   is it posible for a man to toally lose sexdrive? Never think about it,or wish for it? Or is it just connected to a bad realtionship? ...

A.   29 June 2009: yep - especially if his testosterone level isn't as high as it should be... gotta have it checked by a doctor - ... (read in full...)

Why does this sound happen? It's so embarrassing!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend were having sex, and we've recently tried doggy style and the most EMBARRASSING thing happened.. I had a vaginal fart?!?! It was so embarrassing, I didn't know what to do! I just laughed and he laughed too but he continued. It ...

A.   29 June 2009: Absolutely normal - while he's pounding away... well he is pushing air in and it has gotta escape somehow.... it is called a 'vart'.... (read in full...)

Tempted to lose my virginity to a married man. Do I or don't I?

Q.   Hi, I am an unmarried virgin girl.For the last two years iam in friendship with a married man. He is asking me for sex and to spend 3 nights with him. He says that it will not affect my future marriage. I am tempted to have sex with him. What ...

A.   28 June 2009: Nope - that would not be a wise choice! 1. You are cheating yourself - this man can not give as much to you as you are willing to give to him. HE IS MARRIED 2. You are hurting a person/persons (his wife)(his kids) that has done you no harm. ... (read in full...)

Am I just homesick?

Q.   Basically i wanna know if this is homesick or not. I moved in with my bf about 3 months ago. I have never lived away from home before. Since i've been here i have experienced my first ever late period, my first ever panic attack and been rushed ...

A.   28 June 2009: Sounds to me like you are trying to adjust to being on your own. Growing pains, I use to call them! ... (read in full...)

Is slating about her boyfriend to me a sign that she likes me?

Q.   I like this girl, she's real cute and all and i'm getting the vibe that she likes me too. She's not single but she was telling me that her boyfriend is an 'insensitive p***k'. How should I take this?Is she saying this because she likes me and wou...

A.   28 June 2009: Pass on by... She is playing a game - She is exhibiting more than poor manners when she speaks badly of her boyfriend to you. She is telling you that she suffers from low self esteem - if he is truly such a bad guy, why is she with him? She is s... (read in full...)

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