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Will birth control for cramps stop my gf from becoming pregnant?

Q.   I have a question about birth control. My girl friend uses birth control to stop the cramps and such but we have been having sex lately and she wants me to come inside her. Says it feels good. But on birth control for cramps, does this still pr...

A.   19 June 2007: If she takes it on schedule she'll be covered, assuming she's taking the birth control pill like you implied.... (read in full...)

We both want to kiss eachother but we're both to scared to make the first move!

Q.   There is a guy I like. He is friends with a friend of mine. He has been known to get around a bit in the past but apparently around me he is shy and nervous. He wants to kiss me, I want to kiss him but neither of us can make the first move. His ...

A.   18 June 2007: Try kissing his cheek or nuzzling him. This'll help relax him enough for lip lock, and isn't as extreme as The Kiss, which you both want but think is too racy to go for.... (read in full...)

Ladies! I want her to miss me. How do I go about doing this?

Q.   Hi, okay, ladies please help!! My ex and I have been broken up 3 weeks now...last week i phoned her on monday, left a message, and she called right back. She is leaving for Italy for business today. I said on monday, "can we get together before ...

A.   18 June 2007: I think she's too nice to say no, but not nice enough to say she’s not interested. An acrimonious break up can be confusing; as if the person doesn't hate you it can be hard to remember they don't love you either. Leave her alone, she has you ... (read in full...)

I'm 58 and I'm with a 19 year old polish waitress. Am I just a silly old fool, and if so, should I call it a day?

Q.   Last Christmas when I was out eating with friends they dared me to ask out a young Polish waitress. Now I'm 58(and Single) and I was amazed when she said yes.I later found out she is 19. We had a tremendous time and I've been seeing her ever since. ...

A.   18 June 2007: You don't need to 'Let' her be with people her own age; she's equip to make her own choices. Assuming she loves you, have fun with the pretty Polish waitress and enjoy your May/December romance.... (read in full...)

This girl I know makes confusing references to sex..what am I to make of her?

Q.   A North American girl I am working with everyday keeps making references to a question someone asked her: her exact words are "he asked me how much I could take", meaning, how many times she could have intercourse in a row. Then, she suddenly says ...

A.   18 June 2007: 'We could have the cutest little abortion together' is silly goth talk, and she probably doesn't mean she wants to have an abortion with you in the literal sense. She probably used that phrase to you could tell she was joking when she flirted with ... (read in full...)

This girl I know makes confusing references to sex..what am I to make of her?

Q.   A North American girl I am working with everyday keeps making references to a question someone asked her: her exact words are "he asked me how much I could take", meaning, how many times she could have intercourse in a row. Then, she suddenly says ...

A.   18 June 2007: She's being silly, and while she probably finds you cute, she's not relationship material. Since you work with her you have the right to ask her to stop the sex talk.... (read in full...)

I like him but he keeps pressuring me for sex! Should I dump him?

Q.   hey i am 13 years old and same with me boyfriend. on the very first night he kept asking me to do bj's with him and made me feel very uncomfortable. I confronted him about it and he said that he was sorry, but he keeps asking me to like take showers ...

A.   18 June 2007: Yes, break up with him. Not because the poor boy is wrong to want sex, but because you're very right not to be interested and he won't able to be not interested. Find a young man who's on the same page as you, for this one's out of step.... (read in full...)

The father of my children left me for someone else, but I don't think he is happy, what should I do?

Q.   hi im jusy wondering ?if anyone can help me out here?my husband left me for a girl 20 years younger than him.and said he does not love me anymore.that he s in love with her and feels ever so happy in this realationship.it tuck me 6months to get over ...

A.   5 January 2007: This man may or may not be happy, but he's self harming and making stupid choices like leaving his family you're better off without him and he seems very much he'd be quite happy to become your burden. You can not make other people happy. A... (read in full...)

I stayed after school and ended up having sex with my ICT teacher!

Q.   I really fancy my ICT teacher. Then last night I stayed at school late to finish my dida (ICT ) coursework, and during that time, me and my teacher were talking and he leaned over and kissed me. We ended up having sex and now I don't know what to ...

A.   22 September 2006: Hmm, if you feel okay with this, keep you lips zipped except for talking to your family doctor about your sexual health (or at a clinic,of which there are many). Don't sleep with him again, as your teacher, even without the age difference, that's ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants to date others to see if I am what he really wants. How am I supposed to react to that?

Q.   I am in a realationship with someone that i love with all my heart. He loves me but wants to date others to make sure I am truely what he wants. How do I react to that? any suggestions?...

A.   22 September 2006: He doesn't love you enough. If he wants to date you plus other people, he's trying to keep his options open. Ergo you can either date other people yourself at the same time or break up outright. But please don't wait for him to come back to you.... (read in full...)

It's his baby, I told him and he won't respond to me! What should I do?

Q.   My ex-boyfriend wont respond to me regarding our new baby! First Im married and I had an affair for two years Things were not going good with my husband and I. I just wasnt in love with him anymore but I was to afraid to leave him. I met this ...

A.   16 September 2006: I'm afraid you're going to have to go through this pregnancy yourself. It's not fun, but this boy is obviously not capable of dealing with you in a mature fashion. If you want the kid, have it. You can sue for paternity, for the sake of the child... ... (read in full...)

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