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I don't have any qualifications, I just treat people as they were my own friend and try to look at everything from a different perspective.
I live by myself and I love it very much.
I dislike people who try to beat around the bush or derail a conversation.
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How to Have No-Contact when I run into her often?
Q. Here's a link to my situation if you need background... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-girlfriend-just-left-me-and-i-want.html It's been a little over 2 weeks since we broke up. Last Wed night, she came by we proceeded to talk about ...
A. 13 September 2010: Part of breaking up is giving yourself space and saying no to temptation. It's only been two weeks and you just have to understand that not much time has passed. You just need more time.
Until you can actually just be her friend I would reco... (read in full...)
How can I date someone that works so much?
Q. So, a few months ago my boyfriend got a job. The problems we were having in our relationship were finally getting resolved, but then once he started to work, things got so much worse. He works so much-especially on weekends, which is usually the ...
A. 12 September 2010: You just have to explain to him that in order for the relationship to work he has to make time for you, the same as you would do for him. You should understand that working is a big part of anyone's life whether it is a part of your's or not. ... (read in full...)
What is going on with my relationship? Is my bf Inexperienced or just not in to me?
Q. Okay, i have been dating this guy for 2 months. Everything was great the first 2 weeks. He defiantly plays head games with me. To start we meet though friends. My best friend is one of his best friends. She told me right off the bat that he is ve...
A. 12 September 2010: I think he is cheating on you honestly. Plus he's getting some extra info about you and drama is starting because of it...it does not seem like something you can defend yourself against. He'll call you when he hears you are with another guy but not ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out? or am I wasting my time?
Q. Hi... I'm asking to see if anyone else thinks theres an opening here for me to become friends and then something more with this girl, I'm just really going to summarize what I think shows a chance and shows a lack there of: * I can swear that I...
A. 12 September 2010: It's amazing how we guys always fall for some of the more difficult women don't ya think? Hehe
Well no use in wondering forever right? If you get the chance to be sincere then talk to her and explain to her that you are interested in her and woul... (read in full...)
"Guy Friends" and shady behavior
Q. Ok, I'm sure a million people have been in this situation or something similar, but I've been pretty upset lately to the point of losing significant sleep and having nightmares over this. My girlfriend has lots of "guy friends." The only interac...
A. 12 September 2010: I can't say if she is cheating or not but she does sound like she has another life...which seems as a valid cause for concern. Even though you talk to her I'm not sure if she will come clean but as I can see you have already tried that. I'm not sure ... (read in full...)
How do I get boyfriend to be more flirty and tender?
Q. I've known my bf for three years. He is a quiet guy but funny and outgoing around ther right people. We love eachother and stuff but I dnt rele feel the love. -in an ldr- like when we talk txt or I'm he never calls me a pet name or is really ...
A. 12 September 2010: I think it's harder to do when you both are young and are already in a LDR. But if you start doing it maybe he will do it. Also maybe that is just not his thing, I don't really know. But for these LDR to become healthier you have to talk and express ... (read in full...)
Birth control pills make me moody and sick to my stomach
Q. hey ive been on birth control for almost a week and this is my first time. i havent gotten my period for 2 months and not preg. (negative preg. test and ultrasound shows nothing) the BC pills make me sick to my stomach. Is this normal? i have ...
A. 12 September 2010: Irregular periods is "normal" but I would would recommend seeing a doctor and switch to condoms.... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is thinking of leaving me
Q. my girlfriend has told me tonight that she has been thinking about our relationship the past few days. she is thinking about leaving me. we got drunk tonight and i accidentally slipped my ex's name when i was getting frustrated with her. maybe ...
A. 11 September 2010: This is a lot of pretty deep stuff here you have to sort out...I think you both need to have a talk with each other because you are holding this up inside you and it shouldn't be like that. If you keep hiding it you will become mean and bitter. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend thinks I should "let her off" and allow her to cheat!
Q. My girlfriend confessed to cheating on me by saying that she's developed feelings for another guy, who also happens to be an old friend of mine. He knows that i and her are in a relationship but even then she was attracted to him after he said that ...
A. 11 September 2010: You are young and have A LOT to look forward to in life and I assure you there are millions of girls out there who can remain faithful. No one is perfect, neither are you, but you deserved better than. Good luck and stay true to your words! ... (read in full...)
How can I stop my ex from ruining this friendship?
Q. how can I stop my ex from ruining my friendship? The other day I was hanging out with my ex boyfriend and I mentioned this fight I had with my friend of 17 years, it was important to me and I was just venting, I want to keep that friendship and w...
A. 10 September 2010: For one he is thinking of a solution to your problem as this is just how guys think. Girls just want understanding and to vent just like you said, but guys want to solve the problems and tell your friend up front about her ways are his way of ... (read in full...)
Was this really cheap, or am I being too hard on myself?
Q. I'm married and met a guy few months back at a party and we danced together while drunk.We flirted a little, he gave me compliments and said your husband is lucky man etc.Later that night we hungout with a group of people.I was drunk and asked him ...
A. 10 September 2010: No matter how much you think about it will it bring more clarity. I guess the problem arose when you knew you were attracted to him but you somehow going to lead him on, and indeed there was the possibility of even having an emotional affair. You ... (read in full...)
Am I crazy or is she cheating?
Q. hello me and my wife have been together 8 yrs and have 2 kids. I recently caught her in a few lies and now I'm having trust issues and thinks she is cheating on me. we have agreed social networking sites are immature and cause problems so we both ...
A. 10 September 2010: Sounds like cheating to me, I can't imagine a wife of 8 yrs needs to hide anything. Whether it is physical cheating or emotional is another story. Hope you handle the situation with some respect and class at least! Good Luck... (read in full...)
G/f lied to me and was used as a sex toy for 2 years
Q. When I met my girlfriend, she told me she hadn't had a boyfriend in 4 years. While "technically," this was true, it turns out she had had a "casual relationship" with a man for two years. And she continued having sex with him for a short time even ...
A. 10 September 2010: Then I don't know what is wanted. We are all going to have our own opinions but as advice goes I still think there isn't much that can actually be done about the situation. Most guys always have problems with a girl's past more so than a girl with a ... (read in full...)
G/f lied to me and was used as a sex toy for 2 years
Q. When I met my girlfriend, she told me she hadn't had a boyfriend in 4 years. While "technically," this was true, it turns out she had had a "casual relationship" with a man for two years. And she continued having sex with him for a short time even ...
A. 9 September 2010: Well dude its not like she was going to tell you it from day one right? I get that you are upset but there isn't much she can do about it and neither can you.
I think what is bugging you the most is questioning if you can trust her. I don't kn... (read in full...)
My girlfriend thinks I should "let her off" and allow her to cheat!
Q. My girlfriend confessed to cheating on me by saying that she's developed feelings for another guy, who also happens to be an old friend of mine. He knows that i and her are in a relationship but even then she was attracted to him after he said that ...
A. 9 September 2010: I think it is obvious what you should do...as everyone else seems to have the same idea.
She is not confused and neither are you. You both know what you are doing and I am sure when she says "I don't know" she pretty much knows.
I know you wa... (read in full...)
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