I can't help feeling something happened, but she says it didn't!
Q. I have been married for a little over 6 years. We have had our share of problems but nothing major then about 2 years ago we just stopped having sex . My wife claimed that she just wasn't in the mood, this went on for about a year and a half. I was ...
A. 20 December 2013: This certainly does not sound all above board in the slightest. There are many things that I am questioning currently. Firstly if this guy doesn't work at the same place she does I find it strange how she would know him. Knowing that he has no ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but want to have sex with his sister!
Q. I am 25yrs girl who dating guys bt also like girls I do have a BF and his caring and lovely eccidentally he have also a sister who like girls too I love my BF and I also atractive to his sister one day me and her sister go out together and endup ...
A. 20 December 2013: For a start saying you love your bf is total rubbish as you want to dump him for his sister people in love don't tend to dump each other. Secondly there is no easy way out of this, it's likely your bf will: a) find out you cheated on him with his ... (read in full...)
I cheated on him, once. Yet I can't picture my life without him. What do I do about my guilt?
Q. I'm about to get married to my bf of 5 years I do love him very much and I am very happy that we are going to get married, but I am having second doubts about getting married, because I am guilty of cheating on him once in the past, while we were ...
A. 19 December 2013: I get that you wouldn't want him to know. However I can honestly say telling him would be best. If you don't get married he'll want an explanation so you will also have to lie and uphold that lie. The truth will always come out in time. I've been ... (read in full...)
He's flirting but hasn't asked me out on a date, what are his intentions?
Q. I met this guy last month at a friend's gathering. In the end, we exchanged facebook. We messaged each other on FB for a week, but not like having long conversations. Then it stopped. Until a week ago, he got back from his holiday, we sort...
A. 17 December 2013: What he's doing is finding out about you. If he wasn't interested in you he wouldn't ask if you were single. He knows you're single but is probably waiting to see if things with you would work out. Personally I would say to just ask him out rather ... (read in full...)
How do I diplomatically bring up the issue of her lying?
Q. hello. can anyone give me advice on how to deal with my lying girlfriend? we've been together for over a year now and she's never been the lying type, but i've got some proof that recently, she's been lying to me about something (not too major)....
A. 17 December 2013: Without knowing what she's lying about and what proof you have and how it's difficult to make a suggestion. My personal experience of lying and what I did was as follows: I should have stayed at my exs house over a weekend she said she was clearing ... (read in full...)
Marriage being damaged by wife's male friend who has now stayed for more than 2 months
Q. I have been married for 2 years, I am 41 and my wife is 30. We have always been amazing together, and I thought we were happy. We recently started trying for kids, which was her idea, as I was never going to push her until she was ready. She has ...
A. 17 December 2013: I agree with youwish here. There are 2 reasons a friend says that sort of thing; because it's true or they want what you have. Personally reading what you've said I would say it's the later reason. You have a few options: ride it out and hope that ... (read in full...)
How can I build trust and meet new people after being lied to
Q. It's been a few months since I've been on here and really appreciated the mass of advice I got last time. After months of secrecy and lies about who she was meeting and speaking to I plucked up the courage and dumped here. Her excuse being that she ...
A. 17 December 2013: Thanks for the advice. I would like to meet someone new, but I'm just useless at doing so I'm not that keen on approaching random people so anyone I've ever dated has been a friend or someone a friend knows... (read in full...)
Am I crazy is he cheating and taking me for a fool?
Q. Hi Guys and Girls A question about strange behaviour from my partner of 4 years. We live together and have done for 3 years. However I am always suspicious of him and keep checking his texts and Facebook messages. I like to go to bed early...
A. 27 September 2013: The trust has no doubt gone. You won't be able to trust his word on it and you'll keep questioning everything. In the end it's not worth the exhaustion it will cause you. Walk away from it and don't look back... (read in full...)
How do I let him know I'm interested without embarrassing either of us?
Q. Hey I'm a 17 year old girl and I really like someone aged 25. I understand that we're at different points in our lives and I may be a bit young for him at the moment but we really connect and get each other really well. I feel he's hinting at ...
A. 27 September 2013: I'm 6 years older than an ex of mine she was 17 at the time and her parents used to love me. I think the age gap matters to some people and not so much to others. We got on great and used to go everywhere together practically joined at the hip. They ... (read in full...)
Did I lose out by not dating or having sex?
Q. I am 27 years old virgin boy from India currently I live in Melbourne.In my Home country it is pretty common(no sex before marriage). I feel that I lost a big part of my life with out sex or relationships.Remaining virgin even after20 or 25 is ...
A. 24 September 2013: I don't think it really matters how many partners someone has had what matters is the person you are with. I've had a few, and the majority have been mistakes. I've been cheated on and lie to by a few of them which I didn't realise was going to ... (read in full...)
I worry that men think I'm only good for sex
Q. Even though I have had relationships in the past, lately I think sometimes that I am only good for sex and I guess it's because of the guys I meet. I am attractive and whenever I talk to them they just see my body and not my personality so I...
A. 24 September 2013: I think you've partly answered your question yourself. You said you answer their explicit questions and that it's because of the guys you meet. I guess what you could do is change the type of guys you meet and ignore the explicit questions... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's best friend is a girl who likes him and it really bothers me!
Q. Hey everyone so I'm not sure if I'm over reacting or what. But my boyfriend has a girl best friend I'm not used to dating guys who have girl best friends infact I absolutely hate it! But he's been friends with her way before we started dating. They ...
A. 24 September 2013: This is definitely a tricky situation and one that has not only recently happened to me but variants of it can be seen on many other question sites. There is a line with friendships and by the sound of it he is crossing that line. He probably ... (read in full...)
Don't want to lose my friends but I really like this guy.
Q. Basically, I have been friends with this boy for ages now, and I have started to have a massive crush on him. People say he would be good for me, but they never say if he has told anyone he has a crush on me too. I have got a bad reputati...
A. 24 September 2013: I wouldn't yet ask him out right, this can end up being a tricky situation. Personally I would see him more if you don't see him a great deal. Maybe suggest going to see a film, go out for a drink that kind of thing. What you don't want to do is go ... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity but neither have a good place for it.
Q. I am about 17 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. I feel like i am ready to have sex with him but i haven't discussed it with him. I feel scared that if he says no that things will become uncomfortable between us and ...
A. 23 September 2013: Judging from what you have said in your question you both haven't been very far with each other yet. I would talk about it with him maybe book a good evening or 2 away some where and even if you don't go all the way just yet getting used to what ... (read in full...)
My body issues are holding me back from losing my virginity.
Q. Hi all, I'm in a bit of a difficult spot. I want to lose my virginity with my girlfriend but I also have intimacy issues (I am embarrassed about the way my chest looks) which is making this hard. She has mentioned making love before, but I so...
A. 23 September 2013: The best thing you can really do is apologise to your girlfriend for skirting round it when she spoke about it before and tell her why as the last thing you want is for her to think its something to do with her. Just be open and completely honest ... (read in full...)
Normal or potential abusive boyfriend?
Q. Hello, Ive been dating my boyfriend lets call him ''bob'' for three years. During the time we've dated i've noticed he can be very possessive and controlling. He is this way about my best friends, what i eat, make up, decisions about our relati...
A. 23 September 2013: You need to get out of this abusive relationship before it turns violent... (read in full...)
Everything seemed to change once we got engaged
Q. I have just gonna engaged in May.. I have known him since 2007. We have been good friends since then. I have never noticed his presence in my life. I always end up with different guys and run to him crying confiding to him my breakup stories. He has ...
A. 23 September 2013: I think it would be important to sit down and talk about what causes the arguments is there a common theme that you argue about? It is important to remember that a relationship changes over time and things can feel like routine or that it's lost its ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has contact with her ex and lies to me about it. How do I talk to her about this?
Q. I dont feel hurt by her actions, just disappointed that shes lieing to my face and not telling the whole truth. I told my girlfriend that if she had contact with her ex it would break us up and its not that i cant or dont trust her its how he b...
A. 17 September 2013: This reads very similar to the situation I have been in with my ex. Although it was a friend of mine she was seeing and talking to and then started getting spotted being out with all behind my back. Now I have no problem with ex's being friends or ... (read in full...)
How do we improve our sex life after 3 years and a child together?
Q. This is a bit of an embarrassing problem to ask but hopefully maybe one of you can help me. I have been with the bf for nearly 3 years. We have a child together who is nearly 2. Before the child, our sex life was normal and grand - no problems - no ...
A. 17 September 2013: There could be many factors that's causing the issue here. The fact that he rarely cums would suggest to me that he is concerned you will get pregnant again, you've said to him that it won't happen but what you need to understand is that words are ... (read in full...)
I'm confused by my partner's behavior during sex with other couple??
Q. Dear qupid..... My woman and I started a swinging lifestyle. The first time we got together with a couple we had no problems.... Second time no issues there neither..... Third time was all bad.... We get...
A. 2 September 2013: By the sound of it she wants you to both go, doesn't want you to enjoy yourself but wants to enjoy herself and you to have no problem with it. Sound pointless you going. From what I can tell all she wants you to do is sit and watch her as she's ... (read in full...)
I feel so betrayed when my boyfriend masturbates
Q. I feel so betrayed when my boyfriend masturbates. Here recently he's been looking at porn just bout everyday even with me being in the same house/next room. I have very low self esteem and I feel like he doesn't want me anymore and when we do have ...
A. 2 September 2013: Sit down and talk to him. Not confronting him though and don't make lose your temper with. I don't think I know any man that would have an issue if their girlfriend told them they wanted more sex. If you've been together for a few years sex can ... (read in full...)
Should I cut ties with my friend so her brother (my ex) will accept her again?
Q. I never really got over my ex boyfriend when he broke up with me. It's been 5 years since we split and he is marrying the woman he started dating right after we broke up. We had dated for almost 4 years and planned on marriage. About 6 months before ...
A. 2 September 2013: I don't think you and your friend should cut ties. At the end of the day it was your ex who ended it not yourself, if it was you that ended it that would probably be a different situation. By the sound of it there are feelings still on both sides. ... (read in full...)
Text, secrets, maybe lies?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for almost a year and we've been living together for six months. We came together very passionately and have spent our time together whenever possible, almost to the exclusion of other friends. I encouraged her t...
A. 2 September 2013: I am having an extremely similar situation to yourself and posted on here. Taking the advice from others I would talk to her. However if she is anything like my g/f I would make sure it's a decent time as late in the evening after work causes more ... (read in full...)
Secretive girlfriend! How do I approach this?
Q. Been reading through articles on here and they are very useful. However I need some advice still. My g/f has become extremely secretive with texts and calls over the past month or so. There's a guy she's been speaking to and she has become quite ...
A. 2 September 2013: Many thanks for all the replies I shall speak to her at the end of this week/beginning of next week as I'm away for work for a few days. Thanks again :)... (read in full...)
Secretive girlfriend! How do I approach this?
Q. Been reading through articles on here and they are very useful. However I need some advice still. My g/f has become extremely secretive with texts and calls over the past month or so. There's a guy she's been speaking to and she has become quite ...
A. 30 August 2013: Wow thank you all for giving suggestions much appreciated. I wouldn't expect to see the messages and I wouldn't go snooping through her phone even if I did know the password but she certainly needs a decent explanation. I doubt I would find anything ... (read in full...)
Secretive girlfriend! How do I approach this?
Q. Been reading through articles on here and they are very useful. However I need some advice still. My g/f has become extremely secretive with texts and calls over the past month or so. There's a guy she's been speaking to and she has become quite ...
A. 30 August 2013: Thanks for your response. I haven't looked through her phone I for know the password, only know what I do so far from seeing over her shoulder and telling me its a female friend or the reflection in a window so I've got very little to go on but the ... (read in full...)
Secretive girlfriend! How do I approach this?
Q. Been reading through articles on here and they are very useful. However I need some advice still. My g/f has become extremely secretive with texts and calls over the past month or so. There's a guy she's been speaking to and she has become quite ...
A. 30 August 2013: @person12345 thanks for your answer. I haven't snoope through her phone I don't know the unlock code only what I've seen over her shoulder and reflected when she's turned the screen away from me. I have never met the guy and don't even know how she ... (read in full...)
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