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I like him! but I'm still so close with his best friend.
Q. Hey Everyone, I went out with this boy, on-off, for about two years. He told me everything, and there was a lot of really awful experiences that he went through. In the end, I broke up with him (complicated reasons). We're still really close, I ...
A. 1 November 2009: ok well basically if this first boy is as close to you and this other boy as he says he is, then he would be able to accept you like each other. If you dont go out your going to be left with what ifs, that is going to drive a rift between you and ... (read in full...)
What can I do to get over him when I've tried everything?
Q. Hey Dear agony aunts!!!!!!!!! i just want an input on this what would you do if no matter what you do...no matter how many hobbies you may get you can never really get over someone??? what else should i do???especially if this someone was "for...
A. 1 November 2009: truth is its hard, you need closure to truly move on from somebody and because you were never with him your lieft with what ifs. Your always gonna be thinking how great he was, how many things he could have done, how great your relationship is. I ... (read in full...)
How can I stop myself being so nervous about everything?
Q. I'm 15 and i get so nervous about everything. When im at school i get so nervous that somebody will talk about me or hit me or just plan mess with me. See im a quiet person who doesn't say much in some classes because or certain students.In some ...
A. 30 October 2009: in truth, theres no one thing you can do to stop this. Theres nothing that if you do will gaurantee it will stop, and people telling you to be more confident and stand up for urself dont really realise how hard it will be for you to do that. Ive ... (read in full...)
To the DearCupid agony aunt Blaz(pound sign)
Q. To the agony aunt Blaz£, please could you open a new account without the £ on the end of your name? You give excellent advice but because of that symbol on your name, your profile page cannot be viewed or linked to, so no-one can add you as a friend ...
A. 23 July 2007: ok will do:) thankyou for the compliments by the way i appreciate it a lot=] and um, thankyou for telling me my page couldnt be vieewed.. didnt know that:) ok will do xx... (read in full...)
What's the problem?
Q. I had a baby 3 months ago. I just found out I am pregnant again. I am happy because I wanted my daughter to have a sibling close in age to play with etc. I feel that it will make her happier, I also really love being a mom. I am not married to t...
A. 23 July 2007: ok well watever you do all the best ok? i really hope things go well for you;) but yeah remember there are more fish in the sea x... (read in full...)
My husband has spent the past 7 years using prostitutes; how can I ever trust him again?
Q. I have been married for 10 years and have 2 small children. I thought I had a good marriage and very loving relationship. Last week I found out My husband has been seeing prostitutes for the past 7 years. He first denied it but eventually confessed. ...
A. 23 July 2007: ok, well babe you will survive, and live. for your children. trust me you will make it. and it is completely up to u wat happens. all the best watever u do:) xx... (read in full...)
What does 'gash' mean?
Q. what does gash mean ? ...
A. 23 July 2007: lool, in slang:S it means girl. e.g your such a special gash, (your such a spec girl) in da english dictionary it means a cut.... (read in full...)
My husband has spent the past 7 years using prostitutes; how can I ever trust him again?
Q. I have been married for 10 years and have 2 small children. I thought I had a good marriage and very loving relationship. Last week I found out My husband has been seeing prostitutes for the past 7 years. He first denied it but eventually confessed. ...
A. 23 July 2007: im so sorry babe :( thats really bad news:( but look if he has cheated on you for seven years what makes you think he would feel bad about it now, but not for the past 7 years? 7 years is a long time..chances are nothings changed, realize this.. ... (read in full...)
I'm having strange symptoms, could I be pregnant?
Q. i am 21 and not on birth control, me and my partner have been togther for 6 years. anyway my last period was 30/05/07 and usually lasts 5 days, however i missed junes period and am now 3.5 weeks late. took a pregnancy test last week and was ...
A. 23 July 2007: since i am not a girl im not quite sure what this means but look at this site, it gives helpful infomation to realize if your pregnant:) http://pregnancy.about.com/od/signssymptoms/a/25signsofpg.htm... (read in full...)
How do I end my online relationship?
Q. ano this proberly sounds stupid but i have an online gf and i want to end it because i think we have got to serious, how do i tell her? plz help ...
A. 23 July 2007: tel her how you feel. online she cant do much to you and if you dont want any stick you can block her etc. but dont be mean to her, she dosnet deserve that and if its getting serious she likes u a lot so you will probably upset her:( speak to her a... (read in full...)
My rapist told me it was 'normal and that porn stars do it', so I developed a hatred for porn; yet my boyfriend still looks at magazines
Q. i was raped when i was 9 and the person who did it said it was normal and all the famous porn stars did it. and now i despise porn iv told my boyfriend and he stoped watching it but lately iv found hes been looking at mags and he said he wasn't i ...
A. 23 July 2007: tell him that you will break up with him if he watches it. to be honest if he likes you why is he watching porn? is he thinking bout u with his head, or his d**k? chances are if youve found out he may have been doing it before and slipped up. d... (read in full...)
I worry what my boyfriend is doing when I'm not with him
Q. is it silly to worry what my guy would be doing if he isn't checking his phone? il ring and he'll pick up..i just sit there waiting for him to text thinking he may be in trouble is he hurt or is he up to something..i perfectly trust him and when i ...
A. 23 July 2007: he sounds very dangerous... anyone that threatens to kill you isnt that right in the head.. i would get away from him as soon as you can :( look at it this way, he is protective about what you do, but is private with his own life. he is agressiv... (read in full...)
He always treated me different from other girls but we've never really dated; he moved away for a job and we now don't speak as often. I love him, please help!
Q. hi all the guy im in love with is birthday today...but i aint wished him happy birthday he has never told me when his bday is and i've never told him when mine is. i only know because he sent his cv to me to check over about 6months ago and...
A. 23 July 2007: heya, lol i um really dont get the problem:) you two sound like you are really in love, and those coincidences are there for a reason. hang onto him with all youve got, if you love him as much as you sound like you do. all the best xx... (read in full...)
I'm 16 and think I'm in love; is this possible, or should I wait?
Q. basically am 16 and am already in love is this possible..even though we see each other twice a week..we don't live together..and even though its bin a month and a bit, i fantasies about him, we havn't had sex i won't do it and he respects that i...
A. 23 July 2007: well teenage years are very emotional times, the time were you will feel the most love or emotion for someone ever. and it can cloud your mind. remember, your only 16! talking about marridge at this stage is mabye a bit to fast and your devoting... (read in full...)
He seems to care about me but he never asks questions; not even about my job, my family or any of the usual things like that
Q. I've recently started dating a man who seems to be very nice, very quiet but very respectful and thoughtful. He seems to really care for me and want to spend time. My concern is that he never asks questions about me even though I ask him. I have ...
A. 23 July 2007: he seems very wrapped up in himself. there are methods you can use to get past it but dont get wrapped up in his problems to much and dont allow him to go on like that. give him little hints, as in when he asks are you ok say well...not reli.... (read in full...)
I blocked contact with her for 4 months; now I want to be friends again and she's not interested, what can I do?
Q. hey, i blocked contact from a close friend about 4 months ago and just recently unblocked her a couple of weeks ago. she doesnt like me anymore and doesnt want to be friends. ive wrote her poems and such .but no luck. i realy like this person alot ...
A. 23 July 2007: hi, look i enjoy writing poetry but ive been through this. poetry does not work. dont send it to her :( you dont want her viewing you as weak. dont expect her to talk to you straight away, just keep trying though. if she keeps on keeps on saying ... (read in full...)
After 2 failed marriages I'm seeing a woman I love but we fight all the time; is this relationship worth the pain?
Q. I have so many questions I need help with. I am 47 been married twice with children, now have a child and stepson although we are not married with another woman. I love this woman more than I think I have ever loved anyone else. I seem to be in a ...
A. 23 July 2007: i would thiink your counsellor is right. i have thought i was in love before, twice in the same way that there my everything but there wasnt really any connection. i would let this go. i know what your saying, walk away. you dont want to get draw... (read in full...)
I'm basically having to choose between my sister and my ex, whom I still want to be with; am I wrong to feel like this isn't fair?
Q. iv been split up with my ex fiance for nearly 2 month now. but hes suddenly arrived back on the scene asking if he can see me and stuff, which i have agreed to as only friends, even thou deep down i want more. he has told me his life has went do...
A. 23 July 2007: heya, look it really sounds like your ex was right. your sis should not be telling you what to do, and who to go out with, thats called black mail and its done by people so they can control what other people do. you listened to her the first time w... (read in full...)
My boyfriend had plans to live abroad but because of his child, he feels he can't follow this dream; what can I do for him? He seems so down about it
Q. My boyfriend is in dilemma thinking if he should pursue something he wants to do or he should forfeit it because of the responsibility being a parent. My bf got married at a young age and has 7yr old daughter with his ex. Since he became a dad ...
A. 23 July 2007: try talking to him. but dont pressure him that will ruin your relationship. get emotional when you talk, and tell him how you feel, otherwise he will view it as his own problem and no-one else matters. if you tell him your upset about it and its b... (read in full...)
What's the problem?
Q. I had a baby 3 months ago. I just found out I am pregnant again. I am happy because I wanted my daughter to have a sibling close in age to play with etc. I feel that it will make her happier, I also really love being a mom. I am not married to t...
A. 23 July 2007: has he always been like that?
you've noticed a change in his dads personality towards you and if he isnt sure about giving a commitment there might be something going on. not sure what it could be but make sure nothing has happend with him or his ... (read in full...)
With my physique, what's the easiest way to build a six-pack?
Q. i'm 15 years old, 5ft something or other weighting 10, stone what is the easiest way to get a 6 pack?...
A. 23 July 2007: i know a lot about this subject as i do a lot of athletic traning.
im 6'ft and i find that doing sets of crunches, situps, and a few other excersises help. but keeping the amount of food you eat in check is essential.
use these videos to see how ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend's friends seem to be on a hate campaign against me for no reason
Q. my boyfriends friends say they hate me.... dunno what i did, they are saying im immature (while they used to say i was extrmely mature for my age as do most people... they are about 7/8 years older than i am) one girl said she hated me and wan...
A. 23 July 2007: Not trying to cause any trouble but it sounds like your boyfriend may be saying stuff about you. Have you and him had any kind of argument, ot talked about a topic that may be uncomftable to him? find out xx... (read in full...)
I don't like the sex organs i have.
Q. I am male and am attracted to females but I dislike having the male parts I have. I am also not sporty and don't really like cars nor do i fit into the catagories of a typical bloke. Could I be a lesbian in a man's body?...
A. 23 July 2007: Do you find yourself attracted to girls parts more?, because in that case you just proving your not gay and you like girls.. but is it that you actually dont like having male sex organs? not every guy likes cars and completely fits into the male cate... (read in full...)
He's seeing my mate, but telling people he's single.
Q. What does it mean when your ex is being flirty towards you;giving you wedgies and teasing you? He suppossed to be going out with a close freind of mine but says he is single! What is going on in his head?? ...
A. 23 July 2007: heya, have you thought he might be using your mate to get to you? in that case, he may love you but be very confussed in his own emotions and i wouldnt get involved just in case your relationship with him, and your friend are ruined. but he ... (read in full...)
I love him but he has problems.
Q. We are both near 50yrs and have both had multiple relationships and want to settle down. We've been together 4yrs, lived together 3yrs. My grandchildren love him, I love him....but I can't stand to be around him for more than a couple of days at a...
A. 23 July 2007: You need to tell him it's either the medication or thats it. If he needs help, he might be a little scared and you need to help him, in time he will realize it's for the better but if he loves you he should take the medication whether he likes it... (read in full...)
I don't want to suffer with depression.
Q. I got out of a relationship with a person who was not nice or good to me, i'm happy to be out of it and i do not want to go back. I at times remember how bad they treat me and the fact they did such bad things yet felt no guilt or remorse. That h...
A. 23 July 2007: Heya, i know a friend who did suffer from depression and attempted to commit suicide. the best thing you can do is talk to someone who will listen, telling your problems to someone always helps. if socializing is a problem in your area go onto the... (read in full...)
Never been on a date or had a boyfriend! How do I get this stuff started?
Q. well, this question has probably been asked quite a few times on here, but here it goes i am 20 yrs old... I'll be 21 in january actually. and I have never been on a date or had a boyfriend. I've had crushes on plenty of guys, and most of my ...
A. 23 July 2007: heya. umm if you want to get stuff started with a guy you have got to show confidence. it will be hard but with exprerience that stuff will come naturally. be flirty with the guy you like. see if he responds. if you dont flirt he will think you... (read in full...)
I feel I'm going to give in and have sex with him soon!
Q. i have just turned 16 and for the past 3 months my younger boyfreind who is 15 and not 16 for 8 months has been asking me for sex. he looks alot older than he is,is a lot taller then me and stronger and is very dominant. i really dont no what to do ...
A. 23 July 2007: heya b, listen. if the only excuse stopping you in that its illegal then i am sure that there are other doubts in your mind? you hear abot people losing there virginity at 9/ 13 and he is 15. those other people didnt care about law and he is only ... (read in full...)
I feel I'm going to give in and have sex with him soon!
Q. i have just turned 16 and for the past 3 months my younger boyfreind who is 15 and not 16 for 8 months has been asking me for sex. he looks alot older than he is,is a lot taller then me and stronger and is very dominant. i really dont no what to do ...
A. 23 July 2007: heya b, listen. if the only excuse stopping you in that its illegal then i am sure that there are other doubts in your mind? you hear abot people losing there virginity at 9/ 13 and he is 15. those other people didnt care about law and he is only ... (read in full...)
Tired Of Girlfriend Treating Me More Like A Mate Then A Boyfriend
Q. Me and my girlfrend of 8 months are going through a difficult time. I love her and I know she loves me. Its been difficult seeing each other recently, due to the fact that we are students on summer break and live 2 half hours from each other. Prior ...
A. 22 July 2007: she obviously confussed about what she really wants. if shes asking for sex one minute but then not giving it she isnt sure how she feels. like she wants you to stay with her, wich is why your apart shell say about having sex but when your actual... (read in full...)
Like A Girl But Due To Holidays We Wont See Each Other & She Says She's Confused!
Q. hi i still go to school and ive told this girl i like her. We're on holidays at the moment and shes told me she likes me. But we're on holidays so we wont see each other. And she says that shes confuseed in the way that she likes me and she wants...
A. 22 July 2007: thankyou for your reply, that really makes sence. yeah we were friends before it happend, and we had a period where we expressed our feelings for each other before but didnt go out. thanks anyway i appreciate it:) xx... (read in full...)
Is it just a crush or something more?
Q. Ok, this is my first time doing this, and i am pretty nervous about who is going to read this, but i've read a lot of other answers and such, and the people seem to be really understanding so here goes. Well, this summer i met this girl from pol...
A. 22 July 2007: It's something more, just be sure that you don't get to involved and then find out she has done this before. Take things slow, see how it goes. If you think that she really is in love with you go for it,you can usually tell. ... (read in full...)
Is it safe for my boyfriend to ejaculate inside me while I am pregnant?
Q. Is it safe for my boyfriend to ejaculate inside me while I am pregnant?...
A. 22 July 2007: Congratulations hunni hope the babby is healthy xx... (read in full...)
What's the difference between a best mate and a lover?
Q. Hi, I'm 16yrs old and am going out with this guy i've liked 4 ages now. The relationship is perfect except one thing: I'm scared to sleep with him. I want to there's no pressure there it's just i'm not sure how to go about doing things and if i get...
A. 22 July 2007: First time is always scary and its pretty hard for anyone to tell you what to do. Just let everything flow and you'll do it more naturally with every time you do it. Telling the diffrence between a best friend and a lover is really hard, i know... (read in full...)
My boyfriend tells me I'm beautiful but I just don't believe him
Q. im incredibly insecure. i have absolutley no idea why. what i do know is that it is starting to affect my relationship with my boyfriend. how do i stop feeling so worthless and improve my view of myself when i dont know whats causing it? my ...
A. 22 July 2007: Chances are if he is telling you he loves you and your beautiful he means it hun. Look at the way he is acting, if you cant find anything to suggest in any way that he is cheating on you, why doubt him? The only thing is have more confidence in yours... (read in full...)
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