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Why are women attracted to big penises?

Q.   Granted I myself am not very well equipped, being at 4 inches long and 4 inches in girth. I don't understand what's so great about big penises and why girls seem so attracted to them. Some girls have told me that smaller penises aren't attractiv...

A.   7 August 2010: Honestly, men care more about this than women do, large penis's can hurt it all depends on the woman. I'd take a small penis over a large one anyday. The girls you know must be young and clueless. All penis's are attractive, a penis is a penis and ... (read in full...)

Help! I stumbled across his porn!

Q.   Hi, so I was sending an email from my boyfriends laptop and went to attach my CV to it and the last thing he had been accessing on his laptop came up first - this happened to be a folder containing photos of naked celebrity women. I was quite shoc...

A.   6 August 2010: I don't think couples should have anything to hide from eachother, i'd be cool with my boyfriend 'snooping' around on my computer, phone whatever. Porn is only okay when both people in the relationship are okay with it. The reader below may be okay ... (read in full...)

Why will she no longer let me cum in her mouth?

Q.   hello there, i find myself getting a little frustrated/resentful these days and have gone to counselling and been very open about the matter with my fiance. now i understand this topic may sound offensive or degrading to some women/men on h...

A.   5 August 2010: Leave her? I think she should leave you mate. You've had counceling because your partner won't swallow? Are you serious? That's the worst reason I've ever came across as to break up with someone. Self absorbed for sure.. ... (read in full...)

Can anyone suggest a reason why I shouldn't walk out on my lazy, frigid wife?

Q.   I have been married for 14 years and have got to the stage where my wife is driving me insane. Apart from going to work, she never leaves the house. She doesn’t have any friends, hobbies, interests or do any sports. She just spends all weekend and ...

A.   5 August 2010: You speak so low of your wife, why is it you're with her? Yes she sounds on the lazy side, but have you sat down and talked seriously with her? without ripping her to shreds try talking and compromising perhaps. But to me it sounds you have no hope ... (read in full...)

I'm not in a very good place at the moment and need your help guys...

Q.   Dear Agony Aunt Please can you help. I am 54 years of age as is my husband. Recently I have noticed that he has been visiting porn sites on the internet most mornings and evenings. Is this normal for a man of his age? Our sex life hasn't ...

A.   4 August 2010: Thanks Jilly :) your advice is spot on. I think many people feel they have to tolerate such behaviour in a relationship, whether it be because they don't think highly of themselves, or perhaps they've seen bad relationships within the family and ... (read in full...)

Am I overreacting for getting annoyed at my boyfriend texting his ex at 2am in the morning?!

Q.   Hey, I have an issue I would like some advice with... I have been with my boyfriend for a few years but have found he often texts other girls... only girls that are friends but one of which he has slept with in the past... nothing serious just a o...

A.   3 August 2010: I personaly don't think you're over reacting here. If it were me I'd of made my point very clear that I wasn't happy with it. I wouldn't even be happy at the idea that my boyfriend was texting a girl he has slept with, it would make me highly ... (read in full...)

I'm not in a very good place at the moment and need your help guys...

Q.   Dear Agony Aunt Please can you help. I am 54 years of age as is my husband. Recently I have noticed that he has been visiting porn sites on the internet most mornings and evenings. Is this normal for a man of his age? Our sex life hasn't ...

A.   3 August 2010: Well it seems there are numerous issues here that are getting you down, and rightly so. I think the bigger problem here is the fact that your husband cheated, and understandably you haven't gotton over it. I think you need to ask yourself why you ... (read in full...)

She became distance and wouldn't even hug me everytime we tried to rebuild our relationship. I still want a future with her

Q.   I need help. I dated my girlfriend for a year and a half, and it didn't take me that long to realize she was the one. On top of that, she would always talk about "when we got married" and how I was "too good to be true." Needless to say, she was ...

A.   26 July 2010: You say your girlfriend would blame it on her depression, does your gilfriend have clinical depression, some other form of depression diagnosed by a professional? Or was that just an expression she used if she was going through a down patch? If she ... (read in full...)

Porn is ruining my relationship and feelings!

Q.   Hi there, I am having a little bit of trouble. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we live together. He had lied to me in the beginning about his sex, and how he used to be married. He is 10 years older than I am which doesnt bother me ...

A.   17 July 2010: Haha, no sweat antiasexual, no need to appologise to me. I'm sorry I wrote something that you've miss interporated, why are you breaking down everything I say? Taking everything so serious and literal! When you say to your friends 'see you later' do ... (read in full...)

Porn is ruining my relationship and feelings!

Q.   Hi there, I am having a little bit of trouble. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we live together. He had lied to me in the beginning about his sex, and how he used to be married. He is 10 years older than I am which doesnt bother me ...

A.   16 July 2010: Antiasexual: Did I say that all women hated porn? No, don't put words into my mouth please. And yes, you're right, compromise is about settling on an agreement of what you will both tolerate and enjoy. But when it comes to women that are not happy ... (read in full...)

I cant bring myself to have sex with my boyfriend anymore because he looks at other women

Q.   I just read this quote on this website as a reply to one of the questions about porn: "Men are a thousand times more visual than we are. We just have to grin and bear it, and move on to bigger problems like they often say." My issue...is that it IS ...

A.   14 July 2010: To keep things short and simple, I look at it this way; if it effects you and hurts you, and he won't stop, then he doesn't care much about you. I'm sure you'd stop something if it was effecting him.. But as for the looking at other women, I don't ... (read in full...)

I feel guilty watching porn

Q.   I'm not a good english speker.but i tray.... my probllem is watching Porno movies. at that time I'm not happy b/c i used masterbeshen.... after all the thing happen i hate my self. allwayes I ask my mind why im doing this but i didn't get the ...

A.   14 July 2010: you shouldn't feel guilty about masterbation, not at all. And if you aren't in a relationship and you are watching porn there's nothing wrong with that, you should only feel guilty if you are hurting someone else by doing it.... (read in full...)

Help! I stumbled across his porn!

Q.   Hi, so I was sending an email from my boyfriends laptop and went to attach my CV to it and the last thing he had been accessing on his laptop came up first - this happened to be a folder containing photos of naked celebrity women. I was quite shoc...

A.   14 July 2010: Okay, well firstly, I think most women have all been there, felt hurt, experienced this kind of thing. I have in the past also, and I agree it's quite hard to shake the images out of your head, and it's hard not to compare yourself to them, because ... (read in full...)

Porn is ruining my relationship and feelings!

Q.   Hi there, I am having a little bit of trouble. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months and we live together. He had lied to me in the beginning about his sex, and how he used to be married. He is 10 years older than I am which doesnt bother me ...

A.   14 July 2010: Okay, first thing's first you clearly aren't happy. And secondly, it'a always the women who have to make compromises regards to pornography, and this ISN'T fair at all. If he won't stop this for you, then that shows he doesn't care enough for you, ... (read in full...)

Anyone else feel worthless?

Q.   Anyone else feel worthless? Men think that women are objects. That no means yes. That every woman is theirs for the taking because that's what it means to be a man. It's just the way they are... just like it's the way we are. We are worth nothing. ...

A.   14 July 2010: I can see your point of feeling a bit worthless in this day and age, but I wouldn't generalise all men, yes the good ones are hard to find but don't give up. Women are in the spotlight MUCH more than men, and it's women that feel under pressure to ... (read in full...)

She found a sexual text I had sent to another woman, how do I reassure her it means nothing?

Q.   OK I have a situation. I've been seeing my girlfriend for about three months. I screwed up in the beginning by sending a sexual message to another woman. I didn't put much thought into the statement. Well anyway she seen it. How can I reassure her ...

A.   14 July 2010:  Even if it was at the begginning of your relationship why would you do that? I doubt you can justify yourself to be honest, as a woman know for sure as soon as I found out you'd text another woman in a sexual mannor i'd be off. By doing 'that kind ... (read in full...)

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