Is he cheating again? Girl friend of his sent him a porn link
Q. Hi all, Happy Holidays everyone. I haven't written on here in quite some time, and well of course it's regarding my boyfriend and the cheating matter. I've just come back from my holiday which was away from him for about 12 days. He did some trav...
A. 1 January 2011: Miss Hillary,
Just watch the phone. Things such as, texting. I don't want to add to your fear, but I thought the same with my ex, we were having sex 4 times a week (great sex) the girl was from his home state. We were in Colorado his home state Wash... (read in full...)
Is he cheating again? Girl friend of his sent him a porn link
Q. Hi all, Happy Holidays everyone. I haven't written on here in quite some time, and well of course it's regarding my boyfriend and the cheating matter. I've just come back from my holiday which was away from him for about 12 days. He did some trav...
A. 31 December 2010: I wouldn't jump to conclusions. I have sent guy friends links (strictly as a hope this helps kind of thing). I would ask him if he would want to watch it together and see what he does. But try to hold off on the cheating speculation.
I know its ... (read in full...)
I don't know how this works...do couples tend to buy more expensive gifts for their partner through the years and discuss the price range??
Q. I just received the Christmas gift box my bf who I'm in an open relationship with sent from the US, I'm in the UK and he moved from the UK to Asia for a job. I'm from a culture in which we don't celebrate Christmas so this is the first Christmas ...
A. 31 December 2010: Yes and No. I would like to say its not about price, but sometimes it can be about price. For example, I purchased the $400.00 IPOD for my boyfriend. And he got me the shuffle ($50) the problem was I took on an extra job to get enough money to pay ... (read in full...)
Will the hurt ever go away, or should I cut my losses and apply for a divorce and let 10 years of marriage go down the drain?
Q. My husband had a one night stand with a "friend" of mine. I am not sure that I can forgive or forget it. I have tried and we have done the counsleing deal, but I have so much anger inside of me, because I feel as if he has brought this into our ...
A. 31 December 2010: I am so sorry. I have been cheated on from just a boyfriend of five years. In my experience...it never happens just one time. Criminals who get busted for something (its never the first time they have committed a crime, it may have been elevated but ... (read in full...)
Do men who cheat love the women they are cheating on?
Q. A Gf of mine and i were having a debate about this question: Do men who cheat(whether they are married or not)do they love the women that they are either married to or live with? I told her that how in the world could any man say that they love...
A. 31 December 2010: Good question. I was with my ex for almost 5 years and he would tell me he loved me, but I found out he was cheating for 4 1/2 months. He was sobbing when I told him to stay out of my life. He just kept saying he loved me and didn't want to lose me. ... (read in full...)
How long should you date before marriage?
Q. How long does anybody think they shoould be in a relationship before they ask to marry them? x...
A. 31 December 2010: Every relationship is different but I think anything after 9 months and before 4 years is a good period. I've known a few success stories that are the exception to that rule but they are rare. Good Luck! Keep us updated. ... (read in full...)
What are some good country love songs?
Q. Does anyone know any good country love songs? Not Willie Nelson old country but Brad Paisley, Keith Urban kind. I already know the love songs by those two. Thanks all!...
A. 30 December 2010: These may be a little older but Colin Raye's "Love Me" and George Straight's "Cross my Heart" alway a couple favs!... (read in full...)
I may be in love with my stepdaughter...
Q. I married my ex wife with her having a 8 month old daughter.I stayed married to her mother untill she was 13.than me and her mom got a divorce and me and my stepdaughter built a incredible relationship up to that point.(know by incredible I mean ...
A. 24 December 2010: I don't think this would be a healthy relationship for the either of you. I say that with all respect. It may not matter that you love her but people's perceptions are going to be one of shock (think of Woody Allen and his adopted daughter) its a ... (read in full...)
Am I underweight?
Q. Hi. I know this is not a medical site, but I'd just like some opinions from regular people. I'm a 24 year old female. I am 5 foot 6 and weigh 8 stones. Is this underweight? If so, is it very bad? Thank you....
A. 11 December 2010: I hope you didn't think I was being mean. I just didn't know what a stone was? I think it really just depends on your frame and build. However, I do think the BMI is not such an accurate measurement. According to the BMI...Brad Pitt is overweight. ... (read in full...)
Should I have a relationship with my cousin?
Q. Hey, Hello my name is Salah i made this account to let loose a sercet i have keept from my famliy or 3 months... Ive had sex with my cousin. It's werid i mean now i look back to it i seems ook i mean i have feeling for her she dose to but i ...
A. 11 December 2010: I don't know where to start....this is wrong. I say that as clear as I can because I don't want you to be confused about this message. You are still very young and impressionable. But there are going to be situations and these situations are going ... (read in full...)
Is it a turnoff to look older than you really are?
Q. I was out the other night with a group of friends, we went to a restaurant to eat. Our waitress looked about my age and was fairly attractive, and I made a comment to my friends saying as much. My friend's girlfriend looked at me funny and made a ...
A. 11 December 2010: If its just your hair, then go get just for men (super easy, 5 minutes, comb it in and you will still have a few gray hairs, but will give you more confidence). I like silver foxes, however I think on first impressions when I was younger I would ... (read in full...)
I've never even owned a fish, how are we going to compromise on owning a dog?
Q. Me and my boyfriend are planning on moving in together soon. We have always been opposites when it comes to pretty much everything. But now we are having a problem. We cant decide on what type of dog to get. He has ALWAYS wanted a German Shepard. ...
A. 11 December 2010: I have always had dogs growing up and even though I am super comfortable with dogs,maybe wait till you get adjusted to your new place. Do you have a yard? Are you going to walk them every day? I will say I have had friends have american bull dogs ... (read in full...)
My friends say "he was always going to leave"
Q. Ok so short story long... My ex of 5 years left me for his mistress, but when I ask for counseling from my friends all the guys say the same thing....they all say (along the lines of) he was always going to leave. But up until the day I caught him ...
A. 9 December 2010: @ Metalhead Mom no particular reason. Except I keep replaying things in my mind. If I could have seen it before it happened We never really fought, we would disagree, we would tease one another, always said I love you. So when people ask what ... (read in full...)
She untagged our romantic Facebook pictures?
Q. I really like this girl who lives the same floor as me in our University accommodation. We went to a club on Monday and i bumped into her. She was with two of her friends away from the dance floor and looked bit upset. I went over and she hugged ...
A. 8 December 2010: Well that could be as simple as she doesn't want other people to see romantic pictures of her, she may think it was a bad angle...us girls are really picky! I don't let people take photos of me at all! I am just super picky. She maybe friends with ... (read in full...)
Does he still love his ex wife?
Q. I am in a muddle. I am an Australian girl just 25. I have been in a relationship with an older man for four years now, he is 42. I am worried he still loves his ex wife. He gives me every reason to be suspicious. he never talks to her infront of me, ...
A. 8 December 2010: I am sorry you are going through this. I went through something similar (not with the ex and children part) but my boyfriend of 4 1/2 years lost his house and I wanted to get married and have him move in with me and he said let him get through the ... (read in full...)
Does he still love his ex wife?
Q. I am in a muddle. I am an Australian girl just 25. I have been in a relationship with an older man for four years now, he is 42. I am worried he still loves his ex wife. He gives me every reason to be suspicious. he never talks to her infront of me, ...
A. 8 December 2010: I am sorry you are going through this. I went through something similar (not with the ex and children part) but my boyfriend of 4 1/2 years lost his house and I wanted to get married and have him move in with me and he said let him get through the ... (read in full...)
Can my boyfriend's laziness be cured?
Q. I'm just going to jump into this because I hate long intros. My boyfriend of 2 years constantly forgets to pick up after himself. He leaves clothes all over the floor, trash everywhere, always forgets to do the few chores I've put him in charge of, ...
A. 6 December 2010: I am with pretty much everyone else. This problem has been going on a while and you probably feel more like his mother rather than a partner. Having said that, I would just make sure he isn't in some sort of depression or overwhelmed, I went through ... (read in full...)
My friends say "he was always going to leave"
Q. Ok so short story long... My ex of 5 years left me for his mistress, but when I ask for counseling from my friends all the guys say the same thing....they all say (along the lines of) he was always going to leave. But up until the day I caught him ...
A. 5 December 2010: Do you think at all it could have been situational. He had lost his house in foreclosure and was miserable in his job so he asked for a transfer and when it came through, he needed a place to stay (no credit to get a new place, job was only for a ... (read in full...)
My friends say "he was always going to leave"
Q. Ok so short story long... My ex of 5 years left me for his mistress, but when I ask for counseling from my friends all the guys say the same thing....they all say (along the lines of) he was always going to leave. But up until the day I caught him ...
A. 5 December 2010: Thanks for all the feed back. I will say that my family had met him but all my guy friends that have said that I met afterwards (so they never saw us together) or it was male friends from college or high school. It just struck me as really weird ... (read in full...)
Engagement ring for Christmas..good or bad idea?
Q. So I am considering giving my lady an engagement ring for christmas, is this a good or a bad idea. I am sure she will say yes, but didn't know if this was an acceptable gift or not. If I do, I will wrap the ring box, and inside the box put a li...
A. 30 November 2010: Always good! Maybe get some socks to throw her off...but she will love it! ... (read in full...)
My fiance and I have been fighting since day 1!
Q. i have been with my fiance for 2 years. we have been fighting for our relationship from the start. our parents dont approve because of religious differences and my friends thought it was a rebelion against my parents. 3 months into our relationship ...
A. 30 November 2010: I don't think you're going to like the answer. No. You need to get out of this. I will say this, I have been in relationships my parents don't approve of my boyfriend but never again. If anything perhaps push things back a little. But both of you ... (read in full...)
24 reasons of why I should break up with him?
Q. Ok so I've listed the things my ex has done during our 6 month relationship. What would others say/do in response to this kind of behaviour? 1. Leaving me outside in the cold waiting for him while he continued to drink with mates and ignore me...
A. 30 November 2010: Okay they are crappy things to do to anyone. He obviously has other priorities other than you (which is wrong). But stop making lists. Especially lists this long. Allow for one thing a month. But this is way too much time and effort for you to be ... (read in full...)
How am I supposed to act when I've traveled 1,200 miles just to get rejected?
Q. Well I met this girl on facebook and we started chatting casually. We were truely interested in each other. We talked and texted on the phone with alot of pictures for a couple months and so I decided to make the trip over this thanksgiving holiday ...
A. 30 November 2010: How old is she? Perhaps she is just spooked a bit. I understand that has to hurt, but ask her that question. See what she says. It makes me sad when there are nice men like you making an effort. In all my cases its on the other foot, so just know ... (read in full...)
Why won't he add me on Facebook??
Q. hey there's this senior at school, i kinda like him and i added him on facebook but it's been like a month and he still hasn't added me or even rejected the request i added him again and still nothing...i know i sound pretty pathetic, he adds people ...
A. 16 November 2010: You know it could just be an age thing but especially if you thought you were friends, he may not understand the friends or just go up to him and tease him a bit...."Yeah I see how you work, afraid guys will take me as a friend. And its just easy ... (read in full...)
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