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Need help with the same old situation!

Q.   Okay heres the deal, my problem is the typical I love her she sees me as a friend you know but I have been in this situation many times now, but I feel more strongly for this certain girl than any other. I have known her for roughly 2-3 years and I ...

A.   7 December 2008: i think you should tell her how you feel. if she is a true friend she will understand, and maybe feel the same way, good luck ... (read in full...)

Will there be any penalties for my boyfriend? I'm 16, and pregnant.

Q.   I am 16 and my boyfriend is 18, I am pregnant with his baby. Will and I been dating since i was 14 and since he was 16. Him and I have been having sex since I was 15 and he was 17, my parents had no idea. On this week Tuesday my boyfriend and I we...

A.   6 December 2008: well depending on what state you live in its different. like in texas it cant be more than a 3 year difference with a minor, so here you would be safe. second if he is still in high school then you also should be okay. and technically it wasnt rape ... (read in full...)

Her dad says I can't see her again. What can I do?

Q.   Help please and thank you. OK so, normally i answer things and an pretty well minded about relationships. But i just entered a situation that even i cant figure out. please help me. OK, so i went to my girlfriends house tonight, and I'm no...

A.   6 December 2008: okay my father is the same way, so i think i can help. first of all if she feels the same way she will keep seeing you. She also would talk to her father about what really happend. what you can do is be a man and go up to him and have a man to man ... (read in full...)

After a 15 month relationship, should I , I'm 18, marry my boyfriend, or wait?

Q.   i am 18 years old and my question is should i marry my boyfriend, he is also 18 and we have been dating for a year and three months. i know i am young , but i want to know if the aunts from dear cupid think i should wait alittle longer...

A.   1 December 2008: if yall love eachother, and want to spend the rest of your life together. then waiting a couple of years wont hurt. i would go with wait! good luck... (read in full...)

I don't want to do certain things, how do I get him to understand?

Q.   my boyfriend wants to do more than kissing, not sex but other things .. we did it once before but ever since we haven't because of me, he thinks that i dont like him that much because we dont do stuff but its not that im just dont want to he doesnt ...

A.   1 December 2008: if you dont want to do it, then you dont have to. just talk to him. tell him you do like it, but you are just not comfortable doing more right now.... (read in full...)

How to kill 2 birds with one stone - birthday/christmas pressie!

Q.   Okay, so me and my boyfriend have been going out for 3 weeks and I know its not that long, but his birthday is in 2 weeks which is really close to christmas. So I was going to get him a birthday/christmas present... but I really don't know what to ...

A.   29 November 2008: a good present i lv to give is like a jacket. specificly to places like american eagle, etc. they are good priced, which shows you care, adn everytime you see him wearing it it makes you feel special.... (read in full...)

Miscarriage???

Q.   I am 15 years old and have been dating my boyfriend for over 10 months. we haven't been having sex long but I think I'm pregnant even though we used a condom but it broke. I truly do love my boyfriend with all that I have and I really want to marry...

A.   29 November 2008: does your boyfriend know what you are planning to do? thats very important... (read in full...)

Will it cause too much trouble if I start dating my best friend?

Q.   Okay i have this best friend. the whole i tell him everything and he tells me everything. He can make me laugh forever. over the thanksgiving holiday we talked on the phone forever. 7 hours in two days!!! and at school we meet up between every ...

A.   28 November 2008: thank youu!!! i know i have to make a very hard choice. i just dont know what i am going to do. for now i am going to just keep it at friendship. thanks... (read in full...)

I like this guy but I'm really shy... how do I tell him how I feel?

Q.   I just need a few tips on how to go about this. There's this guy at my college who I like quite a lot, he's in one of my classes, and I've liked him for a few months now. we don't really talk or anything, we just sometimes say hi to each other like ...

A.   28 November 2008: as this other girl says. just start making eye contact, and if something happens in the class yall share. catch him after class by talking about it. good luck... (read in full...)

Why do girls act this way????

Q.   okej hello all, I came just to ask about some activity that girls do and I want to understand why and what is it for. Well when you ignore a girl she will smile and look too much and sometimes come after you but when you give her just little a ...

A.   28 November 2008: from a girls point of view this is a good thing, it means that she likes ya. lol we are very complex humans, and we like it like that:) good luck... (read in full...)

Will a woman go after the "working" man who's best for her - even if he's off-limits?

Q.   Good evening! I've a silly question really. I'd like to know from the lovely ladies out there who frequent this web-site whether you can genuinely be selective about who you decide to date in a working environment. In other words, if a guy was 'off ...

A.   28 November 2008: well as far as i can tell most weman do not go after taken men at all. unless she has no morals. if you are taken please be loyal, or end the relationship... (read in full...)

Confusing eye contact question.

Q.   Hiya! There's this girl I like at school. I caught her looking at me the other day. When I looked at her, she quickly looked away. She has done this a few times now. I don't know how to interpret this. Does she think that I'm checking her out and ...

A.   28 November 2008: oh it is very obvious she is attracted to you. she is just shy. if you feel the same way go for it. good luck... (read in full...)

He is so good-looking it makes me feel like a troll. Can he possibly like me back?

Q.   There's this guy I like who's a friend of a friend, but he's too attractive. We get on really well and make each other laugh, but he is really really good-looking and although a fair few guys tell me I'm attractive, this guy is SO attractive that ...

A.   28 November 2008: first things first you need to figure out how you feel about his cousin. if you dont have any feelings for him, you should get out of the relationship. its only fair to the both of you. second you should just ask this guy how he feels about you. im ... (read in full...)

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