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I had also seen so many break ups and reconciliations.
I am new to this site but it is a good way to spend time.
And I hope I can help you with your problems.
Please always remember that my answers or responds to your questions are just my mere opinions on the way how I see things on your questions.
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Feeling like killing yourself? Here's some help.
Don't Kill Yourself
Seek help if you are possibly contemplating suicide as it is not the answer to anything. It only causes grief.
You can call people for assistance.
* In the US you can call 1-800-784-2433 (toll-free)
* In the UK you can call 08457 90 90 90
* In Ireland you can call 1850 60 90 90
* In Australia you can call Lifeline on 13 11 14 (local call)
* In Australia you can call Kids Help Line on 1800 55 1800 (toll-free)
Worldwide
I urge you to call one of the Suicide helplines. The following site has numbers in the United States and worldwide:
* http://psychcentral.com/helpme.htm
and this site lets you find a phone number in your own country:
* http://www.befrienders.org/support/helplines.asp
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Suicide is illegal in many countries (Wikianswers cannot facilitate the commission of any crime) and besides we care about you and want you to live.
Please talk to a counselor about your problems, nothing is bad enough to take your own life over.
If your life is at a place where suicide seems better than going on, think about some very important things. Life can turn from horrible to wonderful in a very short period of time. Your life, whether you know it today or not, has a positive impact on someone. It might be your family, your friends, your co-workers, your neighbors...someone knows you in a way that you can't see. Suicide is permanent... there's no turning back. The deep feelings you have today will be different tomorrow; regardless of how down you feel, you'll have something tomorrow that can, if you let it, make you feel better. Our problems are often so great, so real and feel so devastating that leaving life behind seems like the only answer. But it's not an answer. It leaves many, many questions for anyone we leave. It gives your name a legacy of not being able to cope, of not seeing the good in anyone around you. I'm sure this isn't what you want for your name. Please sleep. Please cry hard, if you must, and talk to someone who loves you. But please, also, put the idea of making a permanent end to what could be temporary problems out of your head. Even though I don't know you, I care about you. Every life has purpose. Every single life. Please try to find yours before thinking about killing yourself.
No matter how bad it is right now, it can only get better- when you are down try doing something nice for someone else. It sounds a little lame but it works, scientifically it's called a helper's high. It gets your mind off depressing things and helps you add value to society and confidence for yourself.
Try planting a tree, writing a card to your friend/family member, volunteer a day at the Boys' and Girls' Club or even answer some questions on WikiAnswers! Feel better and harness your Awesomeness!
If you are asking a legitimate question because you are planning to kill yourself, call 911 in the USA, or 999 in the UK, or the emergency number for the country you are in, right now, and tell them that.
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