Is he really serious about a future together?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for four years, I'm 24 and he's 26. A couple of years ago I told him I'd like for us to live together, but he said he wasn't ready yet and he'd reconsider the following year. That came and went, and there was no ...
A. 25 June 2012: Thanks for your responses, they have given me food for thought. I can see perhaps that this may be a bit of a waiting game whatever I suppose the outcome to be. In the mean time I think I'll try and hold back a little bit as BondGirl suggests, it's ... (read in full...)
Will he ever change or should I just give up?
Q. my partner of 2.5 years and I booked a holiday recently, I previously took him away and paid for everything, he is non working and his mum always gives him money as he lies constantly to her to get her to feel sorry and give him funds. he is 40 and ...
A. 11 April 2012: No I'm sorry I don't think that will ever change. It sounds as the he is unable to be responsible for himself, let alone look after you and your son. What you describe is a man who has a fundamental lack of respect for the wishes, needs, feelings ... (read in full...)
Is it bad to tell a white lie to avoid fighting?
Q. I hate DRAMA!!! I would always fight with my ex because we always wanted to be right!!! so eventually I smartened up and realized it really doesnt matter and gave in to an argument to not fight. Im currently dating a girl and doing the same thing. I ...
A. 11 April 2012: My boyfriend does this to me (also carried the habit over from a previous relationship) and I can tell you it's not a nice thing to be on the wrong end of. We've been together 3 years now and throughout that time a whole bunch of his lies and cover ... (read in full...)
B/f says he wants to marry me but talks about this girl every day
Q. My fiancé and I have been together for a little over a year. We have come to our "plateau" in our relationship. But he will not communicate with me at all. He thinks I do everything wrong and he does everything right. I want to just sit and have a ...
A. 5 February 2012: I was in very much the same situation with my ex, and I didn't consider leaving him either until her blonde hairs started showing up in our bed. Needless to say, they'd been a little more than friends for some time.
That said, I don't think yo... (read in full...)
My Gf gets depressed and implies I'm holding her back. What can I do?
Q. Okay, so here goes. I've been with my girlfriend for over two-years now. We had a bit of a rocky start, and we've taken a 3-month break from each other before. But that was a long time ago. For the last year or more, things have been great. We g...
A. 5 February 2012: Awh man, that sounds like a very painful situation for you to be in.
I think your girlfriend's behaviour could be down to one of a few things;
-She is seriously wishes to end the relationship, and she is conflicted so when she tries to do just... (read in full...)
Does persistence become annoying?
Q. Simply put.. when does persistence become annoying? i had class with this girl and on the last day gave her my number but nothing came of it. We talked the other day and I mentioned that she never texted me. She laughed and such but still no text. ...
A. 5 February 2012: I would say it probably is time to give up, like honeypie said you've dropped plenty of hints and she would've taken the initiative to get in touch by now if she was interested. Something to bear in mind in future, though.. rather than giving a gi... (read in full...)
My former long distance boyfriend texted me after telling me he wanted nothing more to do with me
Q. So confused. I posted a question yesterday- please take the time to look. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-do-i-get-my-ldr-boyfriend-back.html He text back yesterday and said we had been on a years trial and to forget it. We tried and ...
A. 31 January 2012: I think confused is right.
If he wanted to get back with you he'd have time to talk with you tonight.
It all kinda smacks of a guilty conscience.
Sorry hun. :/... (read in full...)
Any suggestions on how to whiten badly discoloured teeth?
Q. I hate my smile. I dont naturally smile with my teeth anyway, but if I laugh you can see them. My face looks horrible when I smile/laugh but looks fine when I haven't got any expression. My teeth are horrible, they are yellow and discoloured, my ...
A. 31 January 2012: It's definitely not advisable to use teeth bleaching products if the enamel is damaged - this is because the solution will penetrate into and cause harm to the inner structures of the tooth. It will also deepen any existing cavities in the teeth. ... (read in full...)
Clueless man or just not in love?
Q. I have been reading dear cupid for a while now and you guys give some brilliant advice, so I'm hoping you can help me gain some insight on my own situation. I apologise if this is a bit of an essay, I'm trying not to leave anything important out. ...
A. 17 December 2011: Thank you for all of your insights and advice, it has really helped me to gain perspective on my situation. It has also helped me to realise I need to trust my instincts and begin to really assert my judgements. As so often is the case, the si... (read in full...)
Is it his ego that makes him treat me this way?
Q. There is this guy, we're not together because he said he doesnt want me in that way. But I think I love him so I allow myself to be used in the bedroom by him. Sometimes I hate him, and then when we just talk all day, or we just talk when he is with ...
A. 14 December 2011: At the risk of massively over-generalising, men can be territorial creatures and can often be prone to jealousy around sexual relationships whether they feel romantically tied to that person or not. For your own sake, I'd not read too much in... (read in full...)
Should I accept the Proposal? But I don't trust him!
Q. Hey, I need some advice on whether I should listen to my head or my heart regarding my bf's marriage proposal. We've been together 17 months, and he's asked me to marry him. My initial reaction was to be very very happy... but I'm starting to give ...
A. 14 December 2011: I think you should go with your head and not marry this man - at least not yet.
Your boyfriend has done a lot to damage your trust and has been wreckless with your heart. Past behaviour is the best predictor of future behaviour, but of course p... (read in full...)
I feel as though I'm not good enough for him, should I try changing?
Q. I've not felt like this for a while but I'm starting to think I'm not good enough. My boyfriend reassures me that I am however there's something in the back of my mind that's screaming 'you're not his type'. Do people really have a type? and if so ...
A. 13 June 2011: It's a cliche - but in order to feel loved you really do have to love yourself first! Just the way you are. I understand that if you feel insecure it can be difficult to see the good things about yourself, but trust me there are many! Perhaps you ... (read in full...)
He is confusing me and being secretive. Do you think he truly cares for me?
Q. Recently I have had cause to examine my relationship with my boyfriend, and I am left wondering if he truly cares about me. We are both in our mid twenties and have been together for almost two years. Though he is fairly secretive and the type to ...
A. 13 June 2011: Hi all and thank you for your input - it's really helped me to see things more clearly.
I have spent some time thinking about how I conduct myself in the relationship, naturally I wonder if I am too demanding since I have been told by my boyfrien... (read in full...)
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