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Why do I have such a high libido?

Q.   it took my boyfriend 5days to try anyhing sexual with me...Anyway, i've never been extreemly horny in my life, after 5days of Vincent no trying anything i went nuts, yeah we had sex but he leaves me wanting more! i dont understand, Why am i like ...

A.   3 September 2008: Okay well all you can do is tell him this... It's normal for a woman to bleed during sex, especially if it's rough a bit. It depends on her cervix and it's size. Foreplay can help alleviate this as the lubrication can make a difference if the f... (read in full...)

Why do I have such a high libido?

Q.   it took my boyfriend 5days to try anyhing sexual with me...Anyway, i've never been extreemly horny in my life, after 5days of Vincent no trying anything i went nuts, yeah we had sex but he leaves me wanting more! i dont understand, Why am i like ...

A.   29 August 2008: Well masturbation always works. It might even lift him up a bit so to speak. Men fantasize and love to watch their partner masturbate (for the most part) See if that sparks his imagination and fixes his lack of libido as yours is strong and in ... (read in full...)

How can I find senior women and make them attracted to me?

Q.   I'm 19 I am attracted almost exclusively to older women. And by older, I mean at least 55 and up. But I'm scared to talk to them cause why would they want to date someone younger? How can I find senior women and make them attracted to me?...

A.   27 August 2008: You can't. You also shouldn't. You are young and you do not have the maturity to be in a relationship with a woman who is 55 years old. Even if you make a woman feel good by being yourself and friendly, there will always be obstacles in the way ... (read in full...)

Think I'm in love with my best friend... and I heard him saying he doesn't want to be single anymore. What can I do?

Q.   I have known a boy since the first day of high school and he is now pretty much my best friend. For a long time during high school I had a huge crush on him but never really did anything about it. We weren't so close back then but now we are - I ...

A.   27 August 2008: Boy this is hard. I'm in my 30's and can remember what it was like to be younger, care for someone and fearful of it not working out. Think... if I knew then what I know now... Just tell him how you feel and be prepared for any answer you g... (read in full...)

The differences between us are causing doubts to creep into my mind and poison my feelings about this relationship. Any advice?

Q.   Hello there, I've been dating a great man for 2 years now but as my other friends are getting married (and I have no intention of doing so anytime soon) I wonder if my guy proposed what would I say...And it would probably be no, and I'd be off r...

A.   27 August 2008: Best advice. Talk to him about how you feel. I mean really talk to him just like you did when explaining your feelings while asking your question. You know as women we worry so much about men think (especially those we are in relation... (read in full...)

I went off my medication and now I can't orgasm. Has this ever happened to anyone?

Q.   I was on paxil CR 12.5 mg for 4 days before I stopped taking them. I was on it for mild anxiety. My boyfriend and I have been together over 4 years. I had no problems having an orgasm every time we had sex (with the exception of those 1 -5 time...

A.   27 August 2008: Yes and it's normal. I take Celexa for depression and anxiety. When I go off it it takes forever to reach sexual satisfaction. What my husband I do is usually (because he knows) it's my pills. We spend more time with foreplay. After a month or ... (read in full...)

My online friend cut contact with me, then I got a message from her boyfriend calling me a stalker, what now?

Q.   I've felt alone my whole life. I'm shy. I never had very many friends. I was bullied constantly in school every year. After a while, I started to feel like I was worthless and wondered if there was really such a thing as true happiness. Then, from...

A.   27 August 2008: I wanted to ad that if you want to try something to make yourself feel better and perhaps give you some sort of closure. Write her a letter. Don't mail it. Just write to her all the things you feel and what happened. Sometimes writing things out ... (read in full...)

My online friend cut contact with me, then I got a message from her boyfriend calling me a stalker, what now?

Q.   I've felt alone my whole life. I'm shy. I never had very many friends. I was bullied constantly in school every year. After a while, I started to feel like I was worthless and wondered if there was really such a thing as true happiness. Then, from...

A.   27 August 2008: I agree with DrPsych. But I can also understand how difficult it is to let it go when it was her boyfriend telling you to back off and not her. However that being said. You are young and need to understand that although friendships are good and ... (read in full...)

Why do I have such a high libido?

Q.   it took my boyfriend 5days to try anyhing sexual with me...Anyway, i've never been extreemly horny in my life, after 5days of Vincent no trying anything i went nuts, yeah we had sex but he leaves me wanting more! i dont understand, Why am i like ...

A.   27 August 2008: Ahhh to be 18 again! I remember when I was 18 and I first started having sex. After, and we did it a lot. I was ready to go again. I use to think I was like a sex maniac. No lie. But as I got older I realized changes in the libido o... (read in full...)

I accused my boyfriend unjustly and he has forgiven me, but his mother has not. Should I stay with him after this?

Q.   I have to be the most stupidest person in the world, well not stupid gulible. I accused my bf of kissing a member of his family (well his cousin to be exact) cause someone told me and I believed it so when I accused him it came out as if it was ...

A.   27 August 2008: Okay first off it's good that you can admit you made a mistake. Very good. It's also good he's forgiven you. A few good steps in dealing with relationships and communication is honesty and forgiveness. As for his mother. Forgive her for feel... (read in full...)

10 years later, I think of my FWB and wonder why we couldn't have a full relationship...

Q.   I was seeing a woman for four years and we were living together. She did not want to be in a relationship but we were very good friends and were having sex. We would go on holidays together, shop together, etc but she did not want a steady ...

A.   27 August 2008: Tell your girlfriend. I know scary thought right. You don't have to divulge all the details, but you can tell her about your past, how you felt, and how bad it felt knowing the relationship ended leaving you with all these feelings which is why ... (read in full...)

Tell me...why does he run off to the bathroom after a handjob?

Q.   I have been giving my boyfriend handjobs for his pleasure. I noticed that recently after I stop moving my hands. He ends up running to the bathroom? Did I do something wrong? I always ask him if I'm hurting him or not while giving a handjob, but he ...

A.   27 August 2008: Simple. Ask him. Yes he says he is okay but just tell him you are concerned with his running off, want to please him, can't if you are doing something wrong and need to know how to improve or make things better. You can never improve your ... (read in full...)

My wife had a boob job, after I said no. I am leaving her!

Q.   My wife went and had a boob job and I find it absolutely disgusting. Once she had small, pretty breasts and I loved them just the way they were. she kept asking me if she should get them "done" and I told her no, not only no but, H--L NO!!!!! I ...

A.   27 August 2008: No where in marriage vows does it state I will love you as long as you only agree with me, do what I say, don't change your image or yourself or care about you feel about yourself. You don't love your wife that is apparent. If you did you woul... (read in full...)

My wife had a boob job, after I said no. I am leaving her!

Q.   My wife went and had a boob job and I find it absolutely disgusting. Once she had small, pretty breasts and I loved them just the way they were. she kept asking me if she should get them "done" and I told her no, not only no but, H--L NO!!!!! I ...

A.   27 August 2008: No where in marriage vows does it state I will love you as long as you only agree with me, do what I say, don't change your image or yourself or care about you feel about yourself. You don't love your wife that is apparent. If you did you woul... (read in full...)

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