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writes: it took my boyfriend 5days to try anyhing sexual with me...Anyway, i've never been extreemly horny in my life, after 5days of Vincent no trying anything i went nuts, yeah we had sex but he leaves me wanting more! i dont understand, Why am i like this? I just want moe and more, im clueless help me?
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reader, abbeymom  +, writes (3 September 2008):
 Okay well all you can do is tell him this...
It's normal for a woman to bleed during sex, especially if it's rough a bit. It depends on her cervix and it's size. Foreplay can help alleviate this as the lubrication can make a difference if the friction of the penis inside the vagina doesn't have any.
With my first lover I bled almost every time we had sex for the first six months. I know odd right? Nope. And it wasn't because he was just so big or anything. I was just small (down there).
So tell Vincent you enjoy sex. You love it in fact and want more of it. But petting and touching and foreplay will help to alleviate the bleeding.
The only way to improve your sex life with one another is to talk about what you like and don't like. Only then will it get better.
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reader, abbeymom +, writes (29 August 2008):
Well masturbation always works. It might even lift him up a bit so to speak. Men fantasize and love to watch their partner masturbate (for the most part) See if that sparks his imagination and fixes his lack of libido as yours is strong and in the meantime, enjoy your body while you are at it.Sometimes spending time just petting and touching each other can fuse that lust you feel running rampant.I know with my hubby due to his brain injury he's not always in the mood, and I'm wayyyyyyy more in the mood than him. But he will just please me if he doesn't feel like intercourse.Try some body massage oil, occupy your hands, give him a massage, ask him to give you one with the oil. There are lots of things you can do to full-fill your needs. Hope this helps~ Abbeymom
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reader, abbeymom +, writes (27 August 2008):
Ahhh to be 18 again!I remember when I was 18 and I first started having sex. After, and we did it a lot. I was ready to go again. I use to think I was like a sex maniac. No lie.But as I got older I realized changes in the libido occur for different reasons. Changes in moods, periods, estrogen levels and even seeing other people kiss or hold hands etc... I think what you are feeling is normal. The anticipation of waiting for your boyfriend to touch you, try something can be a build up too.One thing I learned as a woman who is now 30 and happily married in a very healthy sexual relationship. Ask for what you want. You might always get it. You might get turned down because his mood is important as well. But ask or try something yourself. Perhaps that will ease the feelings you have if there is more intimacy between more frequently that you are normal with your sex drive.
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