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Boyfriend pressured me into having an abortion

Q.   Hi guys, please give me some advice. Iv been with my boyfriend nearly 2 years and about 6 months into our relationship I fell pregnant. I was on the pill at the time and think it must have happened due to a little tummy bug. I was head over hee...

A.   13 December 2010: Leave him. Finish the college. Those are the main things you can do now. What done is done. Look forward, not back. Learn from your mistakes. Learn how to love yourself first. And do anything you do in life for yourself. Not your boyfrien... (read in full...)

Is this what all the protective guys do?

Q.   This is the third time i've asked a question here, that just shows that my life is full of drama. The only reason i dont tell my family and friends about my problems is because they can be very judgemental so i guess i need an outsiders ...

A.   13 December 2010: Hmmm it is weird. Even if you would know him couple of years it is not normal to do that...that is not protective, it sounds more like crazy. He doesn't have the right to do that ....never. Sounds like the guy have got issues with control,... (read in full...)

Did I do something to turn him off?

Q.   I'm in Boston right now, met a cool guy. We hung out for a month, then he made a move on me and we've been close since then. I'm leaving Sunday to go back to the UK, we've hung out but he's different. Not as close, he's tired from class which I ...

A.   9 October 2010: 1. He likes you a lot and doesn't want you to leave. 2. He is just tired. One of those. I think probably 1. is the right one. Ask him and talk to him NOT playfully. Seriously. As a close friend. God luck! Let us know how the story goes. ... (read in full...)

He doesn't love me enough to leave his children

Q.   If your married lover says that he doesn't love you enough to walk out on his children,does that mean he never will?...

A.   7 October 2010: The answer is clear. He doesn't love you. I think you know this...you just don't want to accept it. Don't want to let yourself believe in that. Because then reality will hit hard. I know what I am talking about. I was with a married man for abou... (read in full...)

I don't like when the guy I have been seeing for 4 months just shows up at my door!

Q.   I am dating a guy for the last 4 months. I feel like he is already trying to mark his territory. Gave me two teddy bears with his colone sent.. three pictures of him on a frame. He left his toothbrush with his name labled. Now he is starting to ...

A.   7 October 2010: I really think that you are not that interested in a guy. I don't think that we should judge him though. We know just your part of the story. Maybe he likes her that much? Or maybe he just doesn't know how to get closer to her and is copying some ... (read in full...)

My 1st time wasn't horrible and there was no bleeding why?

Q.   Well im 16 years old nd had sex for the very first time, all my friends were already sexually active and they said there first time was very painfull nd horrible but my first time wasent painfull at all nd i taught u were suppost to bleed but i ...

A.   27 September 2010: Yeah, just don't worry about it! My first time also wasn't bad or bloody. I felt weird a bit at first because my bf who was my first would think that I was lying that I was a virgin! But he was good and knew that not every girl has those symptoms. ... (read in full...)

Possible psychic connection? Are we meant to meet one another?

Q.   Ok, so, a few weeks ago a guy started talking to me on msn asking if we knew each other. I then realsied that I had added him a few months back but deleted him as I didn't actually know the guy. However, he explained that he doesn't use msn very ...

A.   13 September 2010: I don't know anything about tarot or any other psychic things. But I can tell you my story. I got messaged by a guy on facebook. He was asking something about the group I was admin for. So is from the same country I am from. We both have same pro... (read in full...)

I have hair in places that I don't want it!

Q.   um well this is awkward but i've been getting ALOT of hair in places it shouldnt be and where it should be but theres alot of it. i use nair, veet, or i shave but it grows back the next daay. Is there anyway i can get rid of it or when i shave it or ...

A.   13 September 2010: Talk to your doctor. Maybe some male hormones are getting too active. Or something. But at your age it is normal to start having more hair in places you never thought you would have. )) Just relax about it and find a best way to take care of... (read in full...)

How can I remind myself to take my birth control pill?

Q.   What are some ways to remind your self to take your birthcontrol? so far I have an alarm on my laptop and an alarm on my phone and my Ipod dock and Ipod it's self and sometimes I STILL forget. What are some other ways incase I am not around a...

A.   12 September 2010: I have alarm on my iPhone and it is ALWAYS with me. Also, I try to take the pill at night, around 10:30-11:00 pm so mostly I am home at that time getting ready to sleep. If I go out at night I just take the pills with me and my phone starts beeping ... (read in full...)

He refuses to touch me down there but I don't want to have shame and limitations in my sex life!

Q.   Hi there, This is the first time I am asking for help with the sex problem. I would really appreciate your help guys and girls. My boyfriend and I have been together for about couple of month but we have been friends for a year before that. We a...

A.   12 September 2010: Update. He doing so much better! And I am trying not to shut him down when he wants to try. I think it is working. He didn't have a good experience with oral. He did is once and the girl smelled very strongly. He pointed that I don't have the... (read in full...)

Lost in high school, lost in life generally

Q.   I'm 14 and I really need help.I'm going through a really bad time in my life right now and I don't know what to do. Life sucks pretty much. All the stress from school and pressure i put on myself to do well in school is really getting to me. It's ...

A.   5 September 2010: Honey, I am 31 and sometimes even I feel that I am lost and don't know where to go on. But you have to get through that. Maybe you think that you can't, but most of the time we don't know our own strength. I would start by calming down about the ... (read in full...)

Too wet! How do I make it not that wet?

Q.   My vagina gets really wet, even when i think about sex. My 2 ex's have pointed it out, and frankly its embarrassing. I know its normal, but its really embarrassing. Is there anything i can do to not make it that wet? Thanks for your comments! ...

A.   1 September 2010: Honey it's a great thing that you are wet! I am too and I understand the embarrassment...I had it when I was your age. But since then...my bf's thought me to be proud of it. As Melltoo101 said you are lucky that you have your natural lube. That... (read in full...)

I still love my husband but he went back to his ex. Will he come back?

Q.   I separated with my husband of 3 years while I was 5 mnths pregnant. We had problems before but it was just minor problems tht we managed to sort out. The reason we broke up was tht he suspected infidelity though he did not have concrete proof about ...

A.   1 September 2010: Lady...have some dignity for crying out loud! He made up (I guess) that you cheated and left while you were 5 month pregnant with HIS baby?!!! Honey...he doesn't want you. Sometimes people are confused with what they really want and they ke... (read in full...)

Did she lie to boost my ego?

Q.   So I told my wife the other night that she's the best lover I have ever had. She smilied, waited a bit and then said, "me too baby." I don't know what the pause entailed though. Just taking in the moment or deciding whether or not to tell me a ...

A.   30 August 2010: You are watching too much porn. A lot of it is fake for crying out loud. Totally agree with CaringGuy. Couldn't say it better. Just stop asking those questions and enjoy your lady. ... (read in full...)

He refuses to touch me down there but I don't want to have shame and limitations in my sex life!

Q.   Hi there, This is the first time I am asking for help with the sex problem. I would really appreciate your help guys and girls. My boyfriend and I have been together for about couple of month but we have been friends for a year before that. We a...

A.   30 August 2010: The author of the question is here. ) Thank you guys a lot!!! I am taking into close consideration everything you guys advised me. Simply because I didn't know where to start. I am very comfortable and happy with him. He is trying to make m... (read in full...)

I ain't playing games with her. I want answers from her!

Q.   Hey, I'm 27 and have a 20 year old gal who it appears that only I refer to 'girlfriend', I never actually heard her saying in front of other people that I'm her boyfriend and we've been dating for like 5 months, and she's Danish. We really clicked, ...

A.   30 August 2010: I am so sorry it is happening to you. But it sounds like it wasn't THE relationship for her. I am sure you could be friends and she felt good with you...but sounds like she is in love with someone else. I don't think you can call it cheating thou... (read in full...)

What's it like losing your virginity?

Q.   so im talking to this guy about having sex with him so i can have a first time. i really like him but i dont think he feels the same way.. he is only 2 years older than me. should i have sex with him? he is in college and im a junior. and how bad ...

A.   30 August 2010: Yeah I agree with other girls about not losing your viginity just to lose it. Make it special girl! If you are not interested in him a lot, if he is not madly in love with you...don't waste a very important moment of your life with a random guy. ... (read in full...)

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