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Can stress cause these health problems I'm experiencing?

Q.   I feel as if my life is going wrong in all different aspects at the same time and I think it's starting to affect my health now as well. It's causing me stress where Im working, thats why Im looking for another job but Ive also got lack of money. ...

A.   18 April 2008: Hey, Stress can have dramatic effects on the body. Long term stress can cause things like: * Chronic head ache * Mood swings * Anxiety disorder * Substance abuse * Memory disturbances * Heart attack due increased blood pressure, sugar ... (read in full...)

We are both Christians, and she is serious about no sex before marriage, do I confess my past mistakes?

Q.   Ok, background on me and my girlfriend, I'm 20, she's 23, we are both down to earth Christians and have been dating for 6 months now, which isn't long but its going brilliantly! She is big on the whole sex before marriage, and am to, BUT...About 3 ...

A.   18 April 2008: Thanks for your helps people! I am resolved to tell her, but after the trip I think. She deserves to enjoy it and we'll have a stronger relationship and handle it better. Thanks again everyone! Oh and full marks for this man! haha, a funny tr... (read in full...)

Please help me get my relationship back!

Q.   Hi I really need some help. I have been in a relationship for about 1 and a half years. For the past week everything just seemed to be going downhill. I feel frustrated and we are just constantly fighting.I can remember the last time that we hel...

A.   17 April 2008: Hey, It doesn't have to be the end of the road if you don't want it to be! I went through a phase with my girlfriend where we couldn't even hang out for 10mins without having an argument. Nearly everytime though, it was when we were both stress... (read in full...)

I don't think my girlfriend is comfortable with my new facial scars!

Q.   Hey, I'm just a bit unsure of what to do here. Bit of background, I've been in the army for 3 years now, I went on overseas deployment and ended up getting wounded and coming home early. I now have some bad scaring on my face. I know it doesn't ...

A.   17 April 2008: Thank you all so much for your opinions and advice! I appreciate it more then I can say. Take it easy :)... (read in full...)

How do I stop him from walkin away from me or stop hurting him?

Q.   I've Met An amazing Guy And I know he would do absolutly anything for me! Hes In The Year above me in school but we dont go to the same school. We have been on and off since january and eveytime we get together i end up finishing him because im ...

A.   16 April 2008: Hey, Good guys are hard to find, and you've clearly found one. He keeps coming back to you, so he obviously likes you a lot! He wont pressure you for sex (which is very rare), so that means he cares HEAPS for your feelings. Best advice I... (read in full...)

Why do men have such problems with my past sex life?

Q.   Why do men i date find my one night stands in the past distasteful?...

A.   16 April 2008: Some guys can be very dumb and territorial when it comes to those sort of things. I know a few guys like this, they don't like the idea that their partner has been with other men. Call it greed or jealousy, but either way its often hypocritical and ... (read in full...)

My husband keeps asking me why my body doesn't look like the women in porn!

Q.   My husband keeps asking me why my body doesnt look like the women in porn...I tried explaining to him that after a few kids things change...Im not at all overweight but womens bodies do change in ways that cant be helped after babies like stretch ...

A.   16 April 2008: I don't know what on earth he is thinking to be honest. He sounds like he needs to wake up to himself. Your absolutely right, you have brought his children into the world, which is arguably the most beautiful thing and amazing thing. He shouldn'... (read in full...)

I can understand that he's not attracted to me/interested in me, but at the very least I'd have thought we were friends?

Q.   I truly need advice. I am at my wits end. I have lived with flatmates for 8 months, and resolved to move out, as I have fallen for one of the guys. In the beginning I thought it was reciprocal but it wasn't. And yet, he still confuses me. He'll ...

A.   16 April 2008: Hey, I would say he likes you, and the fact that your moving out has upset him and so that was his way of dealing with it. Yeah boys are dumb and we sometimes deal with things in stupid ways. If he wasn't attracted to you or interested in you, he ... (read in full...)

Threesome or no threesome ???

Q.   Hi all...just after a little advice....well my GF of a year has hinted that she wants a threesome, FFM, we have discussed quite a lot, whilst I am happyish to go along I have a couple of quesions you guys n gals may be able to answer for me. 1. I...

A.   15 April 2008: hey mate, This one is a bit out of my ball game, although I have been in a similar situation with two friends. My opinion, if its a good strong relationship, its not worth the risk. A relationship really is a two person thing, and I can't see ... (read in full...)

How am I going to be happy again?

Q.   I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years a little over 6 weeks ago because we had been drifting apart and I had communicated to him what was happening. In the last six months of our relationship I told him that I was unhappy and I had been hearing ...

A.   15 April 2008: Hey, That sounds tough, believe me when I say I know how bad it hurts. The pain doesn't go forever though, it will fade away into nothing! I promise you. It sounds like things with this guy weren't working, and you were right to break it off.... (read in full...)

I've lost all confidence after my girlfriend laughed at my penis size!

Q.   ok, i have a very big problem, im not going to lie, im a overweight, but my girl friend did not really care, she liked me for who i am(yay!!) we were going out for 6 weeks and we hadn't had sex yet because i have a 4.5 in penis, i would pleasure h...

A.   15 April 2008: Dude, some people are just scum of the earth, and someone who would abuse someone's trust/feelings/etc like that isn't worth the dirt under your feet. I may sound hash but its true mate. This girl obviously has no idea about life, love and how the ... (read in full...)

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