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My Ex's Words are killing me

Q.   My Ex-girlfriend said that I'm not good enough to have new girlfriend and after she started telling me how many guys asking her out after she broke up with me. She said that she can have any boyfriends anytime she wants. Why did she tell me how cool ...

A.   12 April 2009: Your ex sounds like she is just very insecure, and is probably just saying those things to make herself feel better. Honestly she can't think you are all that bad if she was dating you, and if you can't get a new girlfriend then why would she have ... (read in full...)

What kind of friendship is this I'm having with this guy?

Q.   I have a friend (guy) who after meeting him in person in a meeting, we've been in touch since for 2 years. We email each other, well mostly me. He's military so his time is a bit compromise. Even deployed we emailed. He's stationed in Va. and I'm in ...

A.   11 April 2009: He likes you. Guys never just want to be friends. Believe me I always try to be friends with boys and it never works out. If he wasn't into you he wouldn't waste his time emailing you just to be nice. ... (read in full...)

He left me and went back to his ex

Q.   my boyfriend and i have been together for 3yearsi paid for his car and help him financially and his exgirlfriend call and said she want him back n he went back to her. she doesnt even know about me. but i still love him n cant get over him what ...

A.   11 April 2009: I know that you love this guy but you can't let him treat you like that. You need to break it off and not see him anymore. I know that will be very hard for you to do and you might always have feelings for him because he was your first love. If you ... (read in full...)

He said he liked me now he's ignoring me :-(

Q.   My guy friend told me that he liked me but I wasn't sure if he had a girlfriend or not so even though I happen to like him myself I was friendly to him but nothing more, I still stayed and had a chat and let him have my number too. He was texting...

A.   11 April 2009: Well you just need to be very blunt with this guy and ask him if he has a girlfriend. If you want him tell him you are into him. Guys can't take hints so just tell him how you feel. Guys have egos too and don't want to get turned down. He probably ... (read in full...)

Being in love versus having a crush!

Q.   Can I have someone tell me the difference between being in love and having a crush?...

A.   11 April 2009: Well having a crush is just the physical attraction. That is when you first meet someone and is like love at first sight. Being in love is when you truely care about the person. You put up with their shortcoming and will love them no matter what ... (read in full...)

2 girls--I like them both but if I go into a relationship with one, will I lose the other?

Q.   There are 2 girls i really like one lives local and one lives 200 miles away. The one who lives 200 miles away i get on with so well and were both really good friends but I'm also really good friends with the girl who lives local now i don't want to ...

A.   11 April 2009: Wow this sounds just like the situation I am in, but I am one of the girls! Well I would make sure that you get to know as much about both these girls as you can, and choose the one you can see yourself having a future with. Which one are you the ... (read in full...)

Tips on being more attractive

Q.   i need tips on how to be more outgoing. because i have this freind who use to be a "nerd" untill i met her and i always use to be the pretty one now that i "made" her she is so goregous and her clothes are nice and her hair looks amazing.. i have to ...

A.   11 April 2009: You just need to work on being more confident and not worrying what other people look like. If you are always comparing yourself to others you are never going to feel good enough because there is always someone prettier and someone smarter, so don't ... (read in full...)

I'm shy, but how do I get him?

Q.   This guy in my class looks at me.buut never taks to me everytime i pass by him he looks at me and the other day i saw him looking at me and he looked away he never even says hello to me i am very shy person what shod i do?...

A.   10 April 2009: Just go for it and say hi to him first. You don't need to have a long conversation but just say something. Ask him about an assignment in class, anything. I used to be really shy too but you need to get over it sooner or later. It is better to get ... (read in full...)

I hate my life right now and all I want to do is cry...

Q.   I currently hate my life. First my boyfriend of four years breaks up with me and I have to move back home, where my parents who are retired now and are always around. Then the transmission on my car breaks. I can't afford to fix it because my ...

A.   10 April 2009: Don't worry your life is usually horrible before something really good happens. Just hang in there. I know it is hard right now, but things will get better. Just try to focus on all of the positive things about your life. You can try writing list of ... (read in full...)

There must be a way to get him to like me! Any suggestions?

Q.   I need help. I'm in seventh grade, and I've liked this boy since 3rd grade! We've been best friends for ever, but thats all. Tons of people say that I should just try to ask him out, but the thing is, I know he'll either say no, or walk away. L...

A.   10 April 2009: Well it sounds like you are totally ready for a relationship, but this guy you like isn't. If you want a relationship with him bad enough you are just going to have to wait until he is ready for one. He must like you because you are such great ... (read in full...)

Would we be ok to have sex with protection and me on the pill?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend are both 15 years old and virgins, we have been best mates when little and actually got together 3 years ago next month. We've talked about sex, we have condoms, and we have only kissed and hugged alot, i have given him a hand...

A.   9 April 2009: Everyone I know who has had sex that young regret it later! You would probably be just fine to have sex if you used protection, but it doesn't always work. My cousin got pregnant when she was on the pill and condoms break. While it is very unli... (read in full...)

I have this very strong desire to have a baby; my partner says he's not ready. I did have an abortion over a year ago, when I was with another man and I wasn't ready then...

Q.   Hi, Im 22 years of age, I will finnish sutdies in events management at the end of this year, and I have strong desires to be very successful in my career. I also have very strong desires to become a mother. Over a year ago now, I had an abortion....

A.   15 July 2008: I would just wait a few years to have a baby. I know that you really want one and are ready, but having a baby is a huge commitment and your partner needs to be ready too. You are only 22 so you still have a lot of time and I wouldn't be so worried ... (read in full...)

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