How do you have a successfull FWB?
Q. Question: How do you have a successfull FWB? How am I supposed to act in this type of relationship? I think I want to do this because I don't want to be in a serious relationship right now because of my kids. So, the question is, am I supposed to ...
A. 14 June 2010: Keep your distance and don't initiate or accept sex its not a good idea since you like him. Man can have sex with women without having any feeling, and some women can too but this is not your case so leave it as only friends without the benefits. ... (read in full...)
How do you have a successfull FWB?
Q. Question: How do you have a successfull FWB? How am I supposed to act in this type of relationship? I think I want to do this because I don't want to be in a serious relationship right now because of my kids. So, the question is, am I supposed to ...
A. 9 June 2010: FWB can work and its true many women get attached but not all, and I can tell you that sometimes it works way better imagine no commitment. Not having to deal with the drama of being in a relationship, coming and going as you please. Its like having ... (read in full...)
He wants me to give up my only "me" time or its a divorce!
Q. I have been with my husband for 13 years (married 8 years) and at first was very happy. He is a good man, with good values, but lets me do everything around the house and with the children while he pursues his rugby and associated social events. I...
A. 9 June 2010: The only fair thing to do is give up the horse, right after he gives up rugby off course. Try counseling but don't let yourself be a pushover. ... (read in full...)
How do you have a successfull FWB?
Q. Question: How do you have a successfull FWB? How am I supposed to act in this type of relationship? I think I want to do this because I don't want to be in a serious relationship right now because of my kids. So, the question is, am I supposed to ...
A. 9 June 2010: Don't fall in love, don't be controlling, and don't get jealous. ... (read in full...)
My husband backhands our daughter. Should I leave him?
Q. My husband and I have 3 children together. He is great with our 12 year old daughter and our 5 year old son but is very mean to our 15 year old daughter. Let me also say that our 15 yr old has a big time attitude as well. They clash big time with ...
A. 8 June 2010: Your kids should be your priority and remember that your kids need you to help them, to guide them and to protect him. Your husband is a grown man and can take care of himself but your kids need you. ... (read in full...)
Why could I not cope with my partner's sexual past?
Q. I could not cope with the threesome my partner had with his ex wife and her female friend and have ended my relationship with him because of this. I could not get it out of my head and kept thinking of the three of them together. Now that I am ...
A. 8 June 2010: The best thing was to let him go, if dealing with his past was to much for you to handle.
Just keep in mind that whatever he did before you was before you. ... (read in full...)
She gets mad because I don't agree with her
Q. I don't know what to do. My gf gets mad whenever I don't agree with her. She looks at it in a disloyal way although I'm just trying to say my opinion. I told her, if she wants to be with someone who always agrees on her opinion, she should just get ...
A. 8 June 2010: She behaves like this because she knows she can get away with it. Put a stop to it man up to her. If she can't stop than simply leave her. You can do better way better.... (read in full...)
Why won't she tell me her real number of sexual partners if she loves me?
Q. I am involved in my first relationship since divorcing my wife of 20 years. I have been in it for 9 months, and it has been wonderful. However, there was an instance a month into our relationship where I caught her in a bit of a lie and it made me ...
A. 8 June 2010: I was not once asked about my past and my husband now has a wonderful wife, If he would have bother me over and over about the same subject I can guaranteed you he would be missing out because I would have split.
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She doesn't want children but I want to have them one day, am I just wasting my time with her?
Q. so i'm with the girl of my dreams, and a brief conversation we had one day is kind of bugging me. Were both in our early 20's, so this isnt anything to necessarily worry about any time soon: she is crazy about one of her sisters children- pictures...
A. 8 June 2010: This is major topic and if you want children in the future and she does not maybe it will best to part ways. Investing time in her is going to make you have stronger feeling for her, and maybe love her enough to marry her, and than you might request ... (read in full...)
He wants me to give up my only "me" time or its a divorce!
Q. I have been with my husband for 13 years (married 8 years) and at first was very happy. He is a good man, with good values, but lets me do everything around the house and with the children while he pursues his rugby and associated social events. I...
A. 8 June 2010: If you sell this horse you are going to give him total control on you. If you have the money to clear the debt than use that money. People deserve to have activities, hobbies, something that will keep your mind busy and he should understand this ... (read in full...)
How do I act when I see her at this party? It is only the 9th day since we broke up and I don't know how to behave around her
Q. hey there my ex girlfriend of nearly 1 year broke up with me . were got a party to attend on Saturday as we are mutual friends with the birthday boy . well on that Saturday it would be the 9th day we're broken up . my question is when i do see he...
A. 8 June 2010: Acknowledge her presence and say a quick hello and go party with your crowd.
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He gives his ex all of his money and forgets about me and his son!
Q. hey, i need some advice please, me and my fiance have been together for 2yrs, we have a 5month old son. the problem is he doesnt provide much for him. ok, he buys milk and food for our son but all the materialistic things (cot, bouncer, feeding...
A. 8 June 2010: You need to put your foot down. Yes his other child has rights but you have to think about your child.
Stop making so easy for him and request more, here in the US you can get them for child support maybe you can do this and get your child hi... (read in full...)
Shocked he reacted this way! What happened?
Q. I've been seeing this guy for almost 6 months. We've gotten close enough to talk about moving in together. Last Friday, I was at his house, we were sitting outside talking. Having a few drinks. He starting asking questions about my past. ...
A. 8 June 2010: They ask you to be honest and when you are they act like boys. Men are hard creatures to understand at times, give it time and if he don't returned with an apology than you will know he is not worth your time.... (read in full...)
Why don't I have the courage to leave him?
Q. last year my life turned up side down my husband of 15 years started using drugs I thought i can help him but i don't think his worth all the trouble. why don't i have the courage to leave him. when i try to leave it very very hard ...
A. 8 June 2010: You might love him but you have to think on you. If he don't want to leave the drugs there is not much you can do for him. He has to want a change. You might be co-dependent and there are support groups where you can go for help. Please take care of ... (read in full...)
My man wants me to be okay with him cheating on me.
Q. My boyfriend and i have been in a long distnce relationship for almost 2 years now. We hardly get to see each other. And we both get up set at each other for that. Recently he told me he has another girlfriend just to occupy until we move in ...
A. 8 June 2010: Sorry to tell you this but he is not yours, you are far and if he is messing around there is no way you will know since you can only go by what he tells you.
Don't worry if he will be happy if you step away, instead think if you are willing ... (read in full...)
Help! How do you let go of someone you love?
Q. I can't let go of her. For some reason, against all logic and against everything I've tried to do for myself, to get my life in order, I can't let go of her. We were together for eight and half years and in the course of 24 hours everything in my...
A. 7 June 2010: I hope this technique works, because in reality she is not worth your pain, and If you think on how she is and has treated all you will be able to do is forget her and move on. ... (read in full...)
Why won't she tell me her real number of sexual partners if she loves me?
Q. I am involved in my first relationship since divorcing my wife of 20 years. I have been in it for 9 months, and it has been wonderful. However, there was an instance a month into our relationship where I caught her in a bit of a lie and it made me ...
A. 7 June 2010: If you can't trust her the best thing would be to end the relationship. You can't start a marriage if you feel you can't trust the women to claim to love. I'm assuming that you don't really care on how many men she has slept with, but that she is ... (read in full...)
He slept with his ex and now she is pregnant, I am so hurt and confused!
Q. my boyfriend slept with his ex who he cant stand while i was pregnant with his baby and now she is pregnant. he said its not his and i got to get over it but i cant. he said he was confused as we were having problems but i cant get past it. i told ...
A. 7 June 2010: If he loved as much as you love him he wouldn't have cheated.
If you don't feel you can be with him if he is proven to be the father than it would be the best thing to walk away, since its not the child fault.
I wish you luck and I'm sorry yo... (read in full...)
Hurt, confused and drained... what should I do?
Q. I have been in a 14 yr relationship. This has my first in every aspect. I was 18 and he was 19. During the 14 yr relationship he has lied and cheated several times. Each woman that he has been with has known about our relationship and still decided ...
A. 5 June 2010: You made so many mistakes in this relationship starting with taking him back the first time.
He didn't change he continues to cheat.
Imagine if you have kicked him out when he first cheated, you would have probably met someone else a person th... (read in full...)
Help! How do you let go of someone you love?
Q. I can't let go of her. For some reason, against all logic and against everything I've tried to do for myself, to get my life in order, I can't let go of her. We were together for eight and half years and in the course of 24 hours everything in my...
A. 5 June 2010: There is nothing you can do but cope with the idea that she is gone. She chose to leave you and she cheated on you, that should show you her true colors. Have pride in yourself and think on you. When you carry yourself highly and have a good ... (read in full...)
What are some interesting topics to talk about?
Q. I have a new girl friend i really love her but i have nothing to talk about we always talk about the same things! i need topics please...
A. 4 June 2010: Find out what she is interested in, this will make it easier for you to have a conversation with her. If I throw you topics it will be something that interest me and might bored her, so find out more about her. This way you will always have things ... (read in full...)
What happens if he tries to kiss me on our date?
Q. Hi there, I have met this guy who attends the same school as me, We have known each other for a couple of months, Things are going great. He wanted to meet me, so I agreed and were meeting soon, very soon. I'm scared, he told me he really ...
A. 4 June 2010: Yes please tell me what your scared of..... (read in full...)
Why does he keep writing me if he hates me so much?
Q. OMG!!! my cousin fucked up my life!!!! she wrote to one of his friends under my profile (she has it to spy on her husband cuz hes my friend) and now he thinks i'm being a stalker!!!! Loook HIM: you have got some fucking balls you know that, i c...
A. 4 June 2010: Wow, sorry you guys are going through this. It sounds like you both have strong feelings for each other still. Neither one of you is willing to cave in and it makes perfect sense, you both have crossed that line. Once you cross the line of ... (read in full...)
How do you know someone loves you back?
Q. if you love someone how you know they love you back...
A. 4 June 2010: They always want to be with you, and no one in the room matter when they are with you.
They always want to touch you kiss you show interest in your day.
Misses you when you are gone.
Tries to please you in everything.
The list ... (read in full...)
Is lying to your significant other to spare their feelings ever excusable?
Q. So, I just caught my long-term boyfriend (1.5 years together, 1 year living together) in a lie and am feeling disappointed and angry at him. He says he lied to spare my feelings, but is this ever a legitimate and forgivable reason for doing so? ...
A. 4 June 2010: You said this was your dream your fantasy he is probably telling you the truth he wanted to spared you from what you would feel to find out you weren't the first.
I think he lied but I don't think it should be a big deal, see your boyfrien... (read in full...)
Can you really love someone and never say "I love you"
Q. Does anybody here love their significant lover, but never says "I love you" to them? Iv been in a relationship for 4 years and he used to say i love you a few times but he never does anymore. I know actions speak louder than words but it would still ...
A. 4 June 2010: Yes you can love someone without telling them. Some people are just not the type that will say the three words, they will probably show you by actions which I think matters more. ... (read in full...)
We were both tipsy and we ended up having sex!
Q. Hi! I'm in love with this beautiful lady and she loves me too but she is scared I might hurt her. I've been pursuing her for the past 4 months but she has been playing hard to get. She invited me to a concert on the weekend with her friends...
A. 4 June 2010: I think you are trying to find excuses to be with her, you have attached your self to her. I hope you can catch cause I have a feeling she will throw more things your way. You already know how she is, she puts all this guilt on you, and than she ... (read in full...)
We were both tipsy and we ended up having sex!
Q. Hi! I'm in love with this beautiful lady and she loves me too but she is scared I might hurt her. I've been pursuing her for the past 4 months but she has been playing hard to get. She invited me to a concert on the weekend with her friends...
A. 4 June 2010: Dude she has been playing you the whole time. Let her go she is not worth the headache. First she blames you for something she took part in. Now you find out she has a boyfriend. Now I can see why she was trying to find someone to blame. Since she ... (read in full...)
Why won't she tell me her real number of sexual partners if she loves me?
Q. I am involved in my first relationship since divorcing my wife of 20 years. I have been in it for 9 months, and it has been wonderful. However, there was an instance a month into our relationship where I caught her in a bit of a lie and it made me ...
A. 4 June 2010: Women have new standards and will explore their options this does not make them a Sluts...This makes them stronger women. Women that are able to distinguish a real man from a looser.
In my opinion if you want to question my past you better h... (read in full...)
Should I tell or keep my mouth shut???
Q. I'm stuck and i just dont know what to do... i have two options and both seem to be the right thing to do... Basically i had my final uni exams last week, well in the last exam (which was the hardest) on friday some girls from my class decided to...
A. 4 June 2010: I really don't understand why you want to report some thing that you are not sure of. If you wanted this fix and settle you should had told an instructor that minute I think its too late and you have no proof.... (read in full...)
Married and miserable and still in love with my ex wife
Q. so i have been married to my second wife for about a year now. i was 27 and she was 21 before we were married she was responsible and had some self respect and respected me but immediately after our marriage she quit her job without notification put ...
A. 4 June 2010: Call her bluff next time she threatens you with a divorce. You are not happy. Normally I suggest to give your marriage a chance but this is when there is a willing spouse. Your wife sounds like a very selfish person and its sounds like it has to be ... (read in full...)
I know what we did was wrong, but I cannot control who I love.
Q. I'm hurting so bad, i dont know what to do!!!! I'm married with twins, but my marriage is a disaster and have wanted to get out but just dont know how to go about it. We've been married for 15 years but he has let me down big time. He has bo...
A. 3 June 2010: I think before you start trying to fix this relationship you have to fix your marriage, I think you have forgotten that you are married. ... (read in full...)
Something is missing in our marriage
Q. Hi Cupid, I have been married for 14 years and past few years have been very stressful and I am not happy in my marriage. It has gone to a point that my husband and me are complete strangers in the house. I went on a trip last week and met a g...
A. 3 June 2010: Give your marriage a chance try to fix it now that its still savable. I really feel this is a low blow to your husband but if you two discuss this and he forgave you, shows he is a good man. Cheating on a spouse is bad and many marriage can't move ... (read in full...)
I'm married, but now I want to have my fun with strangers. 3 down and counting, should I feel guilty?
Q. Ok here is my situation I have been married with my husband 5 years, I was a virgin when he took me, he had his fun before me. But just recently I started this appetite of having sex with other guys just to try it out. is that normal? should ...
A. 3 June 2010: I really think this is a fake post but just in-case there was a little chance of this post being genuine I will throw in my two cents.
If your not liking your one night stand adventure why would you continue.
If you had a conscious you wo... (read in full...)
What happens if he tries to kiss me on our date?
Q. Hi there, I have met this guy who attends the same school as me, We have known each other for a couple of months, Things are going great. He wanted to meet me, so I agreed and were meeting soon, very soon. I'm scared, he told me he really ...
A. 3 June 2010: I would suggest you wait and if he kisses you than you kiss him back. Puppy love is the greatest just go out enjoy your date hold his hand, and have a great time. Don't rush into the kissing until you are both ready. Make sure you take a mint just ... (read in full...)
What happens if he tries to kiss me on our date?
Q. Hi there, I have met this guy who attends the same school as me, We have known each other for a couple of months, Things are going great. He wanted to meet me, so I agreed and were meeting soon, very soon. I'm scared, he told me he really ...
A. 3 June 2010: Sorry typo had to fixs it since it didn't look right in my eyes hehehe.
If you don't really like this boy than just wait till right right boy to come around ,you do want YOUR first kiss to be special.... (read in full...)
What happens if he tries to kiss me on our date?
Q. Hi there, I have met this guy who attends the same school as me, We have known each other for a couple of months, Things are going great. He wanted to meet me, so I agreed and were meeting soon, very soon. I'm scared, he told me he really ...
A. 3 June 2010: If you don't want him to kiss you than don't allow it.
I remember my first kiss and you know what it wasn't special, or at least I don't remember it as special.
If you don't really like this boy than just wait till right right boy to come arou... (read in full...)
I cant hide my baby bump anymore but I'm worried about telling my family as my parents are going through a divorce....
Q. I am a 14 year old girl, and i know whats i have done is wrong and i am truly sorry. But when my mam and dad split up 7 months ago i went off the rails such as drinking just to foget about the pain that we would never do things as a family no more, ...
A. 3 June 2010: If your mom is not a violent person I suggest you tell her in the privacy of her own home. But the most important thing is that you tell her no matter where just tell her soon.... (read in full...)
My husband wants to keep both his family and his girlfriend, what should I do?
Q. my husband has an affair my daughter discovered her father's affair through his cell phone. my husband felt guilty but he wanted to keep both his family and his gf. he promised me his gf won't be his mistress and that his family is always his...
A. 3 June 2010: She sounds lovely, you guys should send your daughter to school over seas and than you three can live together.
Really is this what you want to hear, he is disrespecting you and your daughter. You should have kicked him out the minute you heard he... (read in full...)
Why won't she tell me her real number of sexual partners if she loves me?
Q. I am involved in my first relationship since divorcing my wife of 20 years. I have been in it for 9 months, and it has been wonderful. However, there was an instance a month into our relationship where I caught her in a bit of a lie and it made me ...
A. 3 June 2010: Why do you need to know her sexual past...her past is what made her the women you love today.
To be honest I find it disrespectful of you asking over and over again the same question. She might be telling you the truth and has only slept with 4 g... (read in full...)
I cant hide my baby bump anymore but I'm worried about telling my family as my parents are going through a divorce....
Q. I am a 14 year old girl, and i know whats i have done is wrong and i am truly sorry. But when my mam and dad split up 7 months ago i went off the rails such as drinking just to foget about the pain that we would never do things as a family no more, ...
A. 3 June 2010: You have to deal with this now, you can't hide it forever you know.
You should talk to your mom and tell her what happened, this is not your fault you were sexually assaulted and you should report this.
I want to add one thing you slept ... (read in full...)
My husband wants to keep both his family and his girlfriend, what should I do?
Q. my husband has an affair my daughter discovered her father's affair through his cell phone. my husband felt guilty but he wanted to keep both his family and his gf. he promised me his gf won't be his mistress and that his family is always his...
A. 3 June 2010: You should kick him out thats what You should do. Poster think of the example you will be setting for your daughter. You will be showing her that it is ok to be and stay with your cheating spouse. You are going to let your husband walk all ove... (read in full...)
We were both tipsy and we ended up having sex!
Q. Hi! I'm in love with this beautiful lady and she loves me too but she is scared I might hurt her. I've been pursuing her for the past 4 months but she has been playing hard to get. She invited me to a concert on the weekend with her friends...
A. 3 June 2010: Respect her and act as if in nothing changed, good luck!... (read in full...)
Should I date an army guy?
Q. I just met a guy from the army...we met in ny we had a good time for four days then he had to go back to iraq. We been talking everyday he seems like a nice guy but of course I still got to get to know him. He invited me to the ball when he don't ...
A. 3 June 2010: It is hard to be an army wife or girlfriend, but if the love is there you will make it work. Now in your case you have met and probably found him very attractive and you fantasize about a relationship with him. Truth be told it is a lonely life and ... (read in full...)
We were both tipsy and we ended up having sex!
Q. Hi! I'm in love with this beautiful lady and she loves me too but she is scared I might hurt her. I've been pursuing her for the past 4 months but she has been playing hard to get. She invited me to a concert on the weekend with her friends...
A. 1 June 2010: You were both drinking so it is unfair to just blame you. People often blame the alcohol for what they do under the influence, but I feel the alcohol just helps you do, whatever you wouldn't do sober. In reality she wanted this and now wants an ... (read in full...)
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