Splitting the bill on a first date?
Q. I was on a first date with this guy and we went to see a movie, then had dinner at a Chinese restaurant. We're both students. He is a year older than me. So, he bought the movie tickets online, then announced the price out loud - "so it's 22.50 f...
A. 16 June 2010: To be honest if you hang out with cheap looser you will most likely be stuck with the bill. Remember when dating a guy if he keeps ditching the bill most likely he is not a good catch.
When you go out with friends you should cover your half and... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend twice should I tell him?
Q. I had cheated on my bf twice but not really had to boyfriends at once it was just a kissing thing that happens with two different guys in February and March.I was wondering if I should tell him or not. He's the love of my life I'm sure and I think ...
A. 14 June 2010: If he was the love of your life I doubt you would have cheated, not only once but twice. I think you are to young to know what is true love but believe me when you do meet the one, cheating will be the last think in your mind. I recommend you talk ... (read in full...)
I think my gay male friend has feelings for me!
Q. I think my friend may have feelings for me, in spite of being attracted to men. We've been good friends for several years, but during the past year or two we've become even closer, and I've started to get the vibe that he might have feelings for me. ...
A. 14 June 2010: He loves you as a person does not mean he desires you. It normal for a man to imagine his future married with children. If he has not said anything to you than I would not read to much into this, could it be that you yourself is finding him as ... (read in full...)
I can't seem to 'enjoy the moment' when dating..instead I worry constantly..
Q. Hi so I've been dating this guy..well technically we've gone out twice if that first meeting counts. Anyhow, lol he's a very new person in my life..still a stranger. The thing is he isn't from this country and will only be staying for four months. I...
A. 14 June 2010: Take it easy and give it a chance. In reality we all have flaws no one is perfect, and your flaws is what makes you,you. If he doesn't like your imperfection and leaves you for that than you will know he is not worth your time. You can't live life ... (read in full...)
Help! My mother is forcing me to stay!
Q. I am 17 with less then a month before I am going to turn 18. I went to Texas with my aunt to visit my mother. My mother is now forcing me to stay with her until I am 18 and my family is doing nothing about it. I want to return to Washington so I ...
A. 14 June 2010: If you stayed with your aunt she should have sign papers by your parents signing her temp custody. This is normally done when there is a child living with relative and attending school in a different state. Your aunt has to have documents letting ... (read in full...)
I'm confused! Am I a lesbian?
Q. hi. i think im a lesbian because i keep dreaming and thinking about the same sex, but im really confused can you help me....
A. 14 June 2010: Do you find boys attractive? Don't label yourself right now your still young and might find the female body attractive, this does not make you gay. ... (read in full...)
If I move on, she will too! Help!
Q. Ok well kind of a long story, Me and My girlfriend got together at 16 and stayed together for 5 years. In that time we did grow up and become diffrent as I prefer going out on nights out however she is a more reserved and quiet person. We split up ...
A. 14 June 2010: You can't have it both way, if your not into her than just let her go. ... (read in full...)
Could I have gotten an STD?
Q. Last Saturday night I met a cute guy at a club. We danced and drank until closing and I got pretty buzzed. He offered me a ride home and when we got in his car, I went down on him. I never did that to a strange guy before and when he finished I ...
A. 14 June 2010: I would get checked because there is still a chance you could have caught an STDs, this is very risky behavior be careful and don't put yourself in this position again...even if your giving him a blowjob make sure he is wearing a party hat.... (read in full...)
Splitting the bill on a first date?
Q. I was on a first date with this guy and we went to see a movie, then had dinner at a Chinese restaurant. We're both students. He is a year older than me. So, he bought the movie tickets online, then announced the price out loud - "so it's 22.50 f...
A. 14 June 2010: Your were out as friends and made it clear to him that it was not a date so I don't think he should have been stuck with the bill. If he is trying to date you well he started out in the wrong foot but in fairness this was not a date, so no I don't ... (read in full...)
Does no sex = no relationship?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together 10 years. She is 47, I am 36. When we first met (as is usual) we had sex frequently. Within a year of my moving in, sex became less frequent and slightly painful for her. She went to her doctor and I was...
A. 14 June 2010: you both have to be in the same page, I think it would be better if you two go your own separate ways. ... (read in full...)
How do you have a successfull FWB?
Q. Question: How do you have a successfull FWB? How am I supposed to act in this type of relationship? I think I want to do this because I don't want to be in a serious relationship right now because of my kids. So, the question is, am I supposed to ...
A. 14 June 2010: Keep your distance and don't initiate or accept sex its not a good idea since you like him. Man can have sex with women without having any feeling, and some women can too but this is not your case so leave it as only friends without the benefits. ... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend and he won't get over it- what do I do?
Q. I cheated on my man. I was wrong, I admit it, and I would turn back time and stay true to him if I could. But I can't, and I let him know that, but now he treats me like I do it everyday, conrtolling me and always accusing me of doing stuff with...
A. 11 June 2010: **Typo sorry*** You have a great guy he was able to forgive you for being unfaithful don't you think he has a right to want to hold a shield up, since you already broke his heart once.
One more thing, how do you think your boyfriend felt the minu... (read in full...)
I cheated on my boyfriend and he won't get over it- what do I do?
Q. I cheated on my man. I was wrong, I admit it, and I would turn back time and stay true to him if I could. But I can't, and I let him know that, but now he treats me like I do it everyday, conrtolling me and always accusing me of doing stuff with...
A. 11 June 2010: You broke his trust by cheating. He forgave you but it will be hard for him to completely trust you. Your going to have to gain his trust. I find it a bit disturbing how you are reacting to his behavior because it is understandable. I think you ... (read in full...)
Help! Married woman in love with another woman.
Q. Dear cupid, I am a married woman in love with another woman. My husband hates it and not seeing her is killing me. I love them both very much but obviously cannot make both of them happy. She was even willing to be just a side thing but he ...
A. 11 June 2010: Your cheating on your husband and he forgave you and your still asking how can you ask him to let you continue with this affair, are you serious.
You need to choose who do you love and who do you want to be with. Obviously you can't be with bot... (read in full...)
Should I bring up the fact he may be cheating?
Q. I have been with my boyfiend for 3 years now and we have had our share of bad times. lately we have been doing really well adn getting along great. but last night he had too much to drink and fell asleep in the front room. i went to bed in the ...
A. 11 June 2010: The best thing is for you to bring it up, You have to know if he is playing you or not. Ask him.... (read in full...)
What do I do about my ex?
Q. ive been in love with my ex for some time, but i broke up with him because what he says and what he does are 2 seperate things. he says he loves me, but he tells my friends he wants nothing to do with me whenever he gets mad. i really want to be ...
A. 11 June 2010: I think you should break contact with him, You still have feelings for him in a romantic status and your friendship with him will only hurt you. ... (read in full...)
One way or the other I'm going to hurt someone, and I'll be hurt too!
Q. please help, i come from a very religious family. we are christians and my family follow the faith to the letter. recently they found out that my best friend is a lesbian through the gossips in our village. they were disgusted. they told me ...
A. 11 June 2010: The best thing you can do is tell your parents, you will hurt them but this is you and even if you choice to stay quiet, how long would it take for your family to find out your a lesbian. Imagine someone can see you hugging your girlfriend, holding ... (read in full...)
Tips to show him I'm still interested???
Q. I've really liked this guy at school for ages now. He knows I like him and we've been getting to know eachother. He seems to like me too. We're not actually 'going out' but I wouldn't say there's nothing going on between us either. Lots of people ...
A. 10 June 2010: How about you ask him for his phone number and call him once an while, that would show interest in your part.
You might want to talk to him and ask him if his likes you, he will either say yes or no but you will have your answer.
Good Luck I h... (read in full...)
My wife no longer wants to have any physical contact with me...
Q. I have been with my wife for 14 years. we married close to 2 years ago. She no longer wants to have any physical contact with me. I hug her now and then, kiss her goodbye for work and at times initiate sex only to be pushed away or even kicked or ...
A. 10 June 2010: Sometimes a person becomes distance and its not because there is a cheating spouse, but because they have lost interest for one another. Your wife is the one distant from you have you tried to fancy her again. Sometimes couple get so use to the same ... (read in full...)
He doesn't treat me right but I love him... should we stay together?
Q. I'm only 16, and i used to know everyone at school and love life. I met a boy last summer and liked him right off when we started getting to know each other. We started dating and now its been since 0ctober of last year. i cry every day because of ...
A. 10 June 2010: You should love yourself more. You should move forward and break up with him and believe me it can be done put your pride first.
Don't allow him to treat you bad walk away from this relationship. How can you expect him to respect you when you... (read in full...)
Can someone help me figure this out... does he want to break up with me?
Q. My boyfriend is always saying i need a better guy and that i dont deserve him and that he's a bad guy and doesnt want me to get in trouble but he also always says he loves me and misses me and hes so sweet and i dont want to leave him but im ...
A. 10 June 2010: Your probably going to have to ask him exactly what is it he feels for you. He cannot be stuck in the middle he either loves you or he don't. Ask him and find out where you stand in his life and what are his feelings towards you and once you heard ... (read in full...)
Concerned about the man she slept with while on a break
Q. I have been married for a little over a month now and very happy. Previously I had dated her for almost 2 years. We are great together although I am significantly older (I’m 41 shes 27) I recently found something out…and I am just trying...
A. 10 June 2010: Having sex with someone else on a break I think is no big deal since you two were not together, but why keep texting and keep in touch after wards. I don't understand, but anyways you are handling the right way in not blowing up, but I do feel you ... (read in full...)
Why can't she leave him for a better life with me?
Q. Ok. This girl I'm in love with, has a bf. She's with him for 5 years already. While with him she started to have feelings for me. But, she has hurt quite a few times because she'll ask me to move on a few days after confessing her feelings for me a...
A. 10 June 2010: Move on and don't hang on to that thought. She continues to be with him because she wants to be with him simple as that.
Don't hold your breath waiting for her to leave him, you might not see your surrounding and might be missing the chance o... (read in full...)
How do you break up in a nice way?
Q. So, how to dump a guy nicely? What exactly should I say? I know that texting and e-mailing is such a cowardly thing to do, but I won't be able to look him straight in the eyes if I were to tell him person to person. This will break both of our ...
A. 10 June 2010: privately tell him that you love him a lot but as a friends...That you gave it a try but don't feel the same for him and would like to continue being friends.
Which ever way you do it remember not to be harsh and take in consideration his feel... (read in full...)
The man I fell for so deeply has changed. Should I stay?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for two years. He was always a lovely person to be with and i always thought he was the one but lately hes changed. He will always call me hurtfull names and whenever he responds to be he uses the word slag instead of...
A. 10 June 2010: Its hard to make a person changed, are you willing to stay around and take the abuse. I would suggest you took a glimpse to the future with his new behavior. Is this new him someone you can see yourself with. Look at things using this angle don't ... (read in full...)
Why does my wife lie?
Q. Why does my wife lie? This started a while ago, but it's getting worse and worse. For some reason my wife doesn't trust me. I've never strayed, never even looked at another woman in our 5 years together. She's given me two beautiful childr...
A. 10 June 2010: it seems like your wife like to complain and take all blame away from her so she lies to cover her marks. She likes to play the victim so that people will side with her and agree. She could also be a compulsive liar and cannot tell the truth, but I ... (read in full...)
Helpful ideas on how to get wife to give me oral?
Q. My wife refuses to give me a blowjob and will not even really open up healthy dialog about it. Now before anyone replies to this post here is some background. -I DO go down on her (cunnilingus) to completion and she has multiple organisms. It ...
A. 9 June 2010: Stop going down on her its only fair. Once she notice that you won't go down unless she gives you a blow job than she might do it more often.
There are a lot of females that do not like to give a blow, but I think they should not expect to get o... (read in full...)
What do you think? I want to know if he likes me.
Q. ok I'm not sure what to do a while back my guy friend told me that his friend liked me and I thought about it and realised it could be true he chose to sit next to me in re despite having a choice: me or a guy, I sit next to him in English twice a ...
A. 9 June 2010: I think he likes you. Have you tried talking to him, maybe you should since he is obviously flirting and your liking the attention. Good Luck please keep me posted I would love to know if he likes you too. ... (read in full...)
Yes or no to sex?
Q. im the jealous type to..i've been in a relationship from since 2008 october 6th n i still have the guy..yh we run out of things to say but eventually he always seems to find something to talk about at one point in time...we never had sex..i want to ...
A. 9 June 2010: Never have sex with a person because you want to hold on to him, never have sex because you feel pressured, and never have sex because everyone one is doing it. I feel you are young and you should hold on to your virginity for while more. When you ... (read in full...)
Will I look jealous if I confront her?
Q. I was best friends with a girl from 7th grade until about 11th grade in high school where she got somewhat popular and completely ditched me. She has had a lot of best friends throughout the years, I know she is a flip-flopper when it comes to ...
A. 9 June 2010: Be her friend what else can you do. You can't dictate to her who she can and cannot hang out with. If she is sociable and has friends that is part of her, maybe you can join them for those walks. If she doesn't tell you can it be because she is ... (read in full...)
Affair prior to relationship but should I tell current relationship about it?
Q. I had an affair with a married woman for about two years, but it's since over with and I've since moved on, but the girl I was having an affair with and I are still friends. I'm currently dating a woman - a wonderful, sweet woman with a big heart - ...
A. 9 June 2010: I feel you should tell her and let it be her call if she decides to continues talking to her. ... (read in full...)
How do you have a successfull FWB?
Q. Question: How do you have a successfull FWB? How am I supposed to act in this type of relationship? I think I want to do this because I don't want to be in a serious relationship right now because of my kids. So, the question is, am I supposed to ...
A. 9 June 2010: FWB can work and its true many women get attached but not all, and I can tell you that sometimes it works way better imagine no commitment. Not having to deal with the drama of being in a relationship, coming and going as you please. Its like having ... (read in full...)
I love my partner very much but I am worried he will never ask me to marry him!
Q. I have been in a relationship for 2 years we moved into together last Oct. I love him very much but I feel like he will never ask me to marry him. I know the past is the past but he was with someone for 8 years and never had any intenetion of marry ...
A. 9 June 2010: You might have to give him an ultimatum, but be prepared in keeping your word if he doesn't want to commit. ... (read in full...)
He wants me to give up my only "me" time or its a divorce!
Q. I have been with my husband for 13 years (married 8 years) and at first was very happy. He is a good man, with good values, but lets me do everything around the house and with the children while he pursues his rugby and associated social events. I...
A. 9 June 2010: The only fair thing to do is give up the horse, right after he gives up rugby off course. Try counseling but don't let yourself be a pushover. ... (read in full...)
I tell my husband 'size doesn't matter' but everytime after sex, he asks me if he is too small...
Q. Whenever I make love to my husband, he is asking me the same old question "Am I too small?" I enjoy making out with him and I often tell him that it's not the size that matters, it's the passion inside me that counts. Is my husband ashamed of his ...
A. 9 June 2010: He does sound ashamed of his size....I guess you can go wild while he performs to boost his esteem. ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my ex want to work things out?
Q. hello there . my ex girlfriend of a year broke up with me with no such good reason , she said she doesn't love me anymore one week we were in love then this , .. anywhoo i need some these questions answered 1. why would she say that to me out ...
A. 9 June 2010: She actually gave you the answer to your question, she broke up with you because she no longer loves you. She told you to move on and that she was going to move as well.
Its hard to understand why the person we love so much no longer wants to... (read in full...)
My ex suddenly lost interest in talking to me
Q. My ex broke up with me 3 months ago. I implemented NC and a month later she writes telling me how she misses me incredibly and wants to know if I've been thinking of her since she's been thinking about me. She continued to contact me often on afte...
A. 9 June 2010: So you prefer she hides from you, thinking you turned into a stalker. What closure are you looking for if you two have been broken up for 3 months.
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I cant bear to see her with someone else...but she doesn't return my feelings
Q. Hey. A couple of years ago, I started talking to a girl that was in my class. She was in a relationship with a very controlling and hurtful guy. I somehow became the person she turned to everytime she felt bad, or was hurt by the guy she went out...
A. 9 June 2010: There is not much you can do, she sees you like her big brother. You are in the friend list and believe me when your in love this is not the list you want to be in. All you can do is be there as a friend if you choose to stay close. You already told ... (read in full...)
My ex suddenly lost interest in talking to me
Q. My ex broke up with me 3 months ago. I implemented NC and a month later she writes telling me how she misses me incredibly and wants to know if I've been thinking of her since she's been thinking about me. She continued to contact me often on afte...
A. 9 June 2010: She is your ex and might not want to be mean to you by telling you straight out not to call her. Giver her space and move on she is obviously not interested. ... (read in full...)
My ex has a girlfriend and she is pregnant so I want to leave him for good, but I need advice on how to do it!
Q. i been being with my ex for a while and i just found out that he's still with his GF and that she's prego.. he doesnt know that I know yet.... what amazes me is that when he come over he act's like nothing we get along great, he doesnt try to ...
A. 9 June 2010: He might miss you, you guys were together and broke up and than he continue to be with you even though he already had a new girlfriend, so I think if he hasn't been able to let you go it cause there must be some kind of feelings for you.
As lo... (read in full...)
I love my partner very much but I am worried he will never ask me to marry him!
Q. I have been in a relationship for 2 years we moved into together last Oct. I love him very much but I feel like he will never ask me to marry him. I know the past is the past but he was with someone for 8 years and never had any intenetion of marry ...
A. 9 June 2010: Guys don't want to be pressured into marriage but he had a history of being in a long relationship which ended up in a breakup. I believe in this case you do have to tell him how you feel. I agree with you if you want to get married he has to be in ... (read in full...)
How do you have a successfull FWB?
Q. Question: How do you have a successfull FWB? How am I supposed to act in this type of relationship? I think I want to do this because I don't want to be in a serious relationship right now because of my kids. So, the question is, am I supposed to ...
A. 9 June 2010: Don't fall in love, don't be controlling, and don't get jealous. ... (read in full...)
He wants me to give up my only "me" time or its a divorce!
Q. I have been with my husband for 13 years (married 8 years) and at first was very happy. He is a good man, with good values, but lets me do everything around the house and with the children while he pursues his rugby and associated social events. I...
A. 8 June 2010: If you sell this horse you are going to give him total control on you. If you have the money to clear the debt than use that money. People deserve to have activities, hobbies, something that will keep your mind busy and he should understand this ... (read in full...)
Does no sex = no relationship?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together 10 years. She is 47, I am 36. When we first met (as is usual) we had sex frequently. Within a year of my moving in, sex became less frequent and slightly painful for her. She went to her doctor and I was...
A. 20 April 2010: I think at your age sex is important even if not frequent but existing at least. I would go to the doctor with her and ask question maybe the doctor can offer you two a solution. I think you can be in a marriage without sex but I figure this is ... (read in full...)
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