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I can't trust myself not to cheat

Q.   Okay big problem I have a boyfriend, but we are both pretty young, his number one rule is do not cheat. well, I'm afraid i will break that rule. I've have a ton of relationships in the past so I know I can date. I have big problems with trust I ...

A.   2 February 2009:  why would you dump him, as long as you dont skrew up your ok...and if your feeling not loved then go on a date with him, or have a steammy romantic night with him and cuddle...and if its not possible for him to be around when your feeling lonely ... (read in full...)

I'm bisexual but not sure if I could get an erection over a woman

Q.   i am a bisexual man of 21 inclined towards men(i dont have much of erotic feelings for women except when i masturbate forcing myself to think of women).But i am attracted towards the female sex..i.e i love flirting with women.now i am seeing this ...

A.   2 February 2009:  you should tell her that your bi-sexuall and this would be your first relationship with a woman so she could understand..and tell her that you really wnat to try it out.. just relax, be romantic ejoy her compony and everything will come ito... (read in full...)

How to get rid of hormonal breakouts?

Q.   Urggg! My period just ended, so naturally, i'm a hormone fest... so i'm breaking out! joy. i tend to break out around my nose, and chin around my mouth if that helps. it's not too bad, luckily, but still! what can i do? what do you do when you get a ...

A.   2 February 2009:  wel im using skin id right now and it kinda works...... (read in full...)

I'm worried just in case I'm not fully developed...

Q.   Ok this might be a stupid topic but it took all my courage to ask this question. I'm seeing this girl, we're great mates and I really love her with my heart, she keeps trying sexual advances on me and well I'm kinda scared in case my penis isn't b...

A.   2 February 2009:  i understand your delema...i know how those things can effect someone , with rumors and everybody around your school kowing your business so before you tell her go to a clinic.. and have a tlk to her before you show her. tell her how yo... (read in full...)

I'm worried just in case I'm not fully developed...

Q.   Ok this might be a stupid topic but it took all my courage to ask this question. I'm seeing this girl, we're great mates and I really love her with my heart, she keeps trying sexual advances on me and well I'm kinda scared in case my penis isn't b...

A.   1 February 2009:  yeah i agree wiht "ellababesk" you should just be happy with your size and be more comfident of your "little bob" and be more confrotable and she'll be more comfortable with it too. and if your still worried then follow "armymedic's" advice a... (read in full...)

I'm worried just in case I'm not fully developed...

Q.   Ok this might be a stupid topic but it took all my courage to ask this question. I'm seeing this girl, we're great mates and I really love her with my heart, she keeps trying sexual advances on me and well I'm kinda scared in case my penis isn't b...

A.   1 February 2009:  dont worry man people ask this kinda question every single minute on this site.. as a teen myself so did i..but you shouldn't worry your probably still growing, your still in your teens the average male penis is 5 inches erect and in a couple y... (read in full...)

Next time I see my gym crush, what should I do?

Q.   I go to the gym about 3 times a week. For a while I liked one of the trainers but after realizing we had a big age diff. and he had a girlfriend I decided to move on. Today I went to the gym. When I got off the eliptical to use the weight machines...

A.   1 February 2009: Next time you see hi try to interact with him.. and and try to start a conversation with him and try to get to know him better just in case he already has a girlfriend and as it progresses ask him to take you to the dance. Good luck.... (read in full...)

Is it stupid to have a long distance relationship after a month of time together

Q.   Hey..Me and my girlfriend have been together for 3 months. we knew eachother before we started dating thru my ex-girlfriend (they had a falling out before we got together so it;s not an issue). Anyway we didnt talk for a while then before i came ...

A.   1 February 2009:  no thats not stupid at all...if you really feel that way then its all worth it..... (read in full...)

Self conscious about the size of my penis

Q.   i am 18 and i am a virgin. i have always been self concious about the size of my penis. i dont know if its average or big or anything. lengthwise, it is more than 7.25 inches, almost 7.5 inches and 5.25 inches in girth. i dont know if that would be ...

A.   1 February 2009:  dude what are you stressing about... your allright....you have a freakin 7 inch dick thats more than enough to satisfy a girl...!! the average male penis is around 5 inches so your overwhelmingly endowed bro your fine, dont worry gud... (read in full...)

I really feel as if I'm just missing out on life!

Q.   Okay, I'm 14. I've been feeling like I'm missing out on stuff. For example, I've never even had a boyfriend and I've never even kissed anyone. My friends have boyfriends and drama in their lives. Not that I want drama but I'm just rarely involved ...

A.   1 February 2009:  i understand.. im just like you except that im a 14 year old guy and i have kissed grls before and have a bunch of drama in my life wich i really hate but i never had a grlfriend and my parents dont allow me to have a socail life..so i mostly s... (read in full...)

My brand new BF bought me an anal sex toy for my birthday!

Q.   My very new boyfriend bought me an anal sex toy for my birthday only two weeks after we had met. Although I had told him that I have never had anal sex before and wouldn't mind finding out about it, I felt that it was way too rushed and made me feel ...

A.   1 February 2009:  well maybe becuz you said -" I had told him that I have never had anal sex before and wouldn't mind finding out about it"- made him think it waz an ok gift to give since you said you wouldnt find finding more about it and since he is now you ... (read in full...)

Lesbian in love with a guy!

Q.   ok, I have been aware that I am lesbien for a couple of years now. I am still not out the 'closet' or anything, but recently there has been this guy who I have spent alot of time with. I really like him, and want to be with him, but am not attracted ...

A.   1 February 2009: then be with him..if you feel so strongly(love) about him then be with him... see thats the thing people like different things and as you grow up they change... you could be bi.. so go ahead and explore..and see how it goes gudd luck peace... (read in full...)

I messed up! What can I do to get my girlfriend's trust back?

Q.   My girlfriend and I tried X the drug, well her mom hates me and the step dad also. My girlfriend's mom took all her stuff away for me to contact her with we have been sneaking around to see each other, she's 17 and I'm 19. What can I do to get her ...

A.   30 January 2009: Well I guess the only thing to do is for your girlfriend to come clean to her parents and tell them that it was her idea.. not yours and that you didn't want her to do it but she didn't listen... maybe they'll hear her out more and be more ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend won't finger me or do anything sexual for me?

Q.   Okay, well my boyfriend and I have now been in a relationship for over 4 months now; I am 17 and he is 18, and we both love each other very much. Yet I'm worried something is wrong because he won't touch me in any way more than touch my breasts. I ...

A.   30 January 2009:  he could just be shy and unexperienced..and he's scared to tell you, and scared that he wont do it right.. so you just need to assure him and make him feel comfortable..and have a tlk with him... (read in full...)

I messed up! What can I do to get my girlfriend's trust back?

Q.   My girlfriend and I tried X the drug, well her mom hates me and the step dad also. My girlfriend's mom took all her stuff away for me to contact her with we have been sneaking around to see each other, she's 17 and I'm 19. What can I do to get her ...

A.   29 January 2009:  you ned to have a heart felt talk with the parents and tell em how you feel.. how sorry you are and how much you want to be with their daughter.. explain yourself to them..apologize ... (read in full...)

He's moving too fast for me.

Q.   I've been dating this lad for a few week but we haven't met yet. I know it probably seems stupid but I've seen him in person before but didn't really talk to him properly and now he keeps asking to meet me and I just want him to lay off for a bit. I...

A.   29 January 2009: oh ok then.. isuggest you take lovesalias advice.... you should talk to him and tell him how you feel tell him your not ready yet... (read in full...)

He's moving too fast for me.

Q.   I've been dating this lad for a few week but we haven't met yet. I know it probably seems stupid but I've seen him in person before but didn't really talk to him properly and now he keeps asking to meet me and I just want him to lay off for a bit. I...

A.   29 January 2009:  how are you dating him, if you've never met him before???... (read in full...)

How do guys really feel about small boobs ?

Q.   Hey I'm 15 and I have small boobs and I wanna know why guys like big ones so much ? are small boobs bad ?Does it really matter to guys ? I need some guys to be honest here. it doesn't matter how old you are but I need answers!!!! i...

A.   29 January 2009:  yes some guys like big boobs, but they wont care about you're boobs they'll like you for you im a 14 year old guy and i thnk theres nothing wrong with you and not all guys like big boobs so you shouldn't worry about that, ok, you're 15 y... (read in full...)

What about guys that spend an eternity on their hair? What do girls think?

Q.   what do girls think of guys that spend an eternity on their hair? they seem to only go for guys with "hot hair". me and some other guys don't style our hair and girls don't seem interested in us. i think that its a tad metrosexual...

A.   29 January 2009:  yeah.. some grls wont go out with guy who doesnt have good hair.. i mean they're even showing it in commersials to make it even worse (axe shampoo commercials) but if the girl is not superficial and really likes you, she wont kare about your hai... (read in full...)

Should I trust him after being a jerk?

Q.   okay, so this guy used to be so mean to me and acted like a jerk, now my friend says that he can't stop thinking about me! i used to have a crush on him. he talked to me on the phone and said "dude i seriously can't stop thinking about you!" and it ...

A.   29 January 2009: I don't know, you should really be the judge of that. If this guy played with your heart before, then it's a bad sign but it doesnt mean you have to flat out say no, because people can change, I should know... you need to try and get to know him ... (read in full...)

Why do teenage girls always go after hot guys?

Q.   why do teenage girls never even give not so hot guys a chance? why do they feel awkward around ugly guys?...

A.   29 January 2009:  grlz always get attracted by the gudd looking guys.....yes this is true but they get turned off when they mature and finnally find out how much of a jerk most of them really are...then they seek what they really want in a guy, they look for wats ... (read in full...)

Do you think he might actually like me?

Q.   I'm usually into the more popular guys, and they all turn out to be huge jerks that only care about themselves,but now i like this one boy, hes a smart guy, , he is so cute and i really like him. He is friends with one of my best friends, and ive ...

A.   29 January 2009: Then take your chance and ask her out.. realizing that "most" of those poular guys are just jerks shows that you're really mature I think you should ask her out because it definitely seems like you guys have a connection.. you guys laugh and flir... (read in full...)

I don't know what to talk about

Q.   Im in high school and i have a girl in my class that i really like and I don't know if she likes me. I use to talk to her a lot because we sat right across from another, but now she's far away and i have trouble finding something to talk about. What ...

A.   28 January 2009:  hey man juss act natural..be yourself, you could tlk about anything, make her laugh. you cant got wrong with that, be playful.and as your relationship as close friends get stronger...if she's tlking about a guy that gets on her nerves or somting, ... (read in full...)

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