Should I worry that we have sex all the time?
Q. Me and my fiance have sex all the time. We love eachother and would die for one another, what we have is something special. We werent always like this. I was afraid to kiss her for the first 3 months we dated and after that i was terrified of sexual ...
A. 7 September 2008: As long as you are happy with it and your relationship isn't just about sex then no problem.
Continue to use protection. If she is not on the pill you should think about that too as using that AND condoms will pretty much keep you complete... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm constantly letting her down with my childish ways and my being possessive. How to change and prove her I have changed?
Q. I have been in a relationship for a year with a girl I've known forever (mums went to school together) and we love eachother alot. Only, recently I've realised that I'm very posessive. I work random hours and I'm at home alot and subsequentley ge...
A. 7 September 2008: Oh dear. Well it looks like it wasn't just your fault then. If she is too immature to move away from her parents yet then that is not your fault.
Living together can be really hard.
I'm sorry hun.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
What's a safe way to meet a boy from the internet?
Q. Hi, i'm really good friends with this boy i met online, and we have known each other for about 2 years, and we talk on the phone, and go on webcam and stuff, so i know he is him and everything, but the thing is i would quite like to meet him, and...
A. 7 September 2008: Normally I would say DON'T do it!! But if you have spoken on the phone and seen him on webcam then it is a little bit safer. He still could be a psycho or working for his dad. There was even a case of a woman who dressed up as a teenage boy and ... (read in full...)
How can I forget, once and for all, the guy I love?
Q. im heartbroken.....ive been dumped AGAIN for another woman....by the same man!! I should never of took him back after he did it the first time, but I did.....and I fell in love with him again, and now hes finished with me for someone else. I cant ...
A. 7 September 2008: Well the good news is that you are past the stage of going into self destructive spirals... you are here so you no longer want to curl up and die, you want to get over him.
You are going to need time away. Take a week of work, grab a girlfrie... (read in full...)
How do I get rid Guy A, because I really like Guy B....any advice?
Q. Hey im in a situation. I met these two guys online at a dating website. Guy A became interested in me, he talked for a little and then he starts getting very interested in sex and now that is all he talks about. When we talk online all he wants is ...
A. 7 September 2008: Sweet heart - Guy A is not going to care if you cut contact. He doesn't give a crap about you other than the fact you take part in his pervy fantasies. He won't even talk to you because he doesn't want to see your personality as that would ruin it. ... (read in full...)
He flirts at me and I flirt back, but I don't understand why his wife would be mad when I'm only in high school!
Q. About a year ago I met this cop in my town. Im only 17, and I never used to pay attention to him. Then I noticed he was really really cute, and I started talking to him. I found out he was married, but had only married a few months before then. He ...
A. 7 September 2008: She is aware that you are in the innocent party in this. She's pissed off because he's been flirting. He's just passing that blame onto you because he feels guilty.... and also because it's your fault too.
You are not an innocent High Schooler... (read in full...)
If my boyfriend cums on my vagina, can I get pregnant ?
Q. I'm a virgin and want to know, if my boyfriend cums on my vagina can I get pregnant even though my hymen isn't broken? Thanks ...
A. 7 September 2008: It's not incredibly likely but it can happen.
Why take the risk?
Safer is always better than sorry when it comes to pregnancy. Put some jeans on.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
My wife freaked and left me, when she found this other woman's business card! I would never cheat..how do I get her back?
Q. A co worker gave me their business card by putting it in my front shirt pocket (I'm a waiter). She wants to cover a shift of mine. I get home and I put the card on the counter and leave to pick up my wife. When we get home, I take her jacket and put ...
A. 7 September 2008: Wow! I think your wife is having a mild over reaction... I was not sure why she would act like this until you explained it all at the end - "she is pregnant with my first child."
Hormones are going to be going through her at a mile a minute, ... (read in full...)
We had unprotected sex last week. So after 7 days into it... would she be showing signs already that she might be pregnant??
Q. Hello, so, I am engaged, with a woman that I absolutely love, care for, and means the world to me. Randomly today she told me she was going to take a pregnancy test, she said it was nothing and no reason why... well I finally got it out of her. ...
A. 7 September 2008: If she's on the injection then the chances of her being pregnant are tiny compared to all the million other bugs that could be making her sick in the morning.
Don't get your hopes up.
If she is pregnant then you need to get her to a doctor ... (read in full...)
I didn't understand that he couldn't tell me where he was due to his military job. What can I say to him when I apologize?
Q. My crush is military and right now is in a location where it's supposed to be confidential. I send him a note making reference that he didn't want to tell me where he is. He replied and ask me to try and understand that he can't tell me where he...
A. 7 September 2008: I think he's going to understand.
If he's in the military then there are lots of things that he can't tell you.
My hubbie is in Iraq and we have a secret code.
Eg. If he's going out for McDonalds next week, it means he's off playing with Am... (read in full...)
I don't know if I should visit this guy I met on the internet...
Q. i have recently meet a turkish guy on the internet we talk everyday and send text messages,im beginning to really like him,he wants me to go over on holiday and see him for a week i really dont no what to do here because of the distance and stories ...
A. 7 September 2008: In fact here is a better website:
http://www.visitbritain.com/
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I don't know if I should visit this guy I met on the internet...
Q. i have recently meet a turkish guy on the internet we talk everyday and send text messages,im beginning to really like him,he wants me to go over on holiday and see him for a week i really dont no what to do here because of the distance and stories ...
A. 7 September 2008: Any one can fly to England! We have a booming tourist industry!
http://www.enjoyengland.com/
It's only if you over stay or work here that you get in trouble.
Turkey is not a member of the EU but I am pretty sure we aren't going to turn som... (read in full...)
My boyfriend joined the army and I want to go with him!
Q. hiya, ive been with my boyfriend for two years, and hes just joined the army, hes been in there for 5 months now, and i cant cope, im worried and scared and hurt that he will eventually be going to athganistan, im hurting so much you have no idea, ...
A. 7 September 2008: Woah sweetie you need to calm down.
Try this website:
www.forcesgirls.co.uk as a lot of the girls on there will be living in Cyprus already and will be able to advise.
Yes he will be off to Iraq / Afghanistan because they all go at s... (read in full...)
Do I have an infection in my big toe? What made it go green?
Q. right what does it mean when a aprt of your big toe has gone green? Is it just an infection? and is it easily sorted? its just down the side bit, not on the nail but on that area and then the bit of skin that goes down the right hand side of that ...
A. 7 September 2008: Call NHS Direct on 0845 46 47 right now. It could be gangrene and it could spread to the rest of your foot by Monday morning. If you like having a foot then DO IT!
If not then show your parents and get them to run you down the A&E unit.
Good Lu... (read in full...)
For the last two weeks or my brother's behaviour's become a bit weird, he fears ghosts, etc.
Q. I'm 24, and my younger brother's 19. For the last two weeks or so his behaviour's become a bit weird, far more than the usual teenage behaviour. He's began speaking in rhyme, only wanting to eat breakfast cereal for every meal, and claiming tha...
A. 7 September 2008: Wow, it sounds like something has gone seriously wrong in his head. Get him to see a GP because it could be a chemical thing caused by some illness.
Either that or he's discovered drugs. Get your parents on to it before he overdoses / dies of ... (read in full...)
How do I end my affair with my married boss?
Q. How in the world do I end my affair with my married boss? Never in a million years did I think I'd do something like this, and now that I have...I've gotten my feelings in too deep...advice!...
A. 7 September 2008: We can't do this any more. You're married. This is not the kind of person I want to be.
I'll start looking for a new job tomorrow. I expect a good reference or I am telling your wife.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about my height after a comment by this girl?
Q. I went on a few dates with a girl but nothing really picked up. A friend of mine ran into the girl randomly at a party and asked her what she thought of me. She said that I was a good person and a lot of fun but not what she was looking for. My ...
A. 6 September 2008: So you go out with this girl and it's just not working, you just don't click with her personality wise. It's nothing personal, it's net even something you can explain in words.
So then her best friend comes up to you and says "so how is it going... (read in full...)
My roomate's womanizing habits are affecting me!
Q. I am a freshmen in college and my roommate is a womanizer. Within the past two weeks he has walked in the room with 6 different girls. I feel like this is going to be a problem later on in the year. I feel strangely guilty that I know he is going ...
A. 6 September 2008: Set up a tally chart and when he walks in with a girl, walk up and mark another one off. Make a comment about how he's doing really well towards his goal of a hundred by christmas and give him a high 5.
If she storms out then she was after a ... (read in full...)
Is this love, lust, or infatuation?
Q. ok, iv been dating a guy for just over a month, we get on great, known each other for a while, i feel as though i love him , can this happen so soon? ive told him i love him to bits , and he has replied with the same answer, we can si...
A. 6 September 2008: It could be that you are in love with him!
Some people say you have to take a long time to fall in love - I personally knew I loved my husband after a few weeks.
It all just depends on the people.
In the end though does it really matter?
... (read in full...)
I don't know if I should visit this guy I met on the internet...
Q. i have recently meet a turkish guy on the internet we talk everyday and send text messages,im beginning to really like him,he wants me to go over on holiday and see him for a week i really dont no what to do here because of the distance and stories ...
A. 6 September 2008: Get him to see you instead!
You are the one who will be at risk by going to Turkey.
Online people are always a risk, when they are in a foreign country then that risk is 10 times as high.
Tell him to visit you if he wants to see you and giv... (read in full...)
I think my teacher quit because of me!
Q. my tecaher quit and i feel like it's my fault becuase i talked back to her and never did my work but everyone says she wanted a full time job, i feel so guilty it's already almost my third week of school! My whole class was so upset when they found ...
A. 6 September 2008: Go and talk to her head of department. They won't be able to discuss the fine details of why she quit but they should be able to tell you if it is not your fault.
But what I can tell you is to learn from this bad feeling. Don't talk back and do s... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to have fallen for my (dead) best friend's girlfriend?
Q. Just to start things off, my best friend went out with a girl for 2 years before coming to university. They broke it off in the first week of university. He then started going out with another girl, and they were going off and on for a year before ...
A. 6 September 2008: It's really common.
I am and army wife so I know a little bit (from others) about being a widow and it's really common for his friends to come on to you. It's some kind of pack instinct thing.
Plus a vulnerable woman always evokes powerful ... (read in full...)
Why would he said I was stalking him when he was the one who called me?
Q. at the end of the school year last year my friends told this one guy i liked him. i was pretty sure he liked me too. so in the middle of the summer he called me. which means he must like me, right?. every time he called he was with his friends and ...
A. 6 September 2008: Well he's 13 to 15 so he's a little boy. They act in stupid and immature ways. He probably doesn't even know what a stalker is.
If he's acting like this now when he is supposed to like you then imagine what he's going to be like as a boyfrien... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be virgin at 18?
Q. I'm a male, 18, and still a virgin but all of my friends aren't. I'm afraid that i will be made fun of for being a virgin if they ever find out. Is it normal to be a virgin at 18?...
A. 6 September 2008: Go to the right hand side of this site and click on the tag labelled "virginity."
We have kids that lose it at 13 - mostly complaining about pregnancy scares - and just as many that are waiting for the right person or are worried like you are.
... (read in full...)
My pomeranian wont stop peeing on our couch!
Q. We got out male pomeranian when he was 8 weeks old. He is now 2 years. We crate trained him when he was a baby and he has always let us know when he needs to go to the bathroom. For this whole week, he just stopped letting us know and went right on ...
A. 6 September 2008: Well he might have something wrong with him that is causing him to loose control. If you can afford a pedigree dog then I'm guessing you can afford to get a vet to look him over.
Other than that, has anything changed in the house? If somethin... (read in full...)
Is it possible to fix a broken marriage and bring its magic back?
Q. Ok my wife and separated. She rents one house and I rent the Other. She has the kids. Before this our marriage was like room mate. What if your always seen as an unfit husband by your wife. How do fix a broken marriage and how do you put back the...
A. 6 September 2008: Well don't try to bring up old problems. If she sees you as an unfit husband find out why.
Then start again and don't make those mistakes.
When you go round to see the kids, bring her flowers and encourage the kids to do well at school and he... (read in full...)
How do I tell my mom that I'm gay?
Q. well im almost 14 in like 2 months nd im gay im scared to tell my mom because everyone in my family thinks im trying to be like my sister and my sisters gay to and my dad is very religous and he told me not to tell him if i was ever gay but im ...
A. 6 September 2008: Well what would telling them achieve?
You aren't going to be bringing long term marriage prospects home for a few years yet.
The only time they need to know you are gay is when you meet someone who you think you want to move in and share your l... (read in full...)
My man has lied a lot about his "hobbies" and I don't know what to do about this.
Q. My man is not descriptive of his attraction regulars of women or new interests, he claims to be pristine as men go, he has lied alot and done repeated hidden female related actions (porn , small mistakes with othr women) I have found out on own or ...
A. 6 September 2008: Well you are writing about him as though he is a business proposal so I shall say this:
If he is lying about small mistakes then larger mistakes may follow or may exist but remain hidden.
As an investor in this project I would not be inclined ... (read in full...)
What is the contraceptive coil like?
Q. I am living with my boyfriend and we both have no STDs but we use condoms for contraceptive purposes. However, I do not like the feel of them as I find the way they crease uncomfortable. Plus I find them a hassle to always think about, they decrease ...
A. 5 September 2008: I know you had a bad experience from the pill once but there are a million different varieties. I've been on 4 of them, 2 bad and 2 fine.
I have been told the coil is uncomfortable if you haven't had a baby because you are too tight down there.
... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm constantly letting her down with my childish ways and my being possessive. How to change and prove her I have changed?
Q. I have been in a relationship for a year with a girl I've known forever (mums went to school together) and we love eachother alot. Only, recently I've realised that I'm very posessive. I work random hours and I'm at home alot and subsequentley ge...
A. 5 September 2008: Just to give you perspective - I haven't seen my husband in 115 days. He's in Iraq.
48 hours is NOTHING!
Get yourself a game cube and go on a monster zelda marathon. I can spend 2 days just doing that.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
When I tell him of the hurt he's caused me, he passes the blame to me! Why is he doing this?
Q. I have a friend who says he is in love with me. We are really great friends, however, i am not sure if i am ready for a relationship. What I can't understand is that whenever I try to speak to him about some emotional hurt he has caused to me, he ...
A. 5 September 2008: He's doing it because he is immature and has found it is easy to make you take the blame so he won't have to admit he is wrong.
He will continue like this for the rest of your life. He will never take the blame and always say it is because ... (read in full...)
What would happen if I did become pregnant and I didn't know and I was still taking the pills? I don't have any periods at all, and I've taken the pills for the past 3 years daily.
Q. I have been with my partner for nearly 3 years now and he recently proposed to me. He has openly told me about the amount of girlfriends he has had and what ones he'd slept with. When we got together i said i would go onto the mini pill- as we, and ...
A. 5 September 2008: The only things you need to be worried about are Chlanydia, and HPV - the silent STDs. You both may have them and not know about it.
You can get checked very easily at your local GUM clinic.
As for the Mini pill your doctor would have taken... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm constantly letting her down with my childish ways and my being possessive. How to change and prove her I have changed?
Q. I have been in a relationship for a year with a girl I've known forever (mums went to school together) and we love eachother alot. Only, recently I've realised that I'm very posessive. I work random hours and I'm at home alot and subsequentley ge...
A. 5 September 2008: She's still angry with you so it is too easy for you to say, "look I have changed" when you are together. Your problems come when she is not with you.
She's cancelled your cinema date because she's still to angry with you to sit and hold hands. S... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm constantly letting her down with my childish ways and my being possessive. How to change and prove her I have changed?
Q. I have been in a relationship for a year with a girl I've known forever (mums went to school together) and we love eachother alot. Only, recently I've realised that I'm very posessive. I work random hours and I'm at home alot and subsequentley ge...
A. 5 September 2008: Then stop doing it.
Stop texting her while she is at work. Buy her flowers and apologise for the things you said. Stop harassing her just because she wants to go out with her friends.
If you recognise the things you are doing then you have th... (read in full...)
Is it normal to worry about your wife cheating on you during a deployment?
Q. Is it normal to worry about your wife cheating on you during a deployment? It's hard to not think about it from time to time. I feel I worry more because of my cirmcumstances. I have'nt even known my wife for a full year, about 10 months. Theres a...
A. 5 September 2008: It's perfectly normal to worry. I'm an army wife and I know that one of the other wives here on base is the subject of rumours about cheating. This guy who's the squadron driver is giving her lifts everywhere...
Now I know for a fact that she thin... (read in full...)
How do I get his attention?
Q. my boyfriend loves me a lot..but whneevr hes wid his frnds he doesnt attend my calls..nor reply to my msg..at dat gves mre importnce to his frnds rather thn m...tell m wht to do so dat he realise my importnce in his life??/ wht shld gals tok abt...
A. 5 September 2008: You have to give him some space when he is out with his mates. He should think you are important but he's not your servant. Leave him to it.
As for what to talk about, talk about everything, talk to him about all your dreams and hopes in life.
... (read in full...)
He lies to me constantly...is he cheating on me?
Q. hi pls help, my head is a mess! iv been with my bf for 2months, he was in a r/ship for 6yrs b4 me, iv had doubts with trust becus he lies to me so much, once i was stoppin at his mates with him n they thought i was asleep n thy were talking about ...
A. 5 September 2008: It sounds like your boyfriend is a complete low life. Even his mates are warning you to dump him now before he locks you up.
Whether he is cheating on you or not doesn't matter, even though it sounds like he is.
He's scum and he's treating yo... (read in full...)
My best friend's older boyfriend is trying to force himself on me.
Q. My bestfriends boyfriend is always flirting with me and trying to touch me and i hate when we hang out together and he is right there staring at me and one day we went to the movies together for her birthday i sat next to them and he sat in the ...
A. 5 September 2008: Go and talk to your friends mother and father, they saw everything. Apologise for freaking out and explain you didn't know what to do. Tell them that this guy keep grabbing you. They will not want their daughter going out with someone like this. ... (read in full...)
Is a 19 year old boy to old for a 14 year old girl?
Q. so its this boy that just turned 19 that likes me and im 14 so does tha age difference matter? he is soooooo sexy and fine i ant him soo bad but idk...
A. 5 September 2008: Yes he's too old.
If you were 20 and he was 25 it would be fine. But you are not, you are 2 years under the age of consent, you haven't even started gcses yet!
As Ally said, I really don't think he's after you because he loves your personality... (read in full...)
I'm engaged, but seem to have no other social life or friends.
Q. Its taken a bit of courage to write this. I am 19, and have been with my fiancee for 3 years. Is it wierd that i dont have any friends? When i was in school and particulary college, i was very left out and it was rare that i was asked to go out to ...
A. 5 September 2008: Well it could have been a vicious circle, you got invited out, but didn't feel confident in talking to people and getting involved, then you went home early, so then people stop asking you out because you sit looking lonely and go home early.
... (read in full...)
Cosmo says sex should last 45 minutes. What do you do all that time?
Q. Hi I have a question about sex. Basically, I just read in cosmopolitan that 34% of a poll of men thought the best length of time to spend having sex was 45 minutes. As a virgin, I was just wondering how you have sex for a length of tim eth...
A. 5 September 2008: 1. Seeing him looking cute doing something - 0 mins
2. going and kissing him - 2 mins
3. him getting up and kissing you back - 2 mins
4. heading upstairs - 1 min
5. kissing and groping and undressing - 7 mins
6. foreplay of various kinds - 15 m... (read in full...)
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